How do you feel about paying for sex?

[PAyoungCPL]

I have allways wanted to visit a brothel dont know why just something I have wanted to do just once. I wanted to take a trip out to vegas next year, no problem there. But when ever i told the misses that i wanted to stop by the Bunny ranch she was in disbelife. It was a definite NO. I can respect that but i am still somewhat confused by the response. She said she does not have a reason but just hates the thought of it. So I was just curious about how other swingers feal about paying for sex. Not on a regular basis but just a one time thing at a well established location with workers who have regular std test.

[JustAskJulie]

Why pay for what you can get for free?

[EvilMJ]

Dito Dito Dito YOu took the words right out of my mouth Juile

[jcbicouple]

Does it really matter? It's your fantasy, and if it turns you on, it turns you on. However, it sounds like it needs to stay a fantasy since your wife isn't comfortable with it.
Frankly, I wouldn't be comfortable with it either: Here are beautiful young women who are actually professional sex mistresses. Hmmmm... Sounds like a pretty natural reaction to not want your husband to experience that without your involvement (doubt they have couples deals).

[JustAskJulie]

I would think they probably do JCBi, which brings up a good question, was it just that she didn't want you to experience it without her? Or is it an idea she is against whether she is with you or not?

[good times]

I live about 20 minutes from the Moonlight Bunny Ranch and even closer to several other brothels and I've never been to one yet. But as others have said if it is your thing, go for it, asuming you can get the wife to warm up to the idea.

One note though, The Bunny Ranch is an 7-8 hour drive from Las Vegas. The Chicken Ranch is closer to Vegas but I don't know how close it is.

[VegasLee]

The Chicken Ranch and Shari's Ranch are 45 minutes from Las Vegas. There is no legal places anywhere in Vegas or Clark County.

The good thing is both of the Ranchs will send limo's out for you though.

[CB_n_Red]

I've never paid for it in all my 48 years and I certainly wouldn't start now!

CB

[PAyoungCPL]

JC--I wanted it to be both of us to go not just me i should of specified.
It is something i would never do behind the misses back. I should go a little further and say we are a young couple who are both very openminded and have swung full swap. We have been to both on and off premise clubs and have met many wonderful people so it wasnt just an exucuse to have sex with anouter lady because that could easly be done without driving anywhere.
(we live in a college town and know many attractive young bi women some who we played with before, some are just good friends that the possibility is there and some have let us know the it is a def. possibility should we persue it.) I posted just wondering how everone else felt about the subject its just something i was curious about and would never try to convince the boss to do something she didnt want to or didnt want me to do. She said she just had a huge problem with the thought of paying for sexual favors. We have been to a few clubs but neither one of us think of the donation as paying for sex. Im not 100% sure why i wanted to go to a brothel but thinking about what jcbicouple said i may of just wanted to pick a random professional sex mistress that i got to pick out how she looked and acted. I know its not actully a swinger ? but i figured that most of the people are pretty open minded about sexual topics that i have seen on this site and i was interested in the response. thanxxx for the time and responses.

I know one thing I am(and really any other swinger) lucky as all hell to be in a relationship that if either of us walk into a room that the other is having wild sex we just smile and laugh. So if she insist that we dont pay for sex and only engage in it for free its no loss. it was just a random fantasy that i have had since i saw the place on hbo on night. I have lived most of the other fantasies i have had and i am just going to place the brothel one with the me+wifey+angelina jolie+britney spears one in the its only a fanasy and its going to stay that way folder. thanxxx

[PAyoungCPL]

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they do however have couples packages if anyone else is interested facelick

[jcbicouple]

Originally Posted by PAyoungCPL

JC--I wanted it to be both of us to go not just me i should of specified.
It is something i would never do behind the misses back. I should go a little further and say we are a young couple who are both very openminded and have swung full swap. We have been to both on and off premise clubs and have met many wonderful people so it wasnt just an exucuse to have sex with anouter lady because that could easly be done without driving anywhere.
(we live in a college town and know many attractive young bi women some who we played with before, some are just good friends that the possibility is there and some have let us know the it is a def. possibility should we persue it.) I posted just wondering how everone else felt about the subject its just something i was curious about and would never try to convince the boss to do something she didnt want to or didnt want me to do. She said she just had a huge problem with the thought of paying for sexual favors. We have been to a few clubs but neither one of us think of the donation as paying for sex. Im not 100% sure why i wanted to go to a brothel but thinking about what jcbicouple said i may of just wanted to pick a random professional sex mistress that i got to pick out how she looked and acted. I know its not actully a swinger ? but i figured that most of the people are pretty open minded about sexual topics that i have seen on this site and i was interested in the response. thanxxx for the time and responses.

I know one thing I am(and really any other swinger) lucky as all hell to be in a relationship that if either of us walk into a room that the other is having wild sex we just smile and laugh. So if she insist that we dont pay for sex and only engage in it for free its no loss. it was just a random fantasy that i have had since i saw the place on hbo on night. I have lived most of the other fantasies i have had and i am just going to place the brothel one with the me+wifey+angelina jolie+britney spears one in the its only a fanasy and its going to stay that way folder. thanxxx

Have you thought about maybe having your wife, or one of your female playmates "play the part" for you? You could pay them (or pay the female parts hubby/bf) and get your fantasy without really paying for it. They could just leave the money lay when they left, or give it back the next day, so it wouldn't spoil the atmosphere of the fantasy by giving it back. Kind of a role play thing.

[BradAndJanet]

PAyoungCPL, I'd love to visit one once too. I guess I'm just curious about the sex industry and how it works. Actually, I'd just love to sit down with some of those ladies and talk with them about how they got started, how they like the job, etc. Of course, I'd have to check out how they performed their services too!

-B

[Russ]

You've got to be kidding! A swinging couple or husband going to a cat house? Quick, give your wife the check book and all the credit cards.

[GFandME]

GF thought it was a better idea for us to get started with a girl we paid for. It made sense to me too. this way she could find out if she did indeed like the lifestyle and seeing me with another girl. we spoke about it in depth and had a few rules too. it all worked out perfectly.

she liked that there was no way there would be any chance of the other girl falling in love with me this way. it was a good test for the first time.

and the paid for girl is always a fun girl, she's paid to be !

[Dave_kat]

Dave

We were swinging before I went to Kosovo, and had already adjusted for the fact that I was going to be gone for quite a few months.

I was there for a couple of months when they started rotating the soldiers through Bulgaria, and I bided my time until I'd heard what was going on there. Trust me, the stories were rather raunchy about what was basically offered right there.

Anyway, I sent a few emails back to my wife asking "what about this, what about this" and her response was to go ahead and if something ended up being thrown in my face, have fun, just be safe.

Well, my Battle Buddy was single, and the second night there decides he wants to go see what these brothels are about. So we go. The whole time I'm there, he's all trying to figure out which girl he wants to go have fun with and the girls are trying to get me interested. Taking off their shirts, trying to get me naked, that sort of thing. Basically it was getting to be a pretty wild party.

The whole time I'm thinking to myself "these girls just want my money, and they are there to earn it." Well, I couldn't get around that thought and couldn't even get it up to do something if I wanted to. They weren't there for fun (a few spoke German, 1 spoke English, and I was getting stories about how they HAD to do this to pay rent or some other thing, and not one would admit to liking it. Boy was I glad the pimp couldn't speak German)

If it floats your boat, go for it. Me, I could never pay for something from someone not wanting to do it just for the fun of it.