Male Multiple Orgasm (Holy Grail or Tall Tale?)

[Spoomonkey]

So I find myself constantly working to improve my game... I have increased my stamina and decreased my refractory period (I snap back like a new rubber band!). I have mastered old positions and experiemented with new ones. I have increased my penis size and thought more about issues like clothes and hygeine than ever before...

I don't know why - but this whole sex thing really, really fascinates me...

And I want to one day be able to say that I am good at it...

So I read, exercise, experiment, etc. all in the endless quest of Mrs Spoomonkey's mind-blowing orgasm...

I found this book, by Mrs Spoomonkey's favorite sex author (yeah, she does weird stuff like this too ) and it is about the male multiple orgasm. Basically, it is a way in which a man can have an orgasm, but not ejaculate and thus not loose his erection. And as you learn the techniques, you are supposed to be able to do this as many times as you want...

To which I say, "fuckin' A!"

I have started on the exercises and after a week have noticed some benefits in the intensity of my orgasm and the distances I am able to achieve. (Why do we like that guys; being able to hit stuff at a distance?) But the program is really, really long...

So I am wondering - is there anyone out there who is familiar with this?

Am I weird? (rhetorical, obviously)

Or has no one else even heard about this?

Am I going to chase this holy grail only to be left limp at disappointing times? Or will I finally get to the point when I can keep up with the every ready simian, Mrs Spoo?

Just curious...

Spoomonkey

[good times]

I'm pretty sure I read that same book Spoo. I stuck with it for about two weeks and the gave up as it didn't seem to be having the desired effect. I seemed to be able to have more orgasms but they weren't as good. So if you stick it out longer, or have different results, please let me know how it works.

What...you....wierd, nah! I would be able to tell because I'm totally normal, my imaginary friend said so.

[BradAndJanet]

I haven't tried it, but if you give me the name of the book, I'll give it a go and let you know.

You're only as weird as I am...but I don't know if that's a good thing or not!

-B

[cumply21]

Sounds very interesting. What is the name of this favorite sex author? I'm interested in reading some of that material.

[stoutgatte]

Read about the same technique... A long time ago when I was still young and masturbated often, I had this down pat, it sucked, big time... The effect it had for me was to reduce the intensity of the actual orgasm when I got there/allowed it to happen...

For some reason I can't do it anymore... Maybe someone else had a better experience, please share if you did...

[couplentulsa]

I snap back like a new rubber band!

it is about the male multiple orgasm. Basically, it is a way in which a man can have an orgasm, but not ejaculate and thus not loose his erection.

SOOOO true!!!

Ok, yes it is true! (male half here) I have never read any books on it and have never even seen a posting about this before.....i was wondering how many other men can do this? I have been able to have multiple orgasms for a few years now and really recommend every guy to look it up and definetly do some self exploration.

[mixedcouple3426]

I discovered male orgasm without ejeculation on my own by just wanting to not ejeculate too early.At first during intercourse I would have to pull out often but now I can stop momentarily while still inside.I can do this all night if need be and it never lasts long enough(the pause in thrusting) for the gf to get impatient.She loves the feeling of me pulsating inside of her.I'm pretty sure it has something to do with the PC muscle and using that to stop the flow.I find that usually my orgasms are more intense when using this technique and the result is more like an all throughout the body flood of intense energy.Some of my orgasms have been so intense that it was almost like an out of body experience.Sometimes although it's been rare,I have been able to stop my ejeculation half way through,pause for a moment,continue thrusting and let loose the other half which have been the most intense orgasms I've ever had.I would like to think that this type of orgasm is similar to female orgasms -evil grin.For practice,if you can stop the flow of urine repeatedly when going to the bathroom then you can stop your ejeculation,it's the same process.Men,it's time to celebrate as multiple orgasms arent just for women anymore!

mixedcouple3426

[taomaster]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Basically, it is a way in which a man can have an orgasm, but not ejaculate and thus not lose his erection. And as you learn the techniques, you are supposed to be able to do this as many times as you want...

This is the technique taught in Taoist Sexual Yoga. I suspect you have been reading the book by Mantak Chia and yes, it does work. It took me more than three years however to really understand and master it. Maybe I'm a slow learner though

There's much more to it than simply not ejaculating while experiencing orgasmic energy. The real key is to pull the orgasmic energy up the spine and circle it back down to create the 'Microcosmic Orbit'. This has many benefits for health as well as being an excellent way of spreading orgasmic energy into a 'full-body orgasm'.

The Multi-Orgasmic Couple is a good introduction to this and is a bit easier to follow than Chia's original book.

I can basically last as long as I like now (provided I stay conscious and don't get too carried away by new and novel experiences ) but Chia does recommend that an erection should be given a breather every 20 minutes or so to avoid 'overheating'!

The technique does nothing for 'first time nerves' however.

[Spoomonkey]

Actually, the book is by Barbara Keesling and it's titled "How To Make Love All Night."

I'm glad to hear that some people have found it to be an exciting possibility.

I'll run on ahead researching and let everyone know how it goes

Spoomonkey

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by taomaster

. . .The real key is to pull the orgasmic energy up the spine and circle it back down to create the 'Microcosmic Orbit'. This has many benefits for health as well as being an excellent way of spreading orgasmic energy into a 'full-body orgasm'.

Mr LM started experiencing full-body orgasm for the first time after we began expanding our sexual activities with each other by trying many new things. At this same time we were discussing our pursuit of swinging. The experience amazed him and ME! To watch him is mind-blowing for me. He looks like he's in pain, but he says he isn't. Do you experience this taomaster?

Originally Posted by mixedcouple3426

I'm pretty sure it has something to do with the PC muscle and using that to stop the flow. I find that usually my orgasms are more intense when using this technique and the result is more like an all throughout the body flood of intense energy.

You men have got me thinking, maybe you need to work on PC tension--and release--as many women do when working up to orgasm.

From my experience, tightening my PC muscle totally sets me up for a specific type of over-the-top orgasm, which is what I work towards every time and do achieve. It is different than the smaller orgasms I have which come about if I don't tighten my PC muscle but instead push down and relax the muscle (this also allows me to ejaculate if I wish).

I'm really curious as to how men physically feel--and what men conscioiusly do physically--to achieve orgasm. Do you use any of the PC techniques I described?

LM

[taomaster]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

To watch him is mind-blowing for me. He looks like he's in pain, but he says he isn't. Do you experience this taomaster?

Indeed. She sometimes wonders on earth is going on

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

You men have got me thinking, maybe you need to work on PC tension--and release--as many women do when working up to orgasm.

You're obviously an intuitive - 100% correct. The fun bit is if you do the exercises while someone is watching, and you're erect at the same time, as it can be most entertaining.

Now the Taoists have exercises where one puts wet towels on ones 'Jade Stalk' to build up ones strength but, in my experience, this is not necessary (unless you've got specific goal in mind like lifting your partner up using your PC muscles!).

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Do you use any of the PC techniques I described?

Daily

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by taomaster

You're obviously an intuitive - 100% correct. The fun bit is if you do the exercises while someone is watching, and you're erect at the same time, as it can be most entertaining.

Doesn't every man do this "exercise" to entertain his wife

I've been watching Mr LM do his "push ups" for thirty years.

LM

[BradAndJanet]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Actually, the book is by Barbara Keesling and it's titled "How To Make Love All Night." ...

Man, do we have the best library system in the country or what? They own seven copies of it! I've just reserved it online and they'll email me when it comes in (pun intended )

-B

[cumply21]

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

Man, do we have the best library system in the country or what? They own seven copies of it! I've just reserved it online and they'll email me when it comes in (pun intended )

-B

You are really lucky. Our library only has one copy. I reserved it and it is going to be a very long wait.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

Man, do we have the best library system in the country or what? They own seven copies of it! I've just reserved it online and they'll email me when it comes in (pun intended )

So Brad and Spoomonkey get to race...

Honestly - having met you... I feel a bit intimidated...



Spoomonkey