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Do you do "Dirty Talk" or not?

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I have recently made a comment to a thread from another member podcast regarding "dirty talk" , very instructive.

 

However, my wife and I have tried this dirty talk many times and always comes down her being distracted or lose concentration of her arousal, she says she prefers the surprise or spontaneity of the moment than having to picture the script on her head while I do the talking, so I wonder how many women out there like the dirty talk or like being degraded (words like bitch, slut...) during sex or if you rather have the talk prior the play as a foreplay or you feel more open doing the dirty talk with your playmate than your hubby??

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Love dirty talk. When done right it can push me over the edge! When I am with someone who is not very good I encourage and guide them into what works best for me. I will say while I am totally fine with stuff like "slut" the word "bitch" is a no-no! :nono: I have no logical explanation! It just ticks me off!

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It used to be really hard for me to form coherent enough thoughts to talk during sex. It would actually frustrate me, and ruin the moment, if pushed. Luckily, I've worked on it over time and seem to have broken the barrier.

 

Currently, dirty talk of one sort or another is part of our sex most of the time. It's not necessarily a script, and it's not throughout the whole session. Generally, when things get intense, there's less chatter.

 

Sometimes though, it's what puts me over the edge... she'll say something shocking and very slutty, and combined with the sensations, it's like BANG!!!

 

Good stuff. I highly recommend it.

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In my opinion "dirty talk" is almost always distracting and not very erotic at all.

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Dirty talk can be sexy as long as it stays respectful, nothing wrong with saying something like "Honey, you look so fucking sexy!", or "Come on baby, swallow that big cock... that's it sweety, just a little more."

 

But something like, "Spread'em you fucking whore." not so sexy.

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There is a time and a place for it. We definitely do it. My wife is somewhat of an exhibitionist. I will whisper various scenarios into her ear about being at a club and that she is the center of attention. It really turns her on! Once we find the right club, we plan on trying that out!

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torenzo said:

Dirty talk can be sexy as long as it stays respectful, nothing wrong with saying something like "Honey, you look so fucking sexy!", or "Come on baby, swallow that big cock... that's it sweety, just a little more."

 

But something like, "Spread'em you fucking whore." not so sexy.

 

We both love dirty talk, it is usually a big turn-on...but I agree with several here. For us, "whore" and "bitch" just does not work, I will simply shut down. Other than that, depending on the mood-the more the better.

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Love dirty talk. When done right it can push me over the edge! When I am with someone who is not very good I encourage and guide them into what works best for me. I will say while I am totally fine with stuff like "slut" the word "bitch" is a no-no! :nono: I have no logical explanation! It just ticks me off!

I'm the same way. SSH calls me slut sometimes (although we use it more as a joke than actual dirty talk) but no bitch. Sometimes when he is cut off in traffic he will call someone a bitch and I will get on his ass.

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Love dirty talk but no rude name calling. Love encouragement like stated above "you enjoying this soaking wet pussy" "take all this big dick" all the fun stuff that makes things hotter. Plus knowing the other person is enjoying themselves is great.

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The thing about dirty talk, is the timing has to be right as well. J has said a million times "talk to me" while having sex. Never was I able to do it without laughing or losing my 'concentration'. But now and then I can sense she will like it when I have something to say. Since I have this goofy voice that sounds like the guy announcing the monster truck rally, I have to get really close and barely whisper. But she goes bug nuts.

 

Concerning names, early on she provided a list of names she won't tolerate. Funny thing, she added 'slut' after we started being sluts.

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I like dirty talk. Slut is my favorite name calling, but I don't mind bitch or whore or other creative names if it's someone I know well and we are acting. It can be really hot.

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I love talking dirty to my wife for example whos my slut etc. i think it turns me on and i only do it while having sex bcuz when i feel more excited then my cock gets harder. She will enjoy more of sex . You can say like role play bur without no rehearsal. In fact sometime i dont believe i say those vulger language to her and as long as she knows its for sex purposes only. Im in the clear

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Yes, it can be a huge turn-on when done well.

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I never talked dirty during sex until we started doing MFM's. Now, I do hear myself saying things like, "Oh yes, really give to me," perhaps more words of encouragement than actual dirty talk. In terms of responding to dirty talk, as someone else said, timing is everything. If I'm really getting hot, if he spanks my ass a few times and says, "Be a nasty slut," I am. Perhaps even more so if we are in an MFM, the presence of the other guy makes it even more erotic.

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I didn't use to, I would have felt too awkward, but my hubby loves dirty talk and now I have a filthier mouth than him LOL I think it catches some play partners off guard a bit when I do it but mostly they seem to like it. We rein it in with friends but when it's just the two of us, it's on! We give voice to each other's naughtiest fantasies in explicit detail, such a turn on!

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I guess I've seen too many porns but I LOVE dirty talk....every nasty, vulgar name you can call me or vice versa. Turns me on to no end. It's all acting and fun IMO...no offense taken. It's sex, it's meant to be wild and fun...verbal participation only adds to the Physical stimulation

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