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I think I can speak for most men including myself that guy's really get turned on by watching a women masturbate to completion. Does it do anything for you women to watch a guy go at it alone?

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Yes. There is something beautifully vulnerable about inviting someone else into such a private space, plus it's definitely a turn on.

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Not a woman here but I know how much it turns Mrs TSS on to watch a guy self pleasureing himself. Many years ago just after we became FWB's she walked in on me and the light in her eyes was a thing to behold. She sat at the end of my bed and just stared. Once I got over the shock of getting "caught" and realized what it was doing to her I kept going. It wasn't long before her hand was under her dress as she joined me. After we had both finished we spent the next few hours in a sexual heaven.

 

Ever since then I have used my knoweldge to get things started.

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Absolutely - like Maui said, him letting me into his most private act is a turn on.

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I also enjoy watching a man masturbate. Brian and I often masturbate together, sitting opposite each other and watching as we bring ourselves to the brink then backing off and continuing until we finally let go and have our orgasms. I love to watch the cum shooting out of Brian's cock - it is very erotic. Many years ago we went to a few Jack and Jill parties where I enjoyed watching several guys masturbating to completion as I played with myself - it was quite a turn on.

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I'll be the odd duck - I don't find it exciting unless I am somehow involved. Pretty much same goes for watching people have sex. I have to have a personal stake in it for it to turn me on. Now, I can appreciate the aesthetics, enjoy the open atmosphere, and all of that anytime (part of the reason I love swing clubs) but it won't arouse me unless I'm a part of it.

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I love it when my man does it - I think it is super hot and also makes me feel very close to him. Having watched a few others do it during playtime though (like when they are preparing to jump back in) it was not erotic to me at all. And I'm somewhat the same as u km34, if its not my partner I'm watching having sex, then I'm not really that interested after the first minute or so. Unless of course they have some incredible athleticism or something, but then it's more like 'wow how the hell are they doing that!'

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I also enjoy watching a man masturbate. Brian and I often masturbate together, sitting opposite each other and watching as we bring ourselves to the brink then backing off and continuing until we finally let go and have our orgasms. I love to watch the cum shooting out of Brian's cock - it is very erotic. Many years ago we went to a few Jack and Jill parties where I enjoyed watching several guys masturbating to completion as I played with myself - it was quite a turn on.

 

My wife loves it when I do that for her! In fact we were talking about her friend this weekend, and I said maybe next time we hang out with her I could touch myself to completion while they both watch...at the time she agreed, but I don't know if it will actually happen.

 

So I didn't realize, "Jack and Jill parties" are what that is called when people get together and masturbate in front of each other? Is that all that happens at those parties? I might suggest that to my wife if we could somehow find one around where we live.

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It can be hot in most of the settings that you described. We engage in mutual masturbation and find it very hot.

 

But we have been to parties where there were single guys wandering around watching everyone and whackin' it. NOT sexy.

 

Maybe it all depends on the circumstances.

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I'll be the odd duck - I don't find it exciting unless I am somehow involved. Pretty much same goes for watching people have sex. I have to have a personal stake in it for it to turn me on. Now, I can appreciate the aesthetics, enjoy the open atmosphere, and all of that anytime (part of the reason I love swing clubs) but it won't arouse me unless I'm a part of it.

 

I can definitely relate to this. Sitting back and watching a woman masturbate where that will be the extent of my involvement is great, but won't keep my attention. If I know that I will be involved at some point, the anticipation of what will unfold keeps my attention and is very arousing. Is that what you meant as well? Or did you mean actual physical involvement?

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I think I can speak for most men including myself that guy's really get turned on by watching a women masturbate to completion. Does it do anything for you women to watch a guy go at it alone?

 

Yes! I really enjoy that but can't get my husband to do it to completion often.

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I'll be another odd one out. I don't find it sexy at all. I -love- to watch a girl, but penises are not as cute lol.

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Penis popping Petra here. As foreplay I enjoy seeing a guy working his pecker a little to get it up, but then put it where it belongs! If one of my guys has an orgasm outside one of the girls' pussies, or at least another orifice, I consider it a waste. Masturbation is nowhere near as satisfactory as regular, straight ahead, PIV screwing. I enjoy lots of things as foreplay, but there is only one way to finish, and the flow of manly juices inside the woman is essential. Clair, hubby and Red totally agree. Sorry if we're not freaky enough.

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When I'm too tired for sex my hubby likes for me to tell him dirty stories while he masturbates :) I like to watch him get more excited the filthier I get

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Yes, frequently I do. This is not something that my husband does. We use to be on LifestyleloungeDotcom and they you could simply open up a video chat, stream you visit and have others join. Some guys would do it and just sit there or lay there and masturbate. On the one hand, I think that is a bit outside the norm and would never do anything with such a person; on the other hand, seeing a lean, hard body, nicely hung guy stroking it would turn me on, make my mouth water. I guess that means I'm as far off the norm as they are, maybe a bit further.

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When I'm too tired for sex my hubby likes for me to tell him dirty stories while he masturbates :) I like to watch him get more excited the filthier I get

 

When I'm too tired for sex (and Clair isn't available), my husband tells me dirty stories (usually about one of his past girlfriends) while stroking himself, I get jealously excited, spread my legs for him, cum real good and sleep real well. Hubby knows there are rare times when being tired it takes him a couple of tries to get me started, but once I get going...

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I definitely do, it's something super sexy about watching my husband jerk. We sometimes finish this way while I suck his nipples and when he comes I suck it out of him. We both enjoy that thoroughly.

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I know that when we can't be together, mishu loves to talk about and get pics/vid of me stroking myself. In person though, it seems sort of a waste. I mean, I like my own hand, but it's so much more fun to have help.

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Not for me. I get mad at Alan when he starts to play with himself. Maybe he does it just to let me know he needs help.

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Not for me. I get mad at Alan when he starts to play with himself. Maybe he does it just to let me know he needs help.

 

My sentiments exactly. I don't mind if hubby or Red gives it to another woman, but please, don't waste it. Fortunately, my guys think that a woman feels better than anything else.

 

Brings to mind the Woody Allen quote: “Don't knock masturbation. It's sex with someone you love.”

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O ya! Love watching guys stroking, and their balls moving. I had an ex that would sit on the couch and stroke for an hour or more. I'd watch him get so worked up and cum so hard it would shoot about 2 feet straight up. Fucking hot. Getting wet thinking about it.

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O ya! Love watching a guy stroking, and their balls moving. I had an ex that would sit on the couch and stroke for an hour or more. I'd watch him get so worked up and cum so hard it would shoot about 2 feet straight up ( looks like it! LoL ) . Fucking hot. Getting wet thinking about it.

Amazing!

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I am a totally visual woman so I absolutely love this. I love to watch my husband stroking his cock and love to see him cum. Whenever we are with another man I love watching - I love it that they will let me into that secret world. It’s exciting to watch their cocks get hard and compare how much cum they shout. Getting steamy thinking about it!!

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I do. Especially if I know they're thinking about me or looking at me (well, a pic of me) :blush: Such a turn on!

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I do. Especially if I know they're thinking about me or looking at me (well, a pic of me) :blush: Such a turn on!

 

I masturbated while looking at your tit pics and I will do it again. You have beautiful breasts.

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Absolutely - I love spreading my legs for a couple of guys and watching them stroke their cocks while they check me out.

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I masturebated while looking at your tit pics and I will do it again. You have beautiful breast.

 

Oh yeah? :blush: Feel free to pm us and tell us more.

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Many years ago we went to a few Jack and Jill parties where I enjoyed watching several guys masturbating to completion as I played with myself - it was quite a turn on.

 

Wow -- hadn't heard the term "Jack and Jill Party" to mean one involving masturbation: It sounds like an interesting solution for breaking the ice, or with newbies. Where can we learn more about that?

 

The only "Jack and Jill" party we were familiar with, relates to a pre-wedding 'shower'-type party for both the bride and goon. You can even find party supplies for that on Amazon! Like, here: https://wedessence.com/how-to-host-successful-jack-jill-party

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Wow -- hadn't heard the term "Jack and Jill Party" to mean one involving masturbation: It sounds like an interesting solution for breaking the ice, or with newbies. Where can we learn more about that?

 

The only "Jack and Jill" party we were familiar with, relates to a pre-wedding 'shower'-type party for both the bride and goon. You can even find party supplies for that on Amazon! Like, here: https://wedessence.com/how-to-host-successful-jack-jill-party

 

Go to clubrelate.net

 

These very well run twice-a-month Central Florida Hotel parties generally draw between 20 and 40 people (couples and singles) and feature a wide variety of erotic activities, including plenty of “jacking & jilling”. If you enjoy watching people masturbate or having people watch you, you can be pretty much assured that will happen over the course of the evening.

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I find it even more erotic watching him J.o. for another woman. Saturday night we were playing separately in a hotel room and I noticed that his partner was on her knees in front of him while he was sitting in a chair. She had her hands on his thighs while he was stroking his hard cock for her. As he started to ejaculate and streams of cum shot out, I actually had an orgasm with my partner. So erotic to see him so vulnerable with her and to see her so fixated on him

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My wife loves for me to masturbate for her. She says its hot. She also like watching porn where the guy gets a hand job or is jerking himself off.

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Can I just say I watched three guys jerk.off for me last night. There is absolutely nothing better than watching a guy get hard and share a cum shot with me as a voyeur. It's even better when I spread my legs and knock one off with him.

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Can I just say I watched three guys jerk.off for me last night. There is absolutely nothing better than watching a guy get hard and share a cum shot with me as a voyeur. It's even better when I spread my legs and knock one off with him.

More better still the time I spread my legs and knocked off three with them (hubby got sloppy thirds, but I was second for him that night). An erection and ejaculation are terrible things to waste.

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Took your advice! I watched for a couple of minutes but the harder his cock got the more I wanted it. He was on his back next to my husband so I straddled him and watch my hubby finish himself off. Great visual and an even better fuck!

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I am married but my wife is not much interested in sex. Occasionally I get in touch with an old girlfriend who is very much interested. We have video calls from time to time and I masturbate while she watches. It’s a huge turn on for me having her watch until I cum. Sometimes she is topless while I’m jerking and once in a great while she gets naked and joins in. Just thinking about it gets me hard

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On 10/30/2022 at 5:22 PM, Still strokin said:

I am married but my wife is not much interested in sex.

To me, that would be a challenge.  I would try to see what kind of men and/or women turn her on, what acts she would be interested in, and get it set up.  Plant the seed.

 

Does she like to go to dinner?  Take her to a nice place of her choice and ask her which couple she thinks is the most attractive.  Which couple is the hottest for each other.  Get her a day at the best spa you can find and set up a massage with a nice young man.  Pay for it all in advance.  Don't push it by interrogating her, but ask her how it was afterwards.  Does she have any exes that she ever mentions fondly?  Make a mention of him and respond positively to whatever she says, like "Let's go to dinner Saturday evening so you can tell me more."

 

Find all those little things that she finds interesting sexually, fantasies, past lovers, and pull those threads slowly and gently.  Reward her every time she opens about anything with compliments, gifts, dinner, nights out.  Make her feel comfortable about opening up about her sexual past and future fantasies with no pressure.

 

In will take time, maybe a long time, but enjoy every step of the journey, like when she finally tells you that her college trip to New York - was with a boyfriend.  Ask what plays they went to, what restaurants,.. where they stayed.  No pressure, but details come out.  As she starts talking positively about past situations and future fantasies (celebrities she has the hots for) compliment her, reward her, treat her like a queen.  Let her talk about things like societies where men have two wives; what would she think if she could have two husbands?  

 

Enjoy the adventure of facilitating her opening up sex repressed sexual side.

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