Thing is, she either will, or will not be able to get over how it makes her feel. She has to come to that on her own.
In the end, do you really want to wonder if she is doing something because she knows you wanted to so badly?
You can actually push her into lying to herself and you about her interest in the lifestyle and that will just build a wall between the two of you.
If she wants to have future encounters, let her tell you so, on her own. She has tried it, give her room to see if she can work through her feelings about. She may, she may not.
Reassure her, your feelings towards her have not changed.
In the meantime, you have the visuals, you have the memory, that many guys would love to have.