MisMatched Kissing boundaries

[SnsualPrsuasion]

It's not that I don't ejoy myself without kissing, with a previous couple it was a no-no for them, & hell, we were allowed to kiss everywhere else...neck, ears, everything downward. It wasn't uncomfortable, it was just that we had to be concious all evening of not breakin' their rule. The thing is is that we haven't run into this particular situation before; he does, she doesn't. Should I still do it, since I like to, & he does, or keep it out altogether because Mr. Snsual won't be doing it? We've just never had the split thing. It was either no for both or yes for both.

[Maybe you just haven't met the right non-kissing girl yet?] I tell ya what the last lap dance I had, I NEVER saw boobs! LOL But it was the most erotic thing I've ever had happen to me. She was so distracting other ways, that I never noticed until she was done & way across the room and I'd parted with a twenty! LOL So maybe you're right. I never would have thought to enjoy a lap dance so much that didn't involve seeing those, yet I did!!

~Mrs. Snsual!~

[Pepper & Drew]

We played with a couple who had that rule before and I broke it, then spent the rest of the time thinking "doh, don't do that again!". Not that they were really upset about it, but I did find myself thinking about it the rest of our play time together....and felt really bad for getting "caught up".

So, not that we absolutely wouldn't play with a "no kissing" couple, but we really would rather not have to worry about breaking a rule during the regular course of play.

Pepper

[good times]

Originally Posted by northindycpl

Hey GT,

Can I ask, if you don't mind, How this rule is any different then lets say, not swollowing, or no anal sex? Can you still relax while recieving (giving) a blow job if the no swollowing rule applies?

I am just really curious.

Sure, I don't mind if you ask at all, allthough I think that twoplayful2 said it pretty well. Kissing during sex is something I do without even thinking about it so I would have to make an effort to think about it to avoid doing it. In your other examples you mention, if I am receiving oral sex and am about ready to climax I always tell the woman doing it so if she doesn't want that to happen we can move on to other things. As far as anal, we don't go there (one of our three rules) so that wouldn't come up.

We don't single out "no kissing" as a no go, we are very interested in all of our potential play partners rules. If any of their rules don't mesh with ours then we just aren't compatible for sex, we can still be friends though.

PS - In case you were wondering about our other two rules they are; no pain, and we both have to approve of potential playmates before we play with them. We used to have a whole list when we first started but the majority of them have been thrown out. We have decided that simple is better, not for everybody I guess, but works for us.