is Kissing Required

[HappyPeople]

We feel that there's no amount of phsyical interaction that can supercede the years of emotional work that's been done in our relationship.

A kiss, a cuddle, or a hand holding can't stand stronger than waking up next to your partner every day of your life. Living together in the same house for years, for us, is a much stronger glue than a tangling of the tongues.

Sure, you can kiss him... But can you live with him? I think not.

[L&R]

Originally Posted by good times

For us, kissing is an important enough part of sexual play that if someone has a no kissing rule we won't play with them. I guess kissing for me is an essential part of getting aroused and sexually excited, without it I just don't get that turned on no matter how hot the woman is.

{L} I'm going to agree, not that we have played yet...but I'm going to need kissing or a lot of "dirty talk" from a confident man to get me aroused. R needs kissing or oral to get him "ready". LOL...I don't think his heart rate ever increases until 8 minutes into it.

[Jessie B]

Now see here my good man; any more of this unwarranted familiarity and the fuck's off.

[L&R]

Originally Posted by Jessie B

Now see here my good man; any more of this unwarranted familiarity and the fuck's off.

[Xirius]

Originally Posted by Jessie B

Now see here my good man; any more of this unwarranted familiarity and the fuck's off.

[L&R]

Originally Posted by Xirius

HEY! where do i pick up the cool stuff at? My package didn't come with COOL STUFF!

[tropicalwishes]

i have to disagree with nearly everyone sorry, kissing to me is important i dont want to kiss anyone i do not love my husband is on the other hand one that beleives kissing is part of sex and part of play i do not want to see him kissing some one else so i simply look away,it does not mean the same to him as it means to me so i try to keep that in mind and let it go,as far as me unless i love you dont kiss me i will play and do nearly every thing you want becaause im mildly submissive so if thats not enough for the person im playing with and they have to kiss then i dont need to play with them my oppinion

[L&R]

Originally Posted by tropicalwishes

i have to disagree with nearly everyone sorry, kissing to me is important i dont want to kiss anyone i do not love my husband is on the other hand one that beleives kissing is part of sex and part of play i do not want to see him kissing some one else so i simply look away,it does not mean the same to him as it means to me so i try to keep that in mind and let it go,as far as me unless i love you dont kiss me i will play and do nearly every thing you want becaause im mildly submissive so if thats not enough for the person im playing with and they have to kiss then i dont need to play with them my oppinion

L& I totally respect that....Kissing is intimate! For many it is "off the menu" reserved for just the S.O. Other couples find 'eye contact' too intimate. To each their own, the only thing that bothers me here with your post is the part about your husband kissing another and you turning away and not looking, if it bothers you....maybe he shouldn't be doing it. As a guy, kissing maybe isn't that important either to me...but then again "dirty talk" and a beautiful body doesn't do enough to get me started. Once started...most couples can avoid the kissing and just have wild animal sex!