How do you all feel about kissing?

[Alura]

We keep "making love" exclusive to each other. Of course, that's easy because we don't love anyone else.

Just looking at us while we are playing, one would not likely see a difference in how we kiss each other and how we kiss other people. If you were inside our minds, though, you'd know!

Alura

[Mike and Jan]

I think kissing is one of the primary sensual explorations. Flirting is first, then kissing and hugging, then fondling and orally exploring, then, of course, intercourse. Given a choice of not having kissing or intercourse? I think I'd give up the intercourse instead of the kissing. I can finish with my wife later on. But, that first kiss just can't be duplicated.

[oldfella_can74]

Kissing is important to me too but unfortunately I've had no sexual contact of any kind since my lady died 2 years ago, unless you count my hand!

[NaughtyKitten]

Originally Posted by Mike and Jan

I think kissing is one of the primary sensual explorations. Flirting is first, then kissing and hugging, then fondling and orally exploring, then, of course, intercourse. Given a choice of not having kissing or intercourse? I think I'd give up the intercourse instead of the kissing. I can finish with my wife later on. But, that first kiss just can't be duplicated.

I couldn't have said it better!

---NaughtyKitten

[PAHornyCpl]

Originally Posted by DBL D

I see your concern and find it slightly amusing (not laughing at you- just found it funny) that you would find that kissing is the key to whether your husband "remembers" you when you are going to have oral or some other kind of penetration during your playtime. Seems like the latter is what most people are more worried about as far as "someone" remembering your status in the situation, but as time goes by you may find that you become more comfy with certain activities and the strength of your personal relationship is what will continue to define those things as okay in the future.

Male D

I know when we started in the lifestyle that I was more concerned about the latter and not so much the kissing. To me kissing was nothing...so what. Then once my wife broke it down for me stating like others have said, what we do together is making love, what we do with others is f***king. Since then I have not had a problem.

Mr.PAHornyCpl

[RNDNV]

We have run into that a couple of times, meeting a couple who has this ground rule "we don't kiss." Frankly, we don't get it. We like to kiss, and we like to kiss our swapmates quite a bit before moving on to more intimate things such as oral and/or intercourse. It's foreplay for pete's sake, and neither of us is as interested in the other person's body and sex acts as much as we are interested in their minds and personality. Kissing tells you a lot about a person, and I can usually gauge how well my total swing experience is going to be just by trading a few kisses, it seems pretty accurate so far.

We think couples who have this rule have some insecurity issues that have not been fully worked out, because such a rule strikes us as absolutely absured. "Oh, yes, put your tongue inside my vagina while my husband has his cock in your wife's mouth and then later her vagina, but for God sakes, don't either of you kiss either of us, that's just too intimate and special so we like to save that for each other." PLEASE, GIVE US A BREAK...

Love ya all, R&D

[De and Ci]

My wife rarely kisses. I will kiss if the other woman makes it clear that she wants it. I've heard alot about the no kissing rule on this board and in ads. But almost all of the partners I've had have been very much into kissy-poo.

[sensuality]

Kissing is so important to us.We revised our profile to reflect that after meeting a couple and finding out after we felt some attraction that they have a no kissing rule.We ended up not playing with them because of it.I just can not see NOT kissing...I love it. facelick Truth is,you only make love with your spouse.If the simple, sensual act of kissing is going to be all it takes to confuse that boundary...that is unfortunate. However, I digress...we always respect people's boundaries, of course.But, won't play with people who have this rule.

[todesireu]

We find it an important way to find out if there is the necessary chemistry with our playmates. Kissing will always be a part of our play/foreplay. facelick

[Chrishard]

Kissing is marvelous - deep, hungry, extended kissing. facelick Without kissing to establish a bond I just don't think I'd be interested

[playmatesinpgh]

My wife and I Love to kiss, not only each other, but the people we are with. It is such a big part of foreplay. And, as some of the people who have commented already have said, that first deep kiss, the probing of tongues, that feeling I remember so well all the way back to my high school days.... Nothing getts me harder, faster then that...