How to approach other swingers for our first time?

[CanadianCouple]

Not to belabor the point, but in response to me 999 posted "you got it Dan" on 06-30 at 5:12 PM. With no further interactions between us after that post, why did he feel the need to refer to me as a dickhead at 11:31 PM the same day? Am I supposed to ignore that? This guy seems to have a major hair across his ass for some reason.

Dan

Originally posted by Stratecpl:
.....Well she was the only str8 woman in the group....the reaction of some of the other bi women to her??? She said one told her "we'll see about fixing that little problem now that you're here" and walked away with a confident smile and wink! good grief!!! LOL needless to say she didn't go back to that group...LOL

"Talk" of the "moment", SOME people.... *Shaking my head*

I guess Connie isn't as UPfront & BOLD as "I" am then, huh? Cause right there, I would've made DAMN sure, that the other ladies knew where I was cummin' from, and "NO, IS NO"! And if they didn't like it, then that's THEIR problem and THEIR LOSS!


Wife of CyberMWCouple

[CanadianCouple]

Wife of CyberMWCouple --

Most of the couples we've met with, and two of the three we've played with, all involved bi women. Among the do's and don'ts we make certain to get up front with all of them, is the fact Janette is 100% straight. We also make sure we tell them ( and put in our ads) that we have no problems with the other woman being bi, as long as it's not acted on during sex.

We went to a swingers Valentine dance last year, and after several hours into it, with things 'heating up', it was amazing to see how many women were getting physically chummy with each other. No overt sexual behavior is allowed at these events, but I saw a few things that threatened to breach that rule. Janette, while being straight, is however tolerant of other's preferences. Of course, I tease her about being a 'babe magnet'.

During one bathroom visit at this dance, a very attractive young lady came into the ladies room with pop spilled all over the back of her top. She stripped off bare to the waist (no bra) and asked Janette if she could dry her off. She did, but wondered afterward if she'd been 'approached'.

Dammit, they never spill pop on themselves around ME!

Dan

[Stratecpl]

Originally posted by CyberMWCouple:


I guess Connie isn't as UPfront & BOLD as "I" am then, huh?


Wife of CyberMWCouple

Hold on Lightnin'! LOL That wasn't ME that that happened to..it was another str8 lady. She told me about the incident and I was relaying the story on here to make a point! LOL..Trust me if it had been me they would have heard about it UPFRONT...

Connie

[This message has been edited by Stratecpl (edited 07-02-2001).]

Appologies to Connie, sorry! Yes, this was regarding your g/f. Sheesshh....*lol @ myself*

And Dan...Why not?!

Yeah, Janette...Did I get the name right here? *lol* Anyway, that lady was probably trying to make the move on your wife. After all, she IS a "babe magnet", right?! She GO girl!

Which reminds me of this one time...*lol* We met this couple online, for the first time in person at a restaurant for dinner. The meal was okay, the company was so-so, her hubby was nice, but quiet, and SHE was the one that wore the pants in THAT relationship (nothing wrong with this, but don't try to come into OUR relationship with THAT attitude)! She wouldn't let her hubby get a word in MOST of the evening, giving him them dirty mean looks every time he tried to say something.

Anyway, she was attracted to my hubby, but tried to put the "reigns" on me, so to speak. Yeah, well you can ONLY imagine how THAT went, not very well, I tell ya! *LOL* She was disrespectful of our marriage, and with any relationship (if any) we might have had with them.

So we both excused ourselves to go to the ladies room. Again, she did ALL the jabbering, in AND outta the stall, and while washing our hands, and thru drying.. ..Next thing I knew, she was UP close and WAY too personal for me! Our boobs could've shaken nipples and introduced themselves, that's how close she was! I thought this she was gonna try and make the "move" on me right there & then!

Definately NOT my type, WAAAAAY to pushy for us!


Wife of CyberMWCouple

[This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 07-02-2001).]

[asr999]

Dan,

Your belitteling behaviouve is also not exactaly kindly.

If it makes you feel good, than come one.

Originally posted by Stratecpl:
Respect! Yep..that's what it SHOULD be all about. But unfortunantly it's not. I don't think my way is any better or righter than another's but it is my way and the way I want to keep it..haha.. it's those out there in swinging who can't accept or respect other's "Way" that gets to me. I talked to a lady recently in a chat she is str8 too, and was telling me about a group of swingers she and her spouse joined. Well she was the only str8 woman in the group....the reaction of some of the other bi women to her??? She said one told her "we'll see about fixing that little problem now that you're here" and walked away with a confident smile and wink! good grief!!! LOL needless to say she didn't go back to that group...LOL

[CanadianCouple]

Despite my better judgement, I just can't resist.

Why are you quoting Stratecpl in responding to me?

And I can't make heads or tails out of what you just said to me. Sorry.

Dan

[asr999]

Never Mind..

Just south of the boarder talk I guess....

Why would you respond is the question??

Originally posted by CanadianCouple:
Despite my better judgement, I just can't resist.

Why are you quoting Stratecpl in responding to me?

And I can't make heads or tails out of what you just said to me. Sorry.

Dan