how to get 2 girls together for their first time?

[KajiKurai]

Take your time and let them (the ladies) decide. If it is going to happen it will happen, if not if not.

I have a close female friend that has for years now, has questioned her sexuality. My SO has no questions about her sexuality. She's bi. Has always known and it's never been an issue. My SO likes my female friend as a person and does find her to be attractive. I've simply made a point of making situations available so that they can get to know each other more. So far they get along great and it's good to be me.

My female friend is becoming more comfortable with the idea of us. We talk openly about sex among other things.

Last night, we simply did dinner and movies. No lack of conversation, or flirtation amongst the three of us. We had a great evening and definitely be doing so again because we are at ease with each other. My SO and I may have found our "girlfriend".

Most important for the OP to garner from this post, is the fact that no alcohol was involved. Nary a drop. My close female friend is a recovering alcoholic.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by crazycatz

I wonder what his response would be if she asked to see the two guys get it on, alcohol induced of course!

Jeez, some people.

Actually I think the alcohol comments are a bit harsh on the guy.

I know a lot of people who loosen up after a few drinks.

I can also tell you that even being blind drunk I'd never do a guy.

We don't drink much when we swing, but there is a reason people drink when they go out.

[scott17201]

the alcohol is just to loosen things up. i think this situation can happen but the thing is both girls would be timid to start it, so the question is how do you get 2 timid girls to start things.

[crazycatz]

the trouble is you keep saying 'i think' a lot.
and that's what doesn't sit well with me...like you are trying to orchestrate this (hence the alcohol comment i made).

just out of curiousity, if she wanted an MMF would you go for it (and not necessarily with bi-male activity)?

[scott17201]

because u wont know till it happens, so dont let that bother you cause it doesnt bother me, lol i know she would do it unless the other girl backs out. women are the ones who normally back out. im sure you know that. like i said the drinks loosen things up, and to answer your questions about a MMF yes id do it.

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by scott17201

the alcohol is just to loosen things up. i think this situation can happen but the thing is both girls would be timid to start it, so the question is how do you get 2 timid girls to start things.

SHOPPING MONEY!

It's a great motivator!

Give 'em each a wad of $100s and send them out, together, to shop the whole day. Tell them the condition is that they have to each purchase a pair of HOT, SEXY 3" pumps and model them for you - in the nude - when they come home.

Once they're stripped down to nothin' but their high heels, hand them a strong martini...then another...when they start wobblin' in their heels they'll be ready to fall into bed.

They may pass out as soon as they hit the sheets, but they'll look darn pretty laying there.

LM

[WildMiCouple]

I agree with Chicup, you guys are a little harsh on Scott. Getting a buzz and being drunk are two different things.

Scott, if both ladies are curious about it, I'd get a cabin in the mountains for a weekend. I know there are plenty in the Poconos. Make sure it's got an outdoor hottub and is private from the neighbors. Spend the day enjoying the outdoors. Maybe all four of you go out for a nice dinner. When you get back to the cabin, peel off the clothes for a nice relaxing time in the hottub. Perhaps a nice bottle of wine to sip on as you all take in the scene. If it's gonna happen......this will be when it does

Brett

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Chicup

Actually I think the alcohol comments are a bit harsh on the guy.

I don't think they have been because the unanswered question remains - "Have the girls talked about it?"

Alcohol is fine - but when you get two women together who have not discussed their interests prior (even at a club, couples tend to sit down and chat for a bit and get an idea of each other, right?) and then fill them with alcohol to "get them to do it" you are being juvenile.

My point from the beginning is pretty simple and fairly basic - if these women are not ready to talk about this, then they aren't ready to do it. If they can talk about it over dinner - like adults - then hell I don't think it really matters how much alcohol is involved after that.

It's just a matter of not putting the cart before the horse.

Spoomonkey

[WildMiCouple]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

SHOPPING MONEY!

It's a great motivator!

Give 'em each a wad of $100s and send them out, together, to shop the whole day. Tell them the condition is that they have to each purchase a pair of HOT, SEXY 3" pumps and model them for you - in the nude - when they come home.

Once they're stripped down to nothin' but their high heels, hand them a strong martini...then another...when they start wobblin' in their heels they'll be ready to fall into bed.

They may pass out as soon as they hit the sheets, but they'll look darn pretty laying there.

LM

You're killin' me LM
Maybe this ought to be in the "How To" section

Brett

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by scott17201

women are the ones who normally back out.

Scott

This statement convinces me that you are not particularly experienced with the lifestyle... Granted - the question makes that pretty obvious, but this statement slams it home. Men back out of swing situations as well as women do. And the only time women do it more often is when they feel like they are being manipulated into doing something - which is what we are TRYING to help you avoid doing.

All four of you - go to dinner - talk about it like adults. Why does this not make perfect sense to you?

Spoomonkey

[Mr. Truelove]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Bottles and bottles of it. Jello Shots, Purple Hooters, Lemon Drops and whatever other "froo-froo" drink you can ply down their gullet...
Spoomonkey

Haha Spoo, you are too funny.

Mr. Truelove

[Mr. Truelove]

Drinking alcohol to loosen up is a fair enough idea, as long as that is their idea, and that it's planned to do that from their sober standpoint.

[Pepper & Drew]

Originally Posted by scott17201

women are the ones who normally back out. im sure you know that.

Uh huh. Actually, I can't tell you how many times it's been the guy that has "backed out". If your girlfriend wants to play, she'll play. If not, she won't. Same for the other girl. There's not anything you can do...unless you've got puppet strings somewhere.

Pepper

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew

unless you've got puppet strings somewhere.

Oooo - kinky...



Spoomonkey

[rebelnangel]

well,if they both wanna try,then they just need to lose their inhibitions.have some drinks,maybe an adult movie,see what happens.i was so shy the first time,i got quite a bit wasted before it happened.now i am not shy about it at all.....