finally had our first real experience

[JonnyBlaze]

after years of talking about it and almost asking people and even one experience with a guy that wasnt ready for it, me and my girl had a 3 some that fufilled my fantasy. im still smiling.

basicly, we decided on calling a male escort. before everyone says thats a stupid idea let me explain why. first, we have tried to meet people online. its hard enough to find someone that will meet a couple. we knew this guy would have the right attitude, knew he wouldnt be scared to do anything we wanted to do, also, he was in great shape and had an 11" penis, which was what I wanted her to have. Im very average and figured why not let her experience a large one. If it happens again, believe me, we will try and just meet someone or a couple. I just knew that another bad experience would kill any chances of it happen again.

well, I wont get into too much detal heer, but Im so happy to have shared my first swinging experience with her. She isnt sure if she will do it again, but I am sure she will. She loved it, but feels bad just cause she thinks she should feel bad.

Im hoping to try a club or something next time. Its easier to meet people that you already know they share your feelings on swinging.

you wouldnt believe how many guys we have talked to online get scared once we tell them or try and talk her into going by her self.

i submitted a story with all the details. if it gets posted please post what you think here.

JonnyBlaze

Sounds like a great time!!

It kinda sucks that she feels bad about it. I would just keep letting her know how OK you are with it and how much you loved watching her get pleasured. I'm sure she will come around.

[JonnyBlaze]

that was one of her concerns, how i would feel the next day. its been 3 days and i still cant get it out of my head. no bad feelings at all. i promised i would not ask her to do anything again if she didnt want to. but whenever she brings it up, i throw some questions and suggestions at her about what we could do next time. i believe its just a matter of time

JBlaze

[Brit_Pair]

Congrats on a successful first experience.

It sounds like a Win Win situation.
She liked getting fucked and you liked watching her get fucked!!

Hard to find anything bad about that!!

You also said "whenever she brings it up"

That is a good sign. If she felt too bad about it she probably would not want to bring it up. Maybe she is just trying to feel you out to make sure you REALLY are OK with it.

Good luck dude!!!

I know the feeling of watching my wife with another man. I think its the hardest my cock has ever been and it usualy stays that way for 3 days!!

BTW,

Where did you post the story??

[JonnyBlaze]

i posted it to the stories section but i guess it has to be approved. i would love to email you the file and see what you think of it.

its cool to hear im not alone. every guy i know personally could never be this open with their girl, yet they feel free to cheat. i have had these thoughts since the first time that i found out my girl fooled around with another guy. i still remember it, i made a remark about her breasts and she said, oh yeah, well someone else was loving them the other day. from then on, any guy she slept with (we have been together a long time and have both done our own things) i used to think about it and imagine it. im alot more experienced than she is and its only fair that she can have her fun too. i have had 3somes before, but it was so much better with a girl that i care about. it was so much better than any other time i have done it. i know the next time will be better cause shes finally enjoyed it. i told her that she could do it with my friends that have been there with me and other girls. i think next time we might try a couple. shes very bi and i would love to be there when she has that experience.

JBlaze

[SexhoundDog]

Congratulations, Jonny! I think your situation is just a fantasy and not even a real strong one at that with my wife. You can bet your ass that if she ever remotely wants to explore this, I'll be egging her on to do so!

Absolutely reinforce with your girlfriend that she isn't a "bad girl." Keep letting her know that you enjoyed it just as much as she did, and if she doesn't want to do it again, you're fine with that too. I'm betting she just wants reassurance that she's still #1 in your book. Give her plenty.

[bugaboos]

Congrats.. we started with mmf 3somes and I felt a bit bad about it.. but not too bad.. we've done it a number of times since and have begun playing with couples too. Sounds like you all had a great time.

[Buck]

Well JohnnyBlaze, you've accomplished what a lot of us guys on this board wish for but for many various reasons have not experienced. You'll find from reading this board that watching you wife being pleasured is a common fantasy or a common enjoyable activity by those already fortunate enough to be "doing it". Good going and good luck with your future experiences!

[JustAskJulie]

Jonny glad to hear everything went well. You should be hearing from me once I get a chance to read your story to let you know whether or not it's being published (and if not, why). Until recently I was running so low on stories it would have practically been posted the next day but for the first time in a few months I'm actually backlogged (which is a good thing really).

[cpl4playmass]

well congrats!!

Glad to hear you had a great first time!