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Thumbs up Our first event ... a house party for the ladies!

Okay... NOT NEWBIES NOW!!!

Today we attended our first house party ever and it was by chance geared just for the ladies. i.e. - ratio of men to women was about 2:1. Our hosts Doug and Shirley are wonderful people and we will be attending more parties with their group. They provided a lot of play areas with clean sheets, condoms and clean towels in each area. The kitchen was a general social gathering area and served as a buffet as well.

A total of about eight couples and eight or nine single men. My wife being a bit nervous still after our first encounter (didn't go well) was approached by a single male. Mitch was a gentleman in every sense of the word.

Initially he asked if he could sit next to my wife (I had sat a few chairs away to eat my food on purpose) and she accepted. They began to chat and she explained this was our first event at all in the lifestyle. He was very courteous and we began discussing general things about the Lifestyle... how long had he been in it, various things that needed to be present for couples (trust, communication, respect, etc.) and all of us hit it off right away. Another gentleman eased his way over. Dan too was a complete gentleman. He joined the conversation standing up and just hopped in with both feet. My wife and I were also quite taken with both of these guys and their respectful natures.

Soon Mitch had commented on my wife being a lovely lady and would she mind a back rub or shoulder rub. She agreed and after her melting for about twenty minutes as the conversation continued, we all decided to continue and expand our conversation in a play area downstairs.

After we arrived downstairs Mitch and Dan started to strip and without a flinch my wife proceeded to disrobe as well. I followed suit... naturally.

After a slow start with lots of rubbing, nipple sucking and general foreplay by the two gentlemen, I quietly slipped to the side and just caressed my wife as these two men proceeded with the play. I was truly turned on watching her really get into it and seeing her enjoying the activity.

As we were in a general play area that was a path to yet another play area, several men and couples came through as my wife was being pleasured and giving head to these two men. Several of the single males started sitting around watching as they were in between 'activities'. Most were commenting on how hot my wife was with these two guys. Even the couples stopped a bit to admire the view.

After Mitch and Dan were spent and my wife was getting a breather, we all began to have a nice chat again about various things. We all hit it off really well. Both of us genuinely like these guys and now consider them friends. We have exchanged info and will definitely hook up again.

As our conversation began to wind down a bit, Mitch began to caress my wife and things began to heat up again. Dan had gone to grab some water and another one of the single males dutifully filled the empty space. Again my wife was eagerly being serviced and servicing two men.

By the time she was tuckered out again, she had gone though a total of six guys. Only one didn't get the full 'ride', but only a BJ. She was just plain tuckered out. I was extremely happy she was enjoying herself.

We then went up stairs to get some food and relax. Shortly after, we took some time to soak in the hot tub. Mitch came out a bit later and sat with us. More friendly banter ensued... Mitch went inside at the request of one of the other ladies there. Shortly after Doug (Host) came out and sat with us and we had a nice chat with him for a while. Dan had to leave and said his gracious goodbyes giving my wife a hug and a big smooch. Then Shirley (Hostess) came out and joined us for a bit more conversation. Mitch then came by saying he too had to leave and also gave everyone a very gracious goodbye (another hug and smooch for my wife)

By this time it was getting a bit chilly outside, so we made our way back toward the food area. The few people that were left sat about and had a nice chat. By this time the party was really starting to wind down and Shirley was sitting alone and actually had a break from Hosting and play. She had gotten up to put something in the sink and on her way back to her seat I asked if she would like a seat, indicating my knee. She agreed and before long we were caressing and petting quite heavily even with the conversation continuing around us. I looked at my wife and she nodded that it was all good.

I absentmindedly began to massage Shirley's back during part of the conversation and she just melted. Being not too bad at massage, I proceeded to ask where she most needed it and provided said services. Very soon it became apparent that her shirt was in the way, she was very happy to get rid of that obstacle.

When I was slowing down a bit on my massage and the conversation had nearly run it's course, my wife asked if we "would like to do more". I stated that it was entirely up to Shirley. She was agreeable. My wife just asked to watch as she was still a bit nervous about me being with another woman with out her there. Shirley and I had no problem with it so we proceeded to a bedroom play area. Patrick, one of the men that had 'serviced' my wife decided to join my wife on the sidelines.

Shirley is a bit smaller than my wife physically and it was a joy to play with her. She is a very sensual woman.

She started off with me on my back and playing with my balls and shaft... soon I was getting a wonderful blow job/ball licking. Once I was nice and rock hard, she snagged a condom and deftly dressed my erect member. She then mounted facing me and squatting proceeded to pound me like a pile driver. After quite a bit of that she got up and did an about-face and squatted again and began driving me home. Then she slowed down a bit and leaned forward grabbing my feet and I had the most magnificent view from her ass to her shoulders of the light from the window across her back. (one of my favorite areas on a woman's body). After some more in-and-out in that position, she got up and said it was her turn on the bottom. I was most happy to assist. I think I enjoyed it most when I was doing my little angle changes during thrusting and I could see her begin an orgasm... her whole body shuddered with pleasure.

While all this was going on my wife and Patrick were playing the part of our own private cheering section.

After a time Shirley and I were getting a bit tired so we slowed down and I went into my all over body kissing mode... she didn't complain a bit. After passing by her honey pot several times, I stopped to see if I could hit pay dirt with my tongue... I got a few more body shudders out of her before I stopped.

Then all four of us began to have another chat while I proceeded to give Shirley a back rub again as she had turned on her stomach to give my wife a book on recreational sex. Fifteen or so minutes after that, my massage deteriorated into lots of kissing and caressing. A bit of that and Doug came in joining the conversation. Shirley rolled on to her side a few minutes later with me still caressing her. (All my caressing was illiciting small hums and moans from her.)

It was getting late into the evening so we all said our good byes with many hugs and kisses. On the way home my wife and I discussed the day's events and I verified that only initially did she have a twinge of jealousy about me playing with Shirley. That evaporated as soon as she remembered that I would be going home with her. I also had absolutely no twinge of jealousy toward any of the men being with my wife. I was just enjoying her having a good time.

After we got home and settled in a bit my wife proceeded to attack me quite completely. It was great sex, but I did feel she was a bit tired from all the party activity and told her not to push herself.

I am very grateful to all the wonderful people at the party and we will be joining Doug and Shirley for a couples party they will be hosting on the 21st of June.

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Old 06-01-2008, 08:22 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Some people have all the luck..... I'm envious now, Lucky swingers .

Actually, after reading your post.... I'm poppin a little wood here this morning


I gotta go, Its my wifes B-day..... Thanks, its time for her to get it, I mean get up

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Congratulations, and glad to hear you guys had a great time.
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Sound like a wonderful evening! Does your wife post here? I wold love to read the same story from her perspective.
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Very cool!!! Enjoy your smiles, you earned them......
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Fabulous!

I would also be interested in hearing your wife's viewpoint. Please invite her to post.

I imagine in California there are lots of parties to choose from. How did you find this party and what criteria did you use in the selection process?

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fun4DS,

Tell your lovely bride for us!

Glad you enjoyed my cobbled together recollection of the event.

LikeMinds321 & mosmis84,

I should be able to get my wife to register her account here tonight and post her recollections before they fade too far.

LikeMinds321,

We found this through a group we were invited to on Swing Lifestyle. Quite a bit of correspondence with the hosts occurred before we agreed to attend.

Criteria was actually my choice primarily as it was my intention to make sure my wife had a wide variety of men to choose from. This way she had a much greater chance of finding one or two (or six) that she was comfortable with and could play without worrying about me. My 'play' was secondary as she was the one most nervous about playing and was still quite unsure of herself. I was greatly relieved when the shell was broken and the monster released...

A single disappointment was that one single gentleman we had dinner with was supposed to attend also, but had to cancel at the last minute as he had an urgent out of town business deal to take care of. (or so I was told). It was too bad as my wife was looking forward to a play situation with him as well. We'll just have to plan to hook up with him another time...

To everyone,

Thank you for all your congratulations... we appreciate the sentiments.
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Good times!! I'm so glad that this was a great, positive event for the both of you.
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Well it seems that everyone on this post will like to know how I like the house party. For my first time, I was very nervous at first. Until Nick made me feel comfortable I got very relaxed. When I finally went down the playroom, which didn't take me that long, Nick and Don was very considerate and I enjoyed my very first experience. Lets just say I was very tucker out with all the action I got that evening. I know I probably will do that again.
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Hey MrsJ... Glad to finally have you post!! I'm thrilled that this was a great experience for the both of you! I hope you'll find time to post more!!
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Glad to hear you had a good time! It always makes for a great evening when things just seem to fall into place.


I enjoyed your story and hope that you'll think about maybe posting it in the 'Swingers Stories' section of the board...good stories/writers are always needed there. One thing I am curious about...you used a lot of names in your story, I'm hoping that you did change them and didn't use real names. Some people don't look kindly on their escapades being published on an open forum, even if they are "out" with their swinging. To me, personally, it's just bad form to kiss and tell.

I hope this was a good beginning to many happy years of swinging for both of you


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Like others have already stated, congrats on having a GREAT firts time. Many folks, us included, are wall-flowers at their first party. You both jumped right in with both feet (and a few other body parts).
Watching your partner have sex with another person is very erotic, isn't it?

Once again we want to say congrats and hope all of your experiences are as exciting and fulfilling as the first.

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So glad you both had a GOOD experience...Now comes many, many more!
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Well it seems that everyone on this post will like to know how I like the house party. For my first time, I was very nervous at first. Until Nick made me feel comfortable I got very relaxed. When I finally went down the playroom, which didn't take me that long, Nick and Don was very considerate and I enjoyed my very first experience. Lets just say I was very tucker out with all the action I got that evening. I know I probably will do that again.
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