Separate room full swap experience

[nwmifun]

We have very much the same mindset as EvilMJ, we will embark to different rooms if we know the couple and are very familiar with them. But 9 times out of 10 we all end up back together anyhow.

And many of you up above are right, it's the quality time afterward with your significant other that matters. Same room, seperate rooms, no matter what we always end up talking about it later on our own and having our own down and dirty fun!!

[mfmyeahbaby]

although we don't many couples to swap, we do our fair share of mfm's (usually the same one), and till now its been same room with me watching, that's the only way. her pleasure is the biggest thrill.

[HotMoCpl]

I don't believe that separate room swapping is really where we'll ever go. Too much of a security problem as far as we're concerned. You just never know.

[HotMoCpl]

I missed this part.

Isn't swapping/swinging supposed to be watching you partner/s.o. enjoy fullfillment from another?

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by HotMoCpl

Isn't swapping/swinging supposed to be watching you partner/s.o. enjoy fullfillment from another?

For some - yes.

For us - yes.

But - swinging is what you make it, what you want it to be. If seperate room trips your trigger, then by all means, trip that thang!



Bottom line, swinging/swapping isn't really "supposed" to be about anything. That's part of the adventure.

Spoomonkey

[Edison Carter]

Susan here:

If you're in a positive and trusting sexual environment, same room or separate becomes irrelevant. Now, if you're doing a 'meet and mate' there's probably not as much trust and separate room would probably not be appropriate.

For me, with the right persons, people tend to be more engaging in a separate room situation. But that's normal and typically the result of them being focused on one dynamic instead of many.

In my own experience, with a couple we knew well, when I had a separate room experience he was a much more giving lover. More intimate and less focused on the purely physical, which was a fun change. My husband felt the same way about his wife, that there was a more intimate dynamic. Regardless, the sex is always great with them, it's just a matter of style.

Both are great fun.