Birthday Plan

[Hellboy]

Well, its on now. I told my wife I wanted to go to a strip club for my birthday Friday night and she is excited. This is a big step for us. I let it die down a couple days (wanting to know if she was doing it because I wanted to, or if she really wanted to for herself as well) and asked her where she wanted to go out on my bday and she said "titty bar" with a smile. "It ought to be a lot of fun and I want to try new things".....WOOOHOOOO!!!!! Inching closer everyday!!

[4forfun]

That is great Hellboy, hope you have a good time on Friday. Let us know how it goes.
Mrs. 4forfun

[Vespertine]

Have a very Happy Birthday!

[Sallysuckyouoff]

I want to play too!!!

[ALilOEverything]

That sounds like fun (I've never gone to one) Sounds like things are on the right path. Have a great time!

[Hellboy]

We'll see what happens.....I am researching on where to go. I've never been to one in San Antonio.....I know all the good ones in Austin (err, well I used to but places like that turn over or reinvent themselves frequently) I'm leaning toward Club XTC, which is owned by Rick's out of Houston (they are big) and its all nude, BYOB. Getting her to commit to going is as far as I got, asking what kind just gets me "I don't know>giggle, giggle<"

[Hellboy]

Well, the evening ended with "She licked my ear, let's go"........Which can mean entirely different things in different contexts....To say the evening was a smashing success would be an understatement in the extreme. I could not have asked for a better experience(at least for my wife and I)

We settled on XTC, an all nude club owned by Rick's Cabaret out of Houston, which is a very highly reknown establishment. Well, truthfully, the quality was severely lacking and that part disappointed me. The girls were rather ambivilant and as a whole, not that attractive. It didn't stop my wife. For those who have not been following my saga, I am interested in the "lifestyle", and would like to get involved a little. I think the most beautiful thing in the world sexually is lesbian sex and I know deep down my wife is attracted to women. The question is, would she be able to overcome her inhibitions to persue her fantasies?? As the magic 8 ball might say, "All signs point to yes"
I figured this was a good way to find out if she could step out side her self and be attracted to #1 other people and #2 women. Yes and Yes.....

Being an all nude club, it was BYOB, so after a nice dinner out, we hit the liquer store and loaded up. So we got to the club about 8:45 and started drinking. I wanted her to get comfy and let it all sink in before I ran off to the stage with singles in hand. I did and she watched me with a big grin. An example of how ho-hum (pun intended) the entertainers were, the girl danced for me and then confided that she was "tired" and it was slow tonight.....too much information....

I have a bad habit of pestering my wife "Are you ok?" "are you having fun?" "Is this cool with you?" I asked her before I went to the stage if she could handle me getting that close to another woman(hey, the girls were rather touchy-feely) and she was a little afraid at first, only to find out it completely turned her on.

By the time I got back and had a drink, they announced 2 for 1 table dances and I figured (the Crown and Coke helped me decide) it was time to push. I got the first one, a hot girl named "Athena" (original at least, yes there were a few "Destiny"s running around) And she was very aggresive, very hands on (cool!) So, as the song ended, I got up and let my wife have the seat and it was on....She made a few different faces when Athena got a little to pushy right off, but the most prominent face was "DAMN, this is hot!!!" The dancer kissed her and my wife kissed back! And the dancer went below the belt (wife was wearing a skirt) and well....did a little more than the law allows(very briefly) I though my wife's eyes were going to pop out of her head! As the song ended, my wife let the dancer gather her stuff and pounced on me. One of the most passionate makeouts we have had in 8 years of dating/marriage.

Wife excused her self to the ladies room and Athena joined me at the table and we chatted. First, she couldn't beleive my wife is 35 and confirmed what I already decided, she has as good a body as half of the dancers. Wife came back and chatted with Athena for a long time until she had to go make the rounds. My wife leaned over and said "She was nice, but I want some variety"

I picked myself up off the floor and had another drink. The night went on and we never found another girl we wanted to blow big money for a table dance on, but dropping singles up on the stage was a ton of fun and they gave my wife some extra attention each time. There were two awesome girls that we both wanted to come dance for us, but they were on stage, so we had to wait. A girl with an awesome ass came out to the main stage and we went up there. By then, it was 11:30 and getting close to time for us to go. I stood behind my wife and the dancer really went all out (unfortunately, she had a great ass, but little tits and was rather homely) Didn't stop my wife. She shuddered when the dancer kissed her on the nec and sucked on her ear. Of course, the Captain is getting ready to burst right about then, but I digress. As the song ends, my wife turns to me and says "She licked my ear lets go home...NOW"

And we did.....A long drive too that got us home after midnight but it did not deter her at all! She stripped for me (never done that before!!) and layed back on the bed, and proceeded to extend her legs just like the dancers did(horray for yoga!!) >>BACKUP: she was wearing a low cut white top, a black satin skirt, GARTER BELT w/ thigh high stockings, and a white, lacey G-string(first time for that too!!)<<

I'm sure you can imagine how the Captain is handling all of this (think caged wild animal) I dove in and for the first time in a long, long time, I made her cum through oral sex( for whatever reason, it generally takes penetration to tke her to the next level) And we then moved on to some serious fucking.....I have never, ever seen her so wet before (the bed looks like hell for all the wet spots) She came twice, the second time as I did (Dear God, that was hard holding back! I won't tell her, but it made it tough!!) She was not done....she grabbed my hand and directed traffic....I jumped up and grabbed the toy (we have just one 6"vibe, so it's THE toy) and she grabbed it from me and made me watch.....The Captain awoke once more and it was on again, dog fashioned (I just like the way that sounds coming from an old timer talking about sex back in the day---"I flipped her over and poured the coal to her dog fashioned" hehe)

Well, she crashed out, but we talked some. She wants to do it again, but wants to try a titty bar as opposed to an all nude club. She said she had a fantastic time and I informed her the quality wa sub-standard and it gets better.

She still, removed from the situation, acts coy and closed off to even the situations we encountered tonight, but she definitely took a big step.

So, after this enormous ramble, what did we learn, kids? Well, my wife likes girls. She's not afraid to experiment a little at a time. She's hot and better than some professionals. That I won't get jealous seeing her that way. That SHE won't get jealous seeing me with a strange pussy in my face. All in all, it was he best birthday ever. There are still alot of logistics to work out and being entertained by naked women is a ways away from playing with other people. But, slowly, but surely, we are getting there. And I am excited for what the future holds......Thanks for those of you who made it to the end of this.....

[friskyous]

Sounds like you guys had a great night out, loved the story, thanks for sharing with us

[Hellboy]

THE MORNING AFTER:

Well, I tried to go to sleep, but I cannot remember being that turned on in my life. The sex was awesome and I stayed up, partly to type out that novel I started this post with. I had all kinds of wild dreams, but in truth, I was fearful she would awake this morning and think "Oh, God, what did I do?"

Well, we got down to business again this morning, a great way to start the day and chatted some before going out for breakfast. As I expected, there are some guilt issues. She revealed more of what she was thinking last night and she was into it more than I could have ever hoped. But she does "feel guilty for enjoying it so much" Of course I told her not to, and she seemed flippant as if the guilt was a passing thing. She says she can work past it, needs to think about it for a while. I told her communication is the best way to work those things out and she agrees, but wants more time to think.

She said she thought the dancer was going to toungue kiss her and I asked her what she would have done....She said she would have kissed back.......The Captain is a hurtning today. She giggled......Its all good. I think I'll let things cool off a bit. I have an overnight event to attend tonight and I will be away. She went just now to pick up the kids, but I can bet that with me being gone tonight, tomorrow holds in store some magnificent sex.

NOTE : I mentioned the dancers (some of them) were not all that hot and I want to clarify. I am not seeking perfection, but the skank look puts me off and there is a difference between attraction and professional entertainment. I expect what I pay for to be geared more towards eye candy.

She wants to do it again for Valentines day (long way off, but we have 2 small children, its hunting season, and we are looking for a house right now and will probably be moving soon, so...)

Thanks for all the support. Yall have all been great and I enjoy BSing with all of you. If we are able to take the next step, I will definitely give yall alot of credit for helping me out with good advice, but more so, support and an audience from my ramblings. I'm off to get piss drunk with a bunch of old fraternity brothers, see yall later on!

[EvilMJ]

Way to go Hellboy..and Mrs. Hellboy.

I'm glad that you were able to have a great birthday and your wife was able to let herself get wild.

I think the no pressure attitude always works best.....keep up the good work and the understanding and I am sure you will be having lots of fun in the future.

[Hellboy]

Exactly....I am sure most folks here didn't jump into a huge orgy for their first swinging experience. And with us, I think there need to be some intermediate steps between sex between the two of us and playing with others. Ultimately it will come down to whether she ants to or not. If I talk her into it or make her feel pressured in any way, it will in the end not be a positive influence on our relationship. But if we continue to push the envelope and attain a comfort level at each step, we will get there. She was afraid to go at first, but wanted to conquer her fear. In her words "It was alot more fun than I thought it would be" She didn't expect to be turned on that much in that way, but knew it was possible. There are other indications as well. All is going according to plan.