Ideal couple

[Candy&Cane]

(sorry this isn't a question)
Dear All,
we haven't been on this forum for quite some time (at least a couple of weeks)... instead of reading about it, we've had some new experiences, which I just wanted to share Nothing special, but we met the ideal couple, and this feels really good (to me and my boyfriend, but also the experienced couple who really respects both of us and takes it slow). Slow? hey I was the one to kiss her unexpectedly . It feels great, she's great and her husband is great.. we all get along really well.. so... I'll keep you guys informed (were going to a swingersclub in a few weeks to celebrate her birthday.. hmmm I guess we're the presents )

Byebye for now!!!!

[LikeMinds321]

Thanks for sharing your joy!

It feels wonderful to meet people you are so comfortable with.

Have a great time at the birthday celebration...I'm sure she'll adore her "gift."

Keep us posted.

LM

[JustAskJulie]

Congrats. May it continue to go well for you.

[BradAndJanet]

Cool!

-B

[HDrider]

Congrats! Have fun..... facelick

[Candy&Cane]

Thanx everybody

I'm sorry to throw this statement in before telling you more... I do realize we're lucky to know this couple and think it's probably very hard to find.. I guess it's like relationships; if you look too hard you wont find her/him, you'll find your partner when you least expect it... -This is just something I wanted to share with other newbies

I (f) used to be a bartender in a subtle erotic striptease bar which is focussed on couples and women. We still go out there a lot. I had a conversation with this couple about a year ago.. (the couple is in their thirties, they have had an 'open-relationship' for over 5 years now). After that, the woman always came over to say hello, and usually gave me compliments . About 4 months ago she started talking to the both of us (her husband staying at the other side of the bar ), and got flirting with both me and my bf. This was a great experience alltogether.. I saw how my bf started blushing, as she complimented him on things whilst stroking my arm and vice versa (telling me she loved my clothing whilst stroking his hair). She knew that we werent swingers though, and took it very slow.. it was more of a flirtatious game whilst getting to know eichother, it didn't feel 'heavy' at all...
That night at home we started teasing eichother about it, and asked how my bf liked it... I must say, he was overwhelmed, and loved the special kind of attention, in the way it went. She gave both of us as much attention; so I didn't feel threatend in any way, and my bf could enjoy it without feeling bad about it either..
We were playing with the idea of going to a swingersclub.. and secretly hoped we would see the couple there (we new they came there sometimes)... After loads of talking etc. we made our minds up to go and have a see for ourselves... But thats a totally different story
About three weeks later we met the couple again at the bar. Again, her husband stayed away. My bf told her about our experencience in the swingersclub, and we had very interesting conversations with her (whilst flirting; this seems to be her gift -lol). The conversation was a lot more 'serioous' and went a lot deeper. We got to know eichother a lot better.. Then the husband came (before they left) to introduce himself.. he seemed very shy, but also very happy and interested. We switched phonenumbers and internet details, and two days later I decided to give her a call... That ended in a 2-hour conversation .. in the weeks after we chatted on msn nearly daily.. she showed me her kids, marriage pictures, and talked about.. well, EVERYTHING. A lot of the times my bf joined in, or took over, and I've been chatting with her husband too.. 2 weeks ago we saw them again and had a great time, the 4 of us. To my slight suprise, the guys got on really well.. her husband touched me sometimes, very subtle, and his wife was over-flirtatious with both me and my boyfriend. We had a great laugh, and enjoyed ourselves real well.. I noticed how she had it hard not to throw herself on top of us -lol... At the end of the night we said our goodbyes, and.... I just had to kiss her ... That really broke the ice...
So.. the day after she invited us to her birthday.. but somehow wound round the fact that is was going to be in the swingersclub... after everything, she's still very cautious of not scaring us away.. 'Ofcourse' we agreed on going, we didn't even have to think about it that long, as it felt very natural to go with them. We also still know, that even there, we don't have to feel bad at all if we prefer not to go on in the physical relationship, if you know what I mean. She made that clear to us about a hundred times

So, next week we're going... probably the woman and me are going on a little shopping spree to suprise the guys on the night We're looking forward to it....

oh yes; I totally forgot; ofcourse we are attracted to eichother. And the woman fancies both me AND my boyfriend as she is bi-sexual.

[LikeMinds321]

They really are taking it slowly - in a very nice way.

I'd guess they are very experienced and prefer establishing friendships with those they want to play with for the long term. This is only my newbie guess.

Thanks for supplying more details.

LM

[hot50scpl]

Thanks, 2Gether, for the outstanding interaction.. just the way I'd like to have it go if we decide to become actively involved .. nice and slow. A long, deliberate foreplay. By the time we would actually meet, it would be VERY intense and pleasurable, I'm sure.

Thanks very much for the interesting encounter.
Tim