Wife has gone from cold to hot!

[Beaverbumper]

I hope there are others out there that has shared my experience with their wife. Over the past years we have talked about swinging and she keeps going hot and cold. Also in the beginning she said she didnt like XXX rated movies.. Now to my amasement she volunteers to get the movies and we are meeting a couple this weekend. Is this a normal thing for a woman?

[ohcpl43952]

You never noticed how women's minds change like the wind?

[havefuninsun]

Women? Normal? Surely you jest ...

Hugs and kisses,
Mrs. Fun

[Beaverbumper]

Originally Posted by havefuninsun

Women? Normal? Surely you jest ...

Hugs and kisses,
Mrs. Fun

Unfortunately it was not in jest... Suppose Im just a little nieve..

[Alura]

I wouldn't worry about it, Beaverbumper. Just be grateful and go with the flow. You probably planted a seed of an idea that is just now starting to grow. Good Luck!

Mr. Alura

[Beaverbumper]

Believe it or not I was blown away when she said she would write our ad on Swing Lifestyle and post our pics back Swappernet...and she said she gets hot now watching XXX rated movies...So Im thankfull but reluctant to accept her new out look completely but I have hopes...

[riswingcpl]

damn man...don't be reluctant...RUN WITH IT!! Do anything and everything you can to encourage her if she's showing that level of interest. Get her talking about it more detail...see what she has in mind as far as her wants and fantasies, then make them happen for her. You not only will have her trust in the lifestyle, but hopefully she'll return the favor and get to work on making your fantasies become a reality.

M

[Beaverbumper]

Each time we watch an XXX rated movie I have been asking her (she wont volunteer) what she sees that turns her on or would you like to join them. Each time she says yes it makes her horny and yes she would like to join in with them..We will soon see when we meet this couple. My fingers are crossed..

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by Beaverbumper

I hope there are others out there that has shared my experience with their wife. Over the past years we have talked about swinging and she keeps going hot and cold. Also in the beginning she said she didnt like XXX rated movies.. Now to my amasement she volunteers to get the movies and we are meeting a couple this weekend. Is this a normal thing for a woman?

YES! lol, we women are something else. You know, our views change as our comfort levels change.

[ohash01]

Trust me - I jumped back and forth too. Haha. Now I'm leaving J. in the dust with my researching and reading and so on.

Sometimes...women just have to come around to it. You'll say something and we'll go "GACK! ICK! What is WRONG with you?"...but you better believe we haven't stopped thinking about it...and slowly over time it starts to build and we're like "well...maybe?...no...not yet". And eventually it's a yes.

Take it and run, man. Run like the wind!

[Bad Sandy]

As one of those "hot - cold - hot" women I can tell you that she is just as confused by her erratic emotions as you are. Let her take the lead. I almost always find the the "cold" spells come when I feel hubby is too eager and enthusiastic. Being the "slower paced" person in our team I often feel like I have to operate with the parking brake in hand, ready to pull! I can't imagine how frustrating this is to him. I just know I have to feel in control of the situation to be ok with it. (sheeze, do I need therapy??? LOL)