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Forum: Getting Started in Swinging

How do we start swinging? What should we learn and what is the first step?

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  1. Without strong communication, swinging can be a disaster. How to develop strong communication skills with your husband, wife, or partner.

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    1. Swingers can communication with more than words. Learning to read what your partner and others are trying to tell you without saying anything.

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      Partner signals? Go to last post

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      10-16-2008, 09:51 PM

  2. How do we find other swingers?

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    1. Is having a good personal ad or profile a key to finding people to swing with?

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    2. What are swinger clubs, parties, and resort really like? What is expected, and what should we expect from other swingers?

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    3. How to make swingers out of non-swinging friends, or even should we?

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  3. Swinging can be stressful! How do we start to lose the anxiety and get comfortable enough to start having fun?

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  4. Do all swingers have a uniform sexuality, or do they cover all of the sexuality spectrum?

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    1. What role does female bisexuality play in swinging? Are all swinging females bisexual?

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    2. Where does male bisexuality fit into swinging?

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    3. Performance anxiety and erection issues are a part of swinging. What happens when a male can't get it up?

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  5. How do you approach other swingers you are interested in having sex with?

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  6. Swinging can evoke strong emotions, good and bad. What happens the morning after a night of sex with others?

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    1. Do swingers feel guilt? How do they deal with it when something just doesn't feel right?

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  7. Like everyone, swingers fear rejection. Rejection can be tough, but it can be dealt with.

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  8. The first swinging experience can be the hardest swinging experience. Tips for making it go more smoothly and worry free.

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  9. How do swingers initiate things if they are interested in sexual play with someone else or another couple?

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  10. Where do single males fit into the swinging scene? What things should single males know about swinging?

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  1. Exclamation She wants me to play alone and tell her about it

    Started by twknight, 08-05-2010 06:35 AM
    fantasies, getting started, married playing single, playing solo, swinging separately
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    08-19-2010, 02:00 PM Go to last post
  2. Did you BabyStep it, or just Dive In?

    Started by JustAskJulie, 06-10-2009 02:39 PM
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    babysteps, different pace, how long
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    06-15-2009, 12:25 PM Go to last post
  3. Do you ever help newbies

    Started by truckerbuddy, 05-05-2009 09:46 PM
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    common questions, helping newbies, new swingers
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    05-26-2009, 03:55 AM Go to last post
  4. Question Nervous, I want to take little steps

    Started by deanncat, 03-21-2009 01:22 AM
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    getting started, starting slow
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    03-26-2009, 06:07 PM Go to last post
  5. Funny Stories and More?

    Started by Elusive BiFem, 07-25-2004 04:24 PM
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    funny experiences, new swingers
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    07-13-2008, 07:09 PM Go to last post
  6. jumping straight to it

    Started by southerncouple3, 06-05-2008 05:52 AM
    getting started
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    06-13-2008, 06:07 PM Go to last post
  7. Did you swing on the 1st meet...

    Started by FunCoupleCnS, 09-18-2005 01:11 PM
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    first meet, swinging
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    06-05-2008, 01:25 PM Go to last post
  8. Swinging before you are Swinging

    Started by JustAskJulie, 02-27-2004 01:21 PM
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    getting started, interesting questions
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    04-08-2008, 07:50 AM Go to last post
  9. How long did it take you to decide?

    Started by Chicup, 07-17-2006 09:54 AM
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    different pace, getting started, how long, the next step
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    03-18-2008, 12:41 PM Go to last post
  10. Lightbulb where do i start?

    Started by bbouvier, 01-18-2008 10:06 PM
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    getting started, single women, swinging single
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    02-14-2008, 11:07 PM Go to last post
  11. Poll Poll: She's changing her mind and doesn't want to swing

    Started by NandT, 08-22-2007 02:33 PM
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    changed mind, quitting
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    08-28-2007, 09:23 AM Go to last post
  12. MFM Information

    Started by MetalHead, 04-20-2007 11:33 PM
    finding others
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    05-03-2007, 06:43 PM Go to last post
  13. Moved: Help! Proper way to shave

    Started by cara, 06-12-2012 09:49 AM
    grooming, how to, shaving
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  14. Question Confused about the next step

    Started by lost husband, 01-04-2007 02:45 AM
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    getting started, ice breakers, should we swing, the next step
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    01-21-2007, 04:35 AM Go to last post
  15. Are we normal?

    Started by nccouple861, 11-13-2006 11:15 AM
    common questions, getting started, normal
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    11-24-2006, 04:26 PM Go to last post
  16. Red face Wife has gone from cold to hot!

    Started by Beaverbumper, 10-16-2006 08:42 AM
    increased sex drive
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    10-16-2006, 07:21 PM Go to last post
  17. Need Lots of Info....very new, very curious!

    Started by Just Browsing, 09-22-2006 12:00 PM
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    getting started
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    10-06-2006, 04:01 PM Go to last post
  18. Nervous. Is it hard to start?

    Started by newbees001, 02-10-2006 11:58 PM
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    common questions, getting started, jealousy, nervous
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    02-17-2006, 05:57 PM Go to last post
  19. Moved: How long after getting married did you start swinging?

    Started by beaverz, 01-21-2005 12:19 PM
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  20. Unhappy Boyfriend wants to swing and I don't know where to start

    Started by Christy, 12-08-2004 06:10 PM
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    common questions, getting started
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    12-14-2004, 12:14 AM Go to last post
  21. Will my wife enjoy it? Advice needed...

    Started by montefazon, 07-16-2004 06:55 AM
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    getting started
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    07-23-2004, 05:18 AM Go to last post
  22. Question Mentor Couples?

    Started by bugaboos, 03-17-2004 04:16 PM
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    getting started, helping newbies
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    04-02-2004, 01:27 PM Go to last post
  23. Question Information before Swinging?

    Started by Elusive BiFem, 11-20-2003 11:55 PM
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    common questions, getting started
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    12-10-2003, 04:26 PM Go to last post
  24. Question Strip Clubs as a first step

    Started by J&BinNJ, 11-17-2003 07:52 AM
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    common questions, getting started, strip club
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    11-28-2003, 04:24 PM Go to last post
  25. Post Top 10 Most Common Posts

    Started by Flori_DAMAN, 07-02-2001 10:00 PM
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    common questions
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    07-06-2001, 06:31 PM Go to last post
  26. Post Is it ok to go slowly?

    Started by soppo, 01-22-2001 12:39 PM
    common questions, starting slow
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    01-28-2001, 07:13 PM Go to last post

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