Scared and intimidated guy - Page 2

TeamSoBe · 07-16-2002, 05:11 PM

I just wanted to say that I really appreciate all of the help. I have relayed the suggestions to our female half and she's happy to be my Viagra next time around. And I see what you mean now about soft-swinging first, Julie, I have been a bit thrown off by all of the terms because we only recently discovered that we're 'swingers' and that there is a bunch of terminology for the stuff that we do at parties.

And Ciscosv, pot actually works the other way on me. The reason why I have trouble performing is because I get anxious, pot eliminates that and I get silly hard for the longest time, I'm great fun at a party that way. If I had been smoking instead of drinking myself stupid last weekend then I would have been just fine. I really don't think that it would even be possible or advisable to stay completely sober for a week-long trip to Key West, but I'm keeping a clear mental image of my limp penis and my little drunken emotional outburst in my head through the week. Each time I decide whether to have another I plan on pondering that image for a moment...

Anyway, I'll post an update after the trip if anybody cares. I have pretty clear opportunities with two of the girls that we're going with and my wife is flat-out planning on seducing somebody so it should be a fun trip.

frisson · 07-18-2002, 04:20 PM

SouthBeach,

Anxiety never made anybody's cock hard. Neither does the pressure to perform.

The thing is, there really is no pressure except what you're putting on yourself. I am sure that nobody's expecting you to be a sex machine. All that's required is that you enjoy yourself and allow others to enjoy themselves.

You might try letting the two girls play with each other and with the other guy. (He won't mind!) Then, when he's done, it's your turn to experience every male's fantasy.

And remember: "If you don't have it in the hips, then just use the lips."

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07-16-2002, 05:11 PM	#16 (permalink)
TeamSoBe Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 507 Location: South Beach, Florida Status: M. Half of Couple	I just wanted to say that I really appreciate all of the help. I have relayed the suggestions to our female half and she's happy to be my Viagra next time around. And I see what you mean now about soft-swinging first, Julie, I have been a bit thrown off by all of the terms because we only recently discovered that we're 'swingers' and that there is a bunch of terminology for the stuff that we do at parties. And Ciscosv, pot actually works the other way on me. The reason why I have trouble performing is because I get anxious, pot eliminates that and I get silly hard for the longest time, I'm great fun at a party that way. If I had been smoking instead of drinking myself stupid last weekend then I would have been just fine. I really don't think that it would even be possible or advisable to stay completely sober for a week-long trip to Key West, but I'm keeping a clear mental image of my limp penis and my little drunken emotional outburst in my head through the week. Each time I decide whether to have another I plan on pondering that image for a moment... Anyway, I'll post an update after the trip if anybody cares. I have pretty clear opportunities with two of the girls that we're going with and my wife is flat-out planning on seducing somebody so it should be a fun trip.
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07-18-2002, 04:20 PM	#17 (permalink)
frisson Here to Stay Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 80 Location: East Central Kansas	SouthBeach, Anxiety never made anybody's cock hard. Neither does the pressure to perform. The thing is, there really is no pressure except what you're putting on yourself. I am sure that nobody's expecting you to be a sex machine. All that's required is that you enjoy yourself and allow others to enjoy themselves. You might try letting the two girls play with each other and with the other guy. (He won't mind!) Then, when he's done, it's your turn to experience every male's fantasy. And remember: "If you don't have it in the hips, then just use the lips."