Too shy and missed swing opportunities

[Alex]

My opinion is that ..this is you! This is not something you should avoid, being yourself. Use it exploit it to your benefit. I don't agree to start pretend that you are cool nice confident guy that will knock out the tall blond babe. You are what you are and the girls that will approach you is for what you are..what they sense you are. Stay as you are and start loving it...!

Cheers

[tribbles]

We met one couple (we didn't play for some reason) who talked about a tantra class they went to. Where the leader explained looks are not the connection, they may get our attention but what to look for is that 'spark' or vibration between you and others.

Once you realize it is that vibe between you and others that will make it good, how people lookis alot less important. It also explains why a '10' would find many of us '5's attractive.


S

[sexyshelby]

Spoo was shy!?!? No way.

~SS

[Thrax]

Yeah, a "monkey" coming out of his "shell." Biologically, or even metaphorically, it's confusing.

Thrax

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

It's funny what you find when you go back in time. I started reading this and laughed to myself to think of Spoo being shy.

Hey - I AM shy

Okay... Maybe not so much anymore... But there was a time...

Maybe you guys have rubbed off on me. And if not - what are you waiting for???

Spoomonkey

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Hey - I AM shy

Okay... Maybe not so much anymore... But there was a time...

Maybe you guys have rubbed off on me. And if not - what are you waiting for???

Spoomonkey

Guess that explains where that purple fur I found came from.

[Mr. Truelove]

Haha, I was really confused until I saw the date of the original post, spoomonkey always seems so confident. It didn't fit the mental image I had of him.

Oh yes.. I have all your mental images. Muhahahaha.

[twoferfun69]

Originally Posted by Mr. Truelove

Haha, I was really confused until I saw the date of the original post, spoomonkey always seems so confident.

I was right there with you, Truelove. I was like "What? Spoo? Nuh uh!?!"
I guess it shows you where we come from in life and this lifestyle.
I was one of those supergeeks in school, never fit in to any crowd, so I just said..."I have friends in all the crowds" fooling myself but no one else. Today, I sometimes miss the obvious signs, but I feel much more confident than I did even a short couple of years ago when I met my soon to be Mrs Twofer'. It's amazing what a wonderful, loving, confident woman can do for her man.
I am glad Spoo found his confidence, and I applaud him for having the monkeynuggets to open it up to this forum. Not often a man can open himself up like that, especially in the presence of other men. Another accolade to the wonderful differences that this lifestyle makes.
Hopefully someday soon, Mrs Twofer will be able to partake of your recently acquired confidence, Spoo, we keep tryin' to make time to get up that way!! (oops, did I really type that and leave it?)

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by twoferfun69

Hopefully someday soon, Mrs Twofer will be able to partake of your recently acquired confidence, Spoo, we keep tryin' to make time to get up that way!! (oops, did I really type that and leave it?)

Its not like Cincinnati is really all that far away :rollseyes

In fact, it is a small world, folks. Plane, train or automobile - let's all find a way to rub the monkey...

Spoomonkey

PS - Julie, did I leave the purple fur there??? You know that particular patch has never grown back

[LOL_OMG]

Originally Posted by twoferfun69

monkeynuggets

I hear they're really good with honey mustard sauce

Hey, I'm just keeping the cult image goin!

Mrs LOL