A Breakthrough!

[Ave Satanas]

So anyone who has been involved at all with previous threads of mine might be happy to read this: although not exactly huge, the lady and I experimented today with another person in the equation for the first time. Even better, it went well.

It only barely qualified as soft swinging, but it was hot as hell nonetheless. My initial thoughts were wrong, and the first experiment was a MFM scenario, something that I found sexy but was still a little nervous about. And on top of that, it wasn't really planned for, but luckily enough it still was okay.

Basically, the guy mentioned in previous threads who was basically the first choice by her for such an event, was hanging out with us at a party. We came back to my house to play the wii (which I'm basically attributing the whole event to because the name is funny) and started bringing it up. He was WAY nervous, but we convinced him to come swim with us over at her place (two houses, LONG STORY). So we go over there, do some swimming, and then bring it up again. She and I discussed all our ground rules on the way there, and basically laid it out for him. In the end, he was still a little nervous, but decided to try it. Basically, he got to fondle her breasts whilst I went to work downstairs. Probably nothing major for the experienced ones her, but as I had mentioned, he has very little sexual experience himself anyway, being a pretty shy dude, and I still found it incredibly hot.

Afterwards, we basically assured that everything was still cool between everyone, which it was, and basically all came to the conclusion that we'd probably do it again soon. The girlfriend and I talked on the ride home and are already coming up with new levels to which we are going to take the next time around, because I don't feel especially comfortable with changing the plan halfway through (people make mistakes in the heat of passion). I'm looking forward to the next time, and I'm pretty sure he's doing okay with the whole thing too. The girlfriend is gonna check on him tomorrow (relax, they're going shopping for my birthday on Saturday ).

All in all, I'm glad that before the even I had talked and gained insight from my wonderful friends here on swingersboard, and I thank you all for your help.

As always, comments, questions, hate mail, and any other feedback are welcome and encouraged.

I'll keep you posted as more happens.

[curiousswingers]

Good for you guys!! It sounds like you have your head on right as well, taking it at a pace you are both comfortable with! Cangrats!

[JustAskJulie]

Congrats! Glad to hear things went well.

[SouthBond]

So he played with her tits while you went downstairs and now they are going shopping together. And this is OK with everybody. Then it is time for you and your friend to take the lady to the bed.

[Ave Satanas]

Ha, not quite yet. We're easing into the whole thing still, and there's everyone's schedules to work around too... college and work make swinging a difficult thing to do. But we are planning on taking another step in the near future. She mentioned the idea of her getting completely nude, but I think I might throw a bit more into the mix for fun. It'd be nice if we all got off, instead of her, while the guys are left with the blues.

Any thoughts or other suggestions are encouraged.

Thanks Guys!

[DBL D]

As hard as this it is have to wait, you will have to go at her pace. Good start though. Hopefully she will learn to relax with it.

Male D

[Ave Satanas]

So we went for round 2 yesterday, trying out my idea of having EVERYONE come instead of just her... the results, while not bad, were somewhat disappointing.

It was all enjoyable, but the inexperience of our playmate is causing some trouble. As a result, we've decided to cease all sexual contact with him in favor of our prior friendship, and instead are searching more actively for either another couple open to the idea, or a single girl who is interested in experimenting with my lady and so forth.

Easier said than done, as our age restricts us from going to clubs and the like.

Suggestions?