Ladies, how do you like to be treated initially?

[JustAskJulie]

First meeting, assuming he finds me attractive, I want him to treat me like he would anyone, I want him to talk to me about things that interest him, and about himself, I want him to show interest in me by complimenting me and asking questions about me.

[playfulnreno]

Exactly, and being in a long term committed relationship I'm still not allowed to really flirt LOL - fuckem' silly - BUT NOT FLIRT! Go figure!

[flassh]

BiDrywallChick....that was well stated and so true. The best times are the ones working on how and with whom to flirt cuz somehow the effort seems to benefit both the giver and receiver. Age has nothing to do with it eithor. I flirt with 20ish to 60ish and the responses are universally positive. And boy do I love doing it with a little affectionate touch when the person seems all "dried up" from a lack of sensuous touching and affection. Give me the sensual anytime. I like to think it is the sizzle that sells everytime for all of us. Learn to find the sizzle and watch things change fast.

[dutch51]

What a great topic! When we meet a couple face to face (we've usually chatted online several times already), I like to be flirted with, talked to, and listened to. At a first meeting, there's interaction between the couples, but we like some individual flirting with as well. Not too much though, and sometimes there is a fine line, but a little tease, a little wink, a touch on the arm, some playful words- gosh I love that stuff! That's what makes me happy and makes me eager for more with the other couple. Hubby is a great charmer, and I love the way he treats other women- respectfully but flirtatiously, and I can tell they enjoy it. I like to feel the same way. Ask me questions, ask for my opinion, listen to me, smile at me, flirt with me- those things show you're interested in *me* and not that we're just another couple.

M.