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Forum: Getting Comfortable In Swinging

Swinging can be stressful! How do we start to lose the anxiety and get comfortable enough to start having fun?

  1. First time Next week!!! Kinda freaking out

    Started by newbutcurious, 10-25-2012 05:19 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    anxiety, first experience
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 3,112
    11-25-2012, 04:05 PM Go to last post
  2. Nerves

    Started by biwhat, 03-01-2010 08:29 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    fears, nervous
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 2,049
    12-20-2011, 01:44 PM Go to last post
  3. advice for a beginner couple

    Started by weifensi, 11-19-2011 11:16 PM
    common questions, getting started, swing-curious
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 3,420
    11-27-2011, 11:58 PM Go to last post
  4. How to transition from chit chat to foreplay/sex

    Started by HappyMdCpl, 02-26-2010 04:53 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    transitions
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,654
    05-31-2011, 01:47 AM Go to last post
  5. Learning and would like to get some opinions

    Started by Mrs.L01, 09-26-2010 10:23 PM
    should we swing
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,181
    11-28-2010, 02:15 PM Go to last post
  6. Me and gf thinking about swinging

    Started by zero, 09-14-2010 07:28 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    the next step
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 2,252
    10-19-2010, 06:45 PM Go to last post
  7. Unhappy Soon to be a single, no longer a couple

    Started by ArousedInterest, 09-22-2010 11:33 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    divorce, starting over
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 2,346
    10-06-2010, 03:03 PM Go to last post
  8. Not sure why it was uncomfortable, too much too soon?

    Started by ransa, 09-07-2010 07:02 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    comfort level, house party
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,594
    09-14-2010, 04:35 PM Go to last post
  9. How Long Did It Take to Be Comfortable With the Lifestyle?

    Started by WabashWilde, 04-27-2010 10:59 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    comfort level, nervous
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 3,387
    05-20-2010, 10:48 PM Go to last post
  10. trying to get started, but wife is sexually uptight

    Started by MasterHack2007, 01-09-2010 08:18 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    comfort level, sexuality
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,692
    03-22-2010, 10:27 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,075
    02-21-2010, 09:57 AM Go to last post
  11. How do we get past the shyness?

    Started by ILoveGreenEyez, 12-21-2008 10:19 PM
    shyness
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 2,099
    12-30-2008, 07:51 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 1,800
    10-31-2008, 02:06 PM Go to last post
  12. Its So Exciting!!! Taking the first steps

    Started by CuriousLeo's, 10-09-2008 06:06 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    the next step
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,103
    10-23-2008, 10:14 AM Go to last post
  13. How not to be a wallflower

    Started by njlp973, 11-01-2005 10:27 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    shyness
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 3,122
    03-25-2008, 10:40 AM Go to last post
  14. How long from meeting to playing?

    Started by ALilOEverything, 06-07-2004 01:38 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    approaching others, comfort level, how long
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 4,026
    03-20-2008, 04:27 PM Go to last post
  15. Were the feelings and thoughts what you expected ?

    Started by Ed & Bunny, 12-10-2007 09:14 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    expectations
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 4,432
    12-13-2007, 12:38 PM Go to last post
  16. A Breakthrough!

    Started by Ave Satanas, 06-05-2007 01:28 AM
    good experience, starting slow
    • Replies: 6
    • Views: 2,756
    06-13-2007, 06:07 PM Go to last post
  17. Home or Hotel - Preferred Place to Play

    Started by bear_n_bunny, 03-25-2004 12:04 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    hotels, swinger clubs, swinger parties, swinging at home, where to play
    • Replies: 39
    • Views: 3,264
    03-18-2007, 08:03 PM Go to last post
  18. Meeting Swingers That Don't Converse

    Started by avgcpl4u, 10-06-2006 03:34 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    shyness
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 3,314
    10-10-2006, 02:01 PM Go to last post
  19. Do you have cyber/phone sex with potential swing partners?

    Started by LFM2, 07-16-2006 04:48 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    cybersex, phone
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 3,231
    09-08-2006, 12:17 AM Go to last post
  20. Advice on How to Flirt

    Started by arbbwcouple, 08-08-2006 04:47 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    flirting
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,991
    08-11-2006, 07:56 PM Go to last post
  21. Initiating the action in a threesome

    Started by innocentlyshy10, 07-27-2006 11:57 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    initiating threesome
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 4,972
    08-05-2006, 07:03 AM Go to last post
  22. Question How long is reasonable for "getting to know you" phase?

    Started by Tybee Swing, 05-16-2006 10:49 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    common questions, how long
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 2,595
    05-22-2006, 06:04 AM Go to last post
  23. Do you ever get used to seeing your partner with someone else?

    Started by badbaddee, 08-23-2005 12:24 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    common questions
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 4,058
    09-13-2005, 04:00 PM Go to last post
  24. Help! How do you get past the "first time" jitters?

    Started by Plumeria, 07-22-2005 01:38 AM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    first time, nervous, single women, threesome, unicorn
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 4,088
    08-08-2005, 05:22 PM Go to last post
  25. Wife wants to swing, mixed feelings

    Started by Unregistered, 09-24-2004 12:59 PM
    jealousy, mixed feelings
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 3,955
    07-09-2005, 07:17 PM Go to last post
  26. Question Freaking out about first meeting with couple

    Started by NaughtyKitten, 05-26-2005 06:22 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    common questions, first meet, nervous
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 5,408
    07-09-2005, 05:17 PM Go to last post
  27. Inexperienced

    Started by chris_&_nadine, 12-02-2004 11:00 PM
    experience
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,184
    12-07-2004, 12:29 AM Go to last post
  28. Question Nervousness before meeting a new couple

    Started by OhioCouple, 10-05-2002 03:33 PM
    first meet, nervous
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,879
    06-24-2004, 02:47 PM Go to last post
  29. Talking Learning new things

    Started by gsu22, 04-04-2004 12:00 AM
    good experience
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,664
    05-07-2004, 01:02 AM Go to last post
  30. Let me tell you a story

    Started by EternallySingle, 04-28-2004 11:15 PM
    friendship and swinging, good experience, swinger parties
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 1,720
    04-30-2004, 09:25 PM Go to last post
  31. Meeting Couple for First Time, need advice

    Started by gsu22, 10-16-2003 12:57 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    meeting others, nervous
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 3,275
    11-04-2003, 08:56 PM Go to last post
  32. Comfort Levels? Inviting People Home?

    Started by OhioCouple, 07-22-2003 02:11 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    comfort level, home
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,696
    07-27-2003, 11:14 AM Go to last post
  33. Question Differing Comfort Levels Within Couple

    Started by OzSeeker, 01-13-2003 04:26 PM
    comfort level, different pace
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,624
    01-16-2003, 05:21 AM Go to last post
  34. Question Are they TOO experienced for us?

    Started by bonnie_clyde89, 12-12-2002 11:55 PM
    experience, intimidation
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 4,139
    12-16-2002, 06:24 PM Go to last post
  35. Post How Long Before you Full Swapped?

    Started by ciscosv, 07-17-2002 01:26 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    common questions, how long
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 3,955
    07-27-2002, 11:19 AM Go to last post
  36. Smile Bothered by Wife's Enthusiasm

    Started by incommunicado, 06-20-2002 09:44 AM
    anxiety, concerns
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,453
    06-22-2002, 04:20 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,828
    03-29-2002, 07:22 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 7,141
    06-11-2001, 08:33 PM Go to last post

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