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Forum: Getting Comfortable In Swinging

Swinging can be stressful! How do we start to lose the anxiety and get comfortable enough to start having fun?

  1. First time Next week!!! Kinda freaking out

    by newbutcurious, 10-25-2012 05:19 PM
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    anxiety, first experience
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 3,126
    11-25-2012, 04:05 PM Go to last post
  2. What's your swinging timeline?

    by JustAskJulie, 05-10-2012 05:39 PM
    history
    • Replies: 5
    • Views: 361
    05-12-2012, 08:19 AM Go to last post
  3. Nerves

    by biwhat, 03-01-2010 08:29 PM
    2 Pages
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    fears, nervous
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 2,071
    12-20-2011, 01:44 PM Go to last post
  4. advice for a beginner couple

    by weifensi, 11-19-2011 11:16 PM
    common questions, getting started, swing-curious
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 3,547
    11-27-2011, 11:58 PM Go to last post
  5. How to transition from chit chat to foreplay/sex

    by HappyMdCpl, 02-26-2010 04:53 PM
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    transitions
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,689
    05-31-2011, 01:47 AM Go to last post
  6. Me and gf thinking about swinging

    by zero, 09-14-2010 07:28 PM
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    the next step
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 2,267
    10-19-2010, 06:45 PM Go to last post
  7. Unhappy Soon to be a single, no longer a couple

    by ArousedInterest, 09-22-2010 11:33 PM
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    divorce, starting over
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 2,350
    10-06-2010, 03:03 PM Go to last post
  8. Not sure why it was uncomfortable, too much too soon?

    by ransa, 09-07-2010 07:02 PM
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    comfort level, house party
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,603
    09-14-2010, 04:35 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 3,410
    05-20-2010, 10:48 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,716
    03-22-2010, 10:27 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 33
    • Views: 3,050
    05-21-2009, 11:18 AM Go to last post
  9. Do you have each others back?

    by JustAskJulie, 02-05-2009 09:04 AM
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    trust
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 1,160
    02-07-2009, 09:51 PM Go to last post
  10. How do we get past the shyness?

    by ILoveGreenEyez, 12-21-2008 10:19 PM
    shyness
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 2,106
    12-30-2008, 07:51 AM Go to last post
  11. How not to be a wallflower

    by njlp973, 11-01-2005 10:27 AM
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    shyness
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 3,145
    03-25-2008, 10:40 AM Go to last post
  12. How long from meeting to playing?

    by ALilOEverything, 06-07-2004 01:38 PM
    2 Pages
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    approaching others, comfort level, how long
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 4,050
    03-20-2008, 04:27 PM Go to last post
  13. Were the feelings and thoughts what you expected ?

    by Ed & Bunny, 12-10-2007 09:14 AM
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    expectations
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 4,442
    12-13-2007, 12:38 PM Go to last post
  14. A Breakthrough!

    by Ave Satanas, 06-05-2007 01:28 AM
    good experience, starting slow
    • Replies: 6
    • Views: 2,765
    06-13-2007, 06:07 PM Go to last post
  15. Home or Hotel - Preferred Place to Play

    by bear_n_bunny, 03-25-2004 12:04 PM
    3 Pages
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    hotels, swinger clubs, swinger parties, swinging at home, where to play
    • Replies: 39
    • Views: 3,291
    03-18-2007, 08:03 PM Go to last post
  16. Meeting Swingers That Don't Converse

    by avgcpl4u, 10-06-2006 03:34 PM
    3 Pages
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    shyness
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 3,325
    10-10-2006, 02:01 PM Go to last post
  17. Do you have cyber/phone sex with potential swing partners?

    by LFM2, 07-16-2006 04:48 PM
    2 Pages
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    cybersex, phone
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 3,244
    09-08-2006, 12:17 AM Go to last post
  18. Advice on How to Flirt

    by arbbwcouple, 08-08-2006 04:47 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    flirting
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,997
    08-11-2006, 07:56 PM Go to last post
  19. Initiating the action in a threesome

    by innocentlyshy10, 07-27-2006 11:57 AM
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    1 2
    initiating threesome
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 5,001
    08-05-2006, 07:03 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 2,601
    05-22-2006, 06:04 AM Go to last post
  20. Help! How do you get past the "first time" jitters?

    by Plumeria, 07-22-2005 01:38 AM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    first time, nervous, single women, threesome, unicorn
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 4,119
    08-08-2005, 05:22 PM Go to last post
  21. Question Freaking out about first meeting with couple

    by NaughtyKitten, 05-26-2005 06:22 PM
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    1 2
    common questions, first meet, nervous
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 5,427
    07-09-2005, 05:17 PM Go to last post
  22. Inexperienced

    by chris_&_nadine, 12-02-2004 11:00 PM
    experience
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,187
    12-07-2004, 12:29 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,884
    06-24-2004, 02:47 PM Go to last post
  23. Talking Learning new things

    by gsu22, 04-04-2004 12:00 AM
    good experience
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,667
    05-07-2004, 01:02 AM Go to last post
  24. Let me tell you a story

    by EternallySingle, 04-28-2004 11:15 PM
    friendship and swinging, good experience, swinger parties
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 1,729
    04-30-2004, 09:25 PM Go to last post
  25. Meeting Couple for First Time, need advice

    by gsu22, 10-16-2003 12:57 AM
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    meeting others, nervous
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 3,288
    11-04-2003, 08:56 PM Go to last post
  26. Comfort Levels? Inviting People Home?

    by OhioCouple, 07-22-2003 02:11 PM
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    comfort level, home
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,712
    07-27-2003, 11:14 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,631
    01-16-2003, 05:21 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 4,143
    12-16-2002, 06:24 PM Go to last post
  27. Post How Long Before you Full Swapped?

    by ciscosv, 07-17-2002 01:26 PM
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    common questions, how long
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 3,970
    07-27-2002, 11:19 AM Go to last post
  28. Smile Bothered by Wife's Enthusiasm

    by incommunicado, 06-20-2002 09:44 AM
    anxiety, concerns
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,520
    06-22-2002, 04:20 PM Go to last post

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