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Forum: Getting Comfortable In Swinging

Swinging can be stressful! How do we start to lose the anxiety and get comfortable enough to start having fun?

  1. First time Next week!!! Kinda freaking out

    Started by newbutcurious, 10-25-2012 05:19 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    anxiety, first experience
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 3,101
    11-25-2012, 04:05 PM Go to last post
  2. Nerves

    Started by biwhat, 03-01-2010 08:29 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    fears, nervous
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 2,046
    12-20-2011, 01:44 PM Go to last post
  3. advice for a beginner couple

    Started by weifensi, 11-19-2011 11:16 PM
    common questions, getting started, swing-curious
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 3,362
    11-27-2011, 11:58 PM Go to last post
  4. How to transition from chit chat to foreplay/sex

    Started by HappyMdCpl, 02-26-2010 04:53 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    transitions
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,637
    05-31-2011, 01:47 AM Go to last post
  5. Learning and would like to get some opinions

    Started by Mrs.L01, 09-26-2010 10:23 PM
    should we swing
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,175
    11-28-2010, 02:15 PM Go to last post
  6. Me and gf thinking about swinging

    Started by zero, 09-14-2010 07:28 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    the next step
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 2,244
    10-19-2010, 06:45 PM Go to last post
  7. Unhappy Soon to be a single, no longer a couple

    Started by ArousedInterest, 09-22-2010 11:33 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    divorce, starting over
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 2,341
    10-06-2010, 03:03 PM Go to last post
  8. Not sure why it was uncomfortable, too much too soon?

    Started by ransa, 09-07-2010 07:02 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    comfort level, house party
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,588
    09-14-2010, 04:35 PM Go to last post
  9. How Long Did It Take to Be Comfortable With the Lifestyle?

    Started by WabashWilde, 04-27-2010 10:59 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    comfort level, nervous
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 3,378
    05-20-2010, 10:48 PM Go to last post
  10. trying to get started, but wife is sexually uptight

    Started by MasterHack2007, 01-09-2010 08:18 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    comfort level, sexuality
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,685
    03-22-2010, 10:27 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,071
    02-21-2010, 09:57 AM Go to last post
  11. How do we get past the shyness?

    Started by ILoveGreenEyez, 12-21-2008 10:19 PM
    shyness
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 2,094
    12-30-2008, 07:51 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 1,796
    10-31-2008, 02:06 PM Go to last post
  12. Its So Exciting!!! Taking the first steps

    Started by CuriousLeo's, 10-09-2008 06:06 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    the next step
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,092
    10-23-2008, 10:14 AM Go to last post
  13. How not to be a wallflower

    Started by njlp973, 11-01-2005 10:27 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    shyness
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 3,114
    03-25-2008, 10:40 AM Go to last post
  14. How long from meeting to playing?

    Started by ALilOEverything, 06-07-2004 01:38 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    approaching others, comfort level, how long
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 4,001
    03-20-2008, 04:27 PM Go to last post
  15. Were the feelings and thoughts what you expected ?

    Started by Ed & Bunny, 12-10-2007 09:14 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    expectations
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 4,428
    12-13-2007, 12:38 PM Go to last post
  16. A Breakthrough!

    Started by Ave Satanas, 06-05-2007 01:28 AM
    good experience, starting slow
    • Replies: 6
    • Views: 2,751
    06-13-2007, 06:07 PM Go to last post
  17. Home or Hotel - Preferred Place to Play

    Started by bear_n_bunny, 03-25-2004 12:04 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    hotels, swinger clubs, swinger parties, swinging at home, where to play
    • Replies: 39
    • Views: 3,198
    03-18-2007, 08:03 PM Go to last post
  18. Meeting Swingers That Don't Converse

    Started by avgcpl4u, 10-06-2006 03:34 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    shyness
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 3,307
    10-10-2006, 02:01 PM Go to last post
  19. Do you have cyber/phone sex with potential swing partners?

    Started by LFM2, 07-16-2006 04:48 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    cybersex, phone
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 3,219
    09-08-2006, 12:17 AM Go to last post
  20. Advice on How to Flirt

    Started by arbbwcouple, 08-08-2006 04:47 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    flirting
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,984
    08-11-2006, 07:56 PM Go to last post
  21. Initiating the action in a threesome

    Started by innocentlyshy10, 07-27-2006 11:57 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    initiating threesome
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 4,957
    08-05-2006, 07:03 AM Go to last post
  22. Question How long is reasonable for "getting to know you" phase?

    Started by Tybee Swing, 05-16-2006 10:49 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    common questions, how long
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 2,586
    05-22-2006, 06:04 AM Go to last post
  23. Do you ever get used to seeing your partner with someone else?

    Started by badbaddee, 08-23-2005 12:24 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    common questions
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 4,045
    09-13-2005, 04:00 PM Go to last post
  24. Help! How do you get past the "first time" jitters?

    Started by Plumeria, 07-22-2005 01:38 AM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    first time, nervous, single women, threesome, unicorn
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 4,076
    08-08-2005, 05:22 PM Go to last post
  25. Wife wants to swing, mixed feelings

    Started by Unregistered, 09-24-2004 12:59 PM
    jealousy, mixed feelings
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 3,946
    07-09-2005, 07:17 PM Go to last post
  26. Question Freaking out about first meeting with couple

    Started by NaughtyKitten, 05-26-2005 06:22 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    common questions, first meet, nervous
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 5,397
    07-09-2005, 05:17 PM Go to last post
  27. Inexperienced

    Started by chris_&_nadine, 12-02-2004 11:00 PM
    experience
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,180
    12-07-2004, 12:29 AM Go to last post
  28. Question Nervousness before meeting a new couple

    Started by OhioCouple, 10-05-2002 03:33 PM
    first meet, nervous
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,875
    06-24-2004, 02:47 PM Go to last post
  29. Talking Learning new things

    Started by gsu22, 04-04-2004 12:00 AM
    good experience
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,661
    05-07-2004, 01:02 AM Go to last post
  30. Let me tell you a story

    Started by EternallySingle, 04-28-2004 11:15 PM
    friendship and swinging, good experience, swinger parties
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 1,714
    04-30-2004, 09:25 PM Go to last post
  31. Meeting Couple for First Time, need advice

    Started by gsu22, 10-16-2003 12:57 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    meeting others, nervous
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 3,260
    11-04-2003, 08:56 PM Go to last post
  32. Comfort Levels? Inviting People Home?

    Started by OhioCouple, 07-22-2003 02:11 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    comfort level, home
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,692
    07-27-2003, 11:14 AM Go to last post
  33. Question Differing Comfort Levels Within Couple

    Started by OzSeeker, 01-13-2003 04:26 PM
    comfort level, different pace
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,620
    01-16-2003, 05:21 AM Go to last post
  34. Question Are they TOO experienced for us?

    Started by bonnie_clyde89, 12-12-2002 11:55 PM
    experience, intimidation
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 4,137
    12-16-2002, 06:24 PM Go to last post
  35. Post How Long Before you Full Swapped?

    Started by ciscosv, 07-17-2002 01:26 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    common questions, how long
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 3,944
    07-27-2002, 11:19 AM Go to last post
  36. Smile Bothered by Wife's Enthusiasm

    Started by incommunicado, 06-20-2002 09:44 AM
    anxiety, concerns
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,386
    06-22-2002, 04:20 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,821
    03-29-2002, 07:22 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 7,114
    06-11-2001, 08:33 PM Go to last post

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