What is the longest you've gone between meeting a specific couple/single?

[Tellya Later]

I only play with one couple for the most part as its hard enough to find decent couples to play with when you're single. So sometimes it takes a while for all our schedules to match. As of now its been a year. We still keep in touch but as time goes by its becoming less and less. I was wondering how long you've gone without meeting a couple and when you did finally meet did anything change once you saw them again. I think this would apply to couples and singles.

[angihay]

The longest we have gone is 3 months, when we did get together we did play after we met and had lunch made sure the chemistry was there. However in between meets we have had scheduling problems where it's been 3-4 months before being able to get together again. Just have fun with it! We wish you luck!

[sexypairca]

I voted for 9 to twelve months. We tend to stay in touch with people much better than that for the most part but it was almost 1 full year from an initial meet to schedules coinciding for a second. Well worth the wait though .

Annette

[Brit_Pair]

We've gone 6-9 months. When you're playing with only one couple only, and scheduling keeps getting messed up by Life's little surprises, it's surprising how quickly time passes.

[EternallySingle]

The last time I took part in a swinging event was almost three years ago. I volunteered to help at a party being held at a club and the rudest couple on the face of the earth (well, that I've ever run into) started giving me crap because I didn't want to have sex with the wife. Eventually I was asked to leave for causing a scene and all I did was say no to two people too drunk (and probably high) to take no for an answer. Of course, being the only single man in attendance put the three security people on edge and one actually said he was looking for any reason to put me out. Put a sour taste in my mouth, then I got over it. Took three years, but I got over it.

[Terrileex]

It is very hard to get everyone together, We usually try to have more then one couple we are talking to so we can hopefully get together every 3-6 months at the most with someone. We are luckey to have a female friend to join in every once in a while that helps add a little spice. :slam" :slam"

[Avantgarden38]

The longest we have gone (swinging for three years) was eight months. It was right after the break up of our relationship with our first couple. That relationship lasted almost a year.

We were hurt. We also learned many things and were very careful and selective who we chose for our second couple.

Unbelievably, after eight months of nothing we met two new couples the same week! We juggled both relationships for many months, unable and unwilling to choose just one. Eventually, one couple lost interest in us after they accomplished their "to-do list",
the other became complicated with their family issues. Luckily we had made other chat friends during these relationships, so it wasn't difficult to find a couple we had interest in after that. We have known our current couple for a year and a half.

[EternallySingle]

Would an impromto gangbang with a single woman and three other guys count, even though the woman says she had no interest in the lifestyle and the other guys just thought they were getting lucky? That happened to me back in June. Wasn't planned, no one claimed to be interested in swinging, and nobodyt wanted to talk about it afterward.

I simply chalked it up to one of the few perks of living in a tourist trap.

[shoreguy]

Michigan has tourists? Learn something new every day. 3 years at the Jersey shore doesn't seem to have done a thing for us.

I took it to mean meeting with a *particular* couple. We'll meet a couple in the next few weeks that we haven't really seen since last June, for about 7-8 months. Otherwise, we took off last summer, almost 3 months. Odd we never discussed taking the summer off. It just sort of happened.

[4Beauty2C]

With hub being in the Armed Forces it is a hit or miss with us. He has been gone for a few months now to Iraq so it puts a hold on swinging but of course when he comes back , seeing old and the new again.

[WesternSwing]

A woman and I have a great attraction to each other, but Mrs. WS isn't into her husband, which is cool with them. Mrs. WS is okay with me playing solo with her and they play solo quite often, so just me and her getting together isn't an issue.

But, us getting together seems to be. Every time we have time something is in the way of "going all the way", like "that" time of the month amongst others. We keep teasing that 2 years has to be a record for foreplay.

Mr. WS

[flkeyscouple]

This is hard to answer. We started swinging 15 years ago, had just a few encounters then took quite a few years off - our 'real' lives got in the way. Then we had just a few encounters and again took a few years off. Now that the kids are grown and gone and we've moved away from where we grew up, we are swinging regularily - really for the first time in our lives. So, I could easily answer 'over two years' or I could answer 'one month' - either end of the spectrum!

Sarah

[gatorvol64]

Originally Posted by Tellya Later

I only play with one couple for the most part as its hard enough to find decent couples to play with when you're single. So sometimes it takes a while for all our schedules to match. As of now its been a year. We still keep in touch but as time goes by its becoming less and less. I was wondering how long you've gone without meeting a couple and when you did finally meet did anything change once you saw them again. I think this would apply to couples and singles.

Now I read this to be you are asking about just one particular person/couple. Not how long between meeting with anyone at all. So, we had to put 9-12 months for a single friend of ours. Both Gator and he have difficult work schedules. Things were the cool when we saw him again and worth the wait.

Vol

[JustAskJulie]

Some of the couples we've hit off best with live too far away to get together more than a couple of times a year. And when we do get together it's like we haven't been apart.

At the same time, we met a couple at a social over a year ago. We felt like we hit it off but at the time we weren't ready to do more than talk. A couple of months ago we finally got together with them again, had dinner and more. They only live a few miles away but we still have been playing tag it seems to get together again.

I can't imagine limiting play to just one other couple...

[sweet_tna]

What a timely question (pun intended). The couple I was referring to in this post, we haven't played with in six LONG months. And we're still waiting . . . *drums fingers impatiently*

But eventually, the moon will be in the seventh house, Jupiter will align with Mars, and Mercury will be in retrograde . . . and we'll get to play with that couple again.

I don't know how we'd manage if we only played with one couple, unless our schedules were way more compatible.

=)