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    ~This space for rent~ LFM2's Avatar
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    Default Re: How Often is Too Much?

    Quote Originally Posted by exploringRM View Post
    Our playtime seems to come in feast or famine due to a variety of reasons (work schedule, opportunity, medical issues). It can be 4 times a month (with some at a house party with multiple encounters) to none a month.
    This is us as well... Just too many variables to mention.
    Dave & Holly

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    Default Re: How Often is Too Much?

    Too much is all in the eye of the beholder. But I would say that if it starts to interfere with the rest of your life, it's too much.

    We have stopped all playing now (and probably indefinitely), but over the last 2 years we played on the average of every week. Probably a bit more than that actually, maybe 1.5x/wk even.

    We were a bit odd though, we played almost entirely separate (1v1 mostly), so scheduling was much easier to handle.

    Some weeks we played a lot, 3+ times, and there were a few weeks we didn't play at all (on vacation, too many kid activities, people are sick, time of month..).

    Looking back, it seems kind of crazy actually. And at times, it was.

    Personally I hit the "too much" limit when I was trying to juggle time between 5 or so gals, some who wanted weekly play, some bi weekly play. That was cool for a few weeks, but it was too much beyond that.

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    Default Re: How Often is Too Much?

    Quote Originally Posted by MN Tom View Post
    Too much is all in the eye of the beholder. But I would say that if it starts to interfere with the rest of your life, it's too much.

    We have stopped all playing now (and probably indefinitely), but over the last 2 years we played on the average of every week. Probably a bit more than that actually, maybe 1.5x/wk even.

    We were a bit odd though, we played almost entirely separate (1v1 mostly), so scheduling was much easier to handle.

    Some weeks we played a lot, 3+ times, and there were a few weeks we didn't play at all (on vacation, too many kid activities, people are sick, time of month..).

    Looking back, it seems kind of crazy actually. And at times, it was.

    Personally I hit the "too much" limit when I was trying to juggle time between 5 or so gals, some who wanted weekly play, some bi weekly play. That was cool for a few weeks, but it was too much beyond that.
    We've been going about the same pace for the last month and I'm going to take some time off from it all for the next month until the next scheduled party that we're all set to go to. Mr. Sunbuckus gave me a hall pass which I've used about 4 times. It's exciting but I'm ready for Mr. Sunbuckus to have his turn to have fun. Unfortunately, it's much harder going the other way.

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    Default Re: How Often is Too Much?

    Since we moved to Florida, it's practically every weekend. It's sometimes exhausting lol...

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    Default Re: How Often is Too Much?

    Go on vacation to a resort for 7 days and you may have had enough to last you a while! We almost had enough by day 4 of our 7 day holiday with many couples asking us to hook up. There was no time to fit everyone in! Each night was fun with someone new but then it almost got too much. Maybe it was the Australian accent that made people want to play with us! But vacations aside we play every 1-2 months as we are very busy people, but we also still have sensational sex with each other. Our next trip to Desire is in June for a week. Will we be over it after day 4 again with people queueing up? We will let you know!

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    Default Re: How Often is Too Much?

    Quote Originally Posted by Swinging Oz View Post
    There was no time to fit everyone in!
    This is when you tell everyone "Orgy in my room". Sometimes a night that is more like a sampler platter and less like a main course is a great way to mix it up
    ~Lilo

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    Default Re: How Often is Too Much?

    Once a month for us But it's almost always dictated by how busy we are with work. For us, finding new couples each time online takes a lot of time. Then verification, then finding a good time to meet, etc. If you have a steady couple or frequent the clubs, it seems like it would be easier to find time more often for it.

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