Too eager?

[T-Rex]

We went to a great house party (out of town) recently and had a terrific time. We played a bunch. We then exchanged contact info with a number of couples, some we had played with and some we wanted to play with but ran out of time. We started getting emails a few days after we returned and I started answering them, working on times we might be able to meet, etc. Mrs. Rex says I'm being "too eager", so I slowed down, whatever that means!

So, what is the correct swinger dating etiquette in responding to people that you have played with and would like to see again (and who contacted you), and also, what is the correct swinger etiquette in responding to people that you haven't played with but have indicated an interest and who contacted you?

Is it too pushy to say "we'd love to get together with you and are available on x,y or z dates"? Is there some unwritten waiting time required? What am I missing here? When we started swinging it seemed simpler...arrgh!

[LFM2]

There is only something wrong with this if you're planning these dates without consulting your wife on her opinion and if she even indeed, wants to play with these couples.

There isn't a three day waiting period or anything.... just when the two of you are comfy meeting them.

Good Luck with arranging times and dates.

[SecretAsianMan]

There's no real "etiquette" or hard-n-fast rule on this... much like getting someone's number at a bar/party - how soon you choose to call is up to you.

I've sent a text message to a gal I met at a party the morning after thanking her for a wonderful time & asked if she was free for coffee that afternoon. We hooked up again that night just the two of us & it was the start of a beautiful friendship.