Friends and Lovers...

[DocWill]

Okay, so I just stopped in to check the new topics, found one, wrote in it, and now I have a question and I’d like to see the statistics and read your comments on the “why” and how.”

The question is:

How many of you, regardless of your level of experience, got your first taste of swinging, group sex, or multiple partner sex from your friends… and how many of you had your cherries popped, so to speak, by someone who was already in the lifestyle… and In either case, who started the ball rolling?

Clarification- “ball rolling” means who got the conversation moving towards the bedroom/floor/backseat/ table/ pool- not just the initial idea of it.

For us, our first experience(s) took place between close friends. Both of us really wanted to have a MFM, and to make a long story short, we both just felt more comfortable with someone she was attracted to and someone I could trust- trust with my wife, and trust with being able to handle the situation. So, we asked him one day... and he came over that night. In the end we had our MFM and it was pretty hot. The only complaint was that he would lose his erection every time Ms. Will asked him to fuck her. Poor guy (she is a little intimidating once naked and worked up… LOL!). It was fine, and we all remain good friends to this day.

So, let’s hear it… how’d it go with your first time?

[ViSexual]

We met our first couple through my work. He was a nice guy and his wife was cool too. In those days we didn't have alot of money so a group of us young couples from work would get together and have 'vanilla' house parties every other month or so. Those parties were pretty tame but there was always a lot of drinking and dancing.

It became fairly obvious that my wife and the husband of this one couple were attracted to each other and they danced together just about every slow dance at every party

His wife, like me, thought it was cool and we laughed about throwing cold water on them many times.

A couple of years later that couple and another couple were at our house to watch a movie. I'd managed to obtain a reel-to-reel copy of Deepthroat (now does that tell you how long ago?) and it was all the talk at the time and we got together to watch it.

Well, being the first time any of us had seen something that explicit we were pretty turned on by the end. The third couple left quickly after the movie was over for obvious needs! LOL!

But, this couple stayed and we drank some more and I believe even danced some. My wife and the other husband both got tired about the same time but the other wife said she wanted to stay up longer and I said I wasn't that tired either. So, my wife went to bed and the other husband went home when I offered to give his wife a ride home later. They only lived a few blocks away.

The other wife and I drank and talked for a couple of hours. The conversation was, naturally, pretty much about sex because of the movie we'd watched. During the conversation she admitted to me that her husband had been with another woman, with her permission. I don't think I knew how to respond but it did make me think.

On the way, taking her home, to her house she mentioned how her husband thought my wife was sexy and I said that I knew my wife felt the same about him and that I wouldn't care if they consumated the attraction. She laughed and said that she wouldn't either and that she and I could have fun while they did it.

I believe that's when I said, "you're serious, aren't you?"

She responded, "are you?"

I believe my grin was all the answer she needed and she pulled me into their house (we'd been in the car in the driveway while we were talking) and went to the bedroom and woke her husband up. If he was asleep at all?

He joined the conversation just long enough to find out if we were serious and then he went back to my house to talk to my wife.

His wife and I waited for him to call. It was probably two hours and, honestly, his wife and I did nothing until he called. We were horny but we wanted to make sure everything was OK first.

When he called we went back over and the two of them were in the kitchen and, obviously, had recently finished lovemaking.

They said it was our turn and we took it. After the other wife and I had been allowed our privacy for a while the four of us shared the bed.

It was pretty apparent that this couple had conspired this seduction and I, for one, was glad they had.

[bbarnsworth]

There wasn't a poll option for us. Our first experience was at a club, and both couples instigated it.

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by bbarnsworth

There wasn't a poll option for us. Our first experience was at a club, and both couples instigated it.

Looks like you can select multiple answers in this poll....

Mrsfun and I Will have to take the top two poll answers


fun4ds

[biplayfulcouple]

wow! one of the coolest stories ever!

[Alura]

We met a couple while waiting for seating at an Italian restaurant. By the time we got to the front of the line we'd decided to share a table for four. Having dinner together was a mutual decision, but I have to admit it was Mrs. Alura who asked, "How do y'all feel about swinging?"

"We'd love to try it!" replied Mrs. Playmate, without consulting her husband.

I checked both the top boxes.

Alura

[ClosetSwinger]

Ours was with LONG time friends. We all had WAY too much to drink on New Years. None of us had ever done anything like that before and the wife instigated things with me and I went with it.

[joaninla]

Originally Posted by DocWill

For us, our first experience(s) took place between close friends. Both of us really wanted to have a MFM, and to make a long story short, we both just felt more comfortable with someone she was attracted to and someone I could trust- trust with my wife, and trust with being able to handle the situation. So, we asked him one day... and he came over that night. In the end we had our MFM and it was pretty hot. The only complaint was that he would lose his erection every time Ms. Will asked him to fuck her. Poor guy (she is a little intimidating once naked and worked up… LOL!). It was fine, and we all remain good friends to this day.

So, let’s hear it… how’d it go with your first time?

Very similar situation with us - I felt much more at ease with an ex-boyfriend. I no longer had any emotional attachment to him, but I knew he loved having sex with me. He immediately said "yes" to my husband when he asked if he would have any interest in an MFM. It went very well - no erection issues - and all 3 of us were very turned on the entire time. I have said here before that at least for me, having our first (of now many, many) MFM with someone I knew and to some extent knew what to expect took away many of my first time anxieties.

[JDApopka]

#2 for us I had been wanting to watch her with another man and felt she needed to have the experience since I was her 1st and only. I had a friend that was afew years younger than us and asked her to suduce him. He was allways at our house One saturday nite after kids had gone to bed. we were just watching Tv. Deb went back in the room for a short amount of time and came back out in a sexy white nitey. His eyes got big and she sat down between us. He was very nervous, I told him to chill out go with the flow. Deb got the ball rolling by asking him to rub her shoulders. he could help himself once he touched her and soon she took him back to the bedroom where they had some. She told me afterwards that he came as soon as he got in but recovered fairly quickly. I join in a short time later. It was lots of fun