kissing, yes or no?

ldenn2 · 08-10-2010, 11:08 PM

Everybody to their own as the man said as he kissed the cow but.
Everybody has their own kinks(except me of course

). That's OK, I'm just courious about some peoples rule about no kissing. If you are going to put it in down there why not kissing. Surely sticking a hard penis in is about as intimate as it gets. especally if you are riding bareback We are in this for sexual thrills not love, although you may become friends. TThere is very little more erotic than a good open mouth, wet, tonugue wrestleing contest.

**LFM2** · 08-11-2010, 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by ldenn2

Everybody to their own as the man said as he kissed the cow but.
Everybody has their own kinks(except me of course

). That's OK, I'm just curious about some peoples rule about no kissing. If you are going to put it in down there why not kissing. Surely sticking a hard penis in is about as intimate as it gets. especially if you are riding bareback We are in this for sexual thrills not love, although you may become friends. There is very little more erotic than a good open mouth, wet, tongue wrestling contest.

There seems to be a lot of controversy regarding kissing in the swinging world. Sometimes, it's considered more intimate than intercourse.

We had a no kissing rule in our 1202 rules when we first started. That ended the first date we had with another couple. (as well as 1200 other rules)

I absolutely love kissing. It's one of those things that each couple has to decide for themselves. Some couples feel that's the most intimate thing that they keep between them. It all just depends on the couple.

As you can see from the following links, it's definitely been discussed here before.

The kissing rule

Kissing seems too intimate

Do you find kissing to be a normal part of swinging play

Couples who have a no kissing rule

How do you feel about kissing

Do you reserve kissing for your partner only?

Does anyone else have a no kissing rule?

Coupleerotic22 · 08-11-2010, 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by LFM2

We had a no kissing rule in our 1202 rules when we first started. That ended the first date we had with another couple. (as well as 1200 other rules)

Too funny! I Love it.

It is so much like us I am tempted to make it my sig.

Dynamar · 08-11-2010, 08:29 AM

Stupidest rule ever. <<<Said with the confidence of someone who's come across lots of people with that rule, and found early on that many who have it, have NOT the readiness for swinging.

Kissing gets my motor running, and I don't play with people who have that rule.

oc1234 · 08-11-2010, 09:14 AM

Kissing is very important to me. I can't imagine having sex with someone without kissing
being a part of it. When I watch my wife having sex with a partner, I am as turned on by them kissing as I am by them having intercourse.

PB&J · 08-11-2010, 09:50 AM

My motto: If I can't kiss you, you can't fuck me.

JDApopka · 08-11-2010, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by PB&J

My motto: If I can't kiss you, you can't fuck me.

I like that one

My wife is big on kissing and I really enjoy watching her make out with her boyfriend

ClosetSwinger · 08-11-2010, 10:11 AM

I've met a few couples that had the no kissing rule. Personally I am unable to play without kissing. It's just a natural part of sex for me. We have actually turned couples down BECAUSE of this rule. Not because I'm trying to be controlling BUT because I fear in the heat of the moment I would do it without thinking, I don't want to have a HUGE dramafest afterwards so I'd rather not even take the chance.

SecretAsianMan · 08-11-2010, 12:04 PM

Not kissing is really hard for me... I love to kiss.

I've been with a few who have "no kissing" rules - I can respect that, but it's not a preference for me

**Alura** · 08-11-2010, 04:07 PM

As LFM2 pointed out above, this subject has come up many times. I've often asked, "If you don't kiss, how do you 'warm up'?" I don't believe I've received a definitive answer. So, I'll rephrase the question and try again...

Let's suppose partners have been exchanged with another couple and sex is definitely on the agenda but one couple has a "no kissing" rule. How do y'all begin?

Alura

ClosetSwinger · 08-11-2010, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Alura

Let's suppose partners have been exchanged with another couple and sex is definitely on the agenda but one couple has a "no kissing" rule. How do y'all begin?

Alura

great question. I'd love to know the answer too!

I'm guessing the answer is going to be a BJ and/or going down on the woman?

SecretAsianMan · 08-11-2010, 05:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Alura

Let's suppose partners have been exchanged with another couple and sex is definitely on the agenda but one couple has a "no kissing" rule. How do y'all begin?

Alura

I would probably just begin by touching... caresses on the shoulders & arms - moving to the legs & thighs. (Typically the "no kissing" only applies to mouth-to-mouth kissing -- so kissing along the neck, shoulders, arms... then work it down to the breasts and off ya go!)

**Alura** · 08-11-2010, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by ClosetSwinger

great question. I'd love to know the answer too!

I'm guessing the answer is going to be a BJ and/or going down on the woman?

I'd almost bet you're right, ClosetSwinger, but it seems to me that'd be leaving out some of the best stuff... stuff that I'd hate to miss out on!

Alura

**Alura** · 08-11-2010, 06:28 PM

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Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

I would probably just begin by touching... caresses on the shoulders & arms - moving to the legs & thighs. (Typically the "no kissing" only applies to mouth-to-mouth kissing -- so kissing along the neck, shoulders, arms... then work it down to the breasts and off ya go!)

Would y'all be starting out clothed or pre-stripped?

Alura

Chicup · 08-11-2010, 09:56 PM

We knew a couple with a no kissing rule.

They eventually relented on that rule.

They were awful kissers.

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08-10-2010, 11:08 PM	#1 (permalink)
ldenn2 Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 16 Location: midsouth Status: m	kissing, yes or no? Everybody to their own as the man said as he kissed the cow but. Everybody has their own kinks(except me of course). That's OK, I'm just courious about some peoples rule about no kissing. If you are going to put it in down there why not kissing. Surely sticking a hard penis in is about as intimate as it gets. especally if you are riding bareback We are in this for sexual thrills not love, although you may become friends. TThere is very little more erotic than a good open mouth, wet, tonugue wrestleing contest.

08-11-2010, 08:29 AM	#4 (permalink)
Dynamar Ready-Willing-Able Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 746 Location: A flyover state Status: Single Swing Lifestyle Name:Dynamar	Re: kissing Stupidest rule ever. <<<Said with the confidence of someone who's come across lots of people with that rule, and found early on that many who have it, have NOT the readiness for swinging. Kissing gets my motor running, and I don't play with people who have that rule.
	__________________ ~Dynamar

08-11-2010, 09:14 AM	#5 (permalink)
oc1234 Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 61 Location: maryland Status: couple	Re: kissing Kissing is very important to me. I can't imagine having sex with someone without kissing being a part of it. When I watch my wife having sex with a partner, I am as turned on by them kissing as I am by them having intercourse.

08-11-2010, 09:50 AM	#6 (permalink)
PB&J Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 1,308 Location: Southern Ontario Status: female half of couple	Re: kissing My motto: If I can't kiss you, you can't fuck me.
	__________________ Who doesn't like a PB&J sandwich?

08-11-2010, 10:11 AM	#8 (permalink)
ClosetSwinger Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 159 Location: Where the Sun Shines Status: Wife Half of Married Couple.	Re: kissing I've met a few couples that had the no kissing rule. Personally I am unable to play without kissing. It's just a natural part of sex for me. We have actually turned couples down BECAUSE of this rule. Not because I'm trying to be controlling BUT because I fear in the heat of the moment I would do it without thinking, I don't want to have a HUGE dramafest afterwards so I'd rather not even take the chance.

08-11-2010, 12:04 PM	#9 (permalink)
SecretAsianMan Tastes Great Less Filling Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,467 Location: Los Angeles Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Secret_Asian_Man	Re: kissing Not kissing is really hard for me... I love to kiss. I've been with a few who have "no kissing" rules - I can respect that, but it's not a preference for me
	__________________ Have some... you'll want some more an hour later

08-11-2010, 04:07 PM	#10 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,136 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: kissing As LFM2 pointed out above, this subject has come up many times. I've often asked, "If you don't kiss, how do you 'warm up'?" I don't believe I've received a definitive answer. So, I'll rephrase the question and try again... Let's suppose partners have been exchanged with another couple and sex is definitely on the agenda but one couple has a "no kissing" rule. How do y'all begin? Alura
	__________________ "They may call me a rube and a hick, but I'd a lot rather be the man who bought the Brooklyn Bridge than the man who sold it." —Will Rogers

08-11-2010, 09:56 PM	#15 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: kissing We knew a couple with a no kissing rule. They eventually relented on that rule. They were awful kissers.

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