Do you prefer group or one couple?

[ViSexual]

I can see the appeal of going to a club or party. The total 'group' thing ads a degree of sex for just sex that some couples and partners are more comfortable with.

But, for me, it's not about just having sex with a body, it's more about enjoying sex with the person. I much prefered it be just my wife and a couple we both enjoyed and liked.

So, would you be more comfortable at a large part with lots of folks or, the more intimate one-on-one of swapping with a couple in private?

[NWAtlSwing]

We like both for what they offer. A big party can be a lot of wild fun. Swapping with one couple can be quite and we take our time.

[Newpants]

I'm not sure if you talking about a groupsex encounter where there are a group of naked bodies in a room having sex or if are you talking about a club or party where people are socializing and meeting other people socially with the potential for some kind of sexual encounter?

I'll assume you are talking about an actual groupsex encounter for the purposes of this discussion and you can correct me if I am wrong.

One major benifit that a group encounter or a group party like a house party has over a "date" with another couple is the party reduces the need for a "4-way click".

It is often very hard to get 2 couples that have a mutual attraction to the degree required to have a sexual encounter. More often than not one of the 4 isn't feeling the love and either things stop right there or you have 2 people going at it with the other 2 just sitting there looking uncomfortable.

In a group setting people can find their own match and it isn't as necessary that each of the partners also hit it off.

Yes there is probably more comfort and intimacy when 2 couples do hit it off and everything falls into place but sometimes it is nice just to be able to play with the person or people that you connect with without having to play matchmaker with your corresponding partners.

[SecretAsianMan]

For maximum stimuli ... a group-sex encounter

For maximum intimacy ... (well, that's achieved in a one-on-one encounter with my partner) ... in a swinger setting - yes, I prefer smaller groups (threesome with another couple or two-on-two with couple-swapping)

[cocpl2007]

One couple... for maximum stimuli

We much prefer that scenario, getting to know one another first, taking some time to develop and evolve the eroticism, can lead to down right exhausting sexual encounters.

[realcplub2]

We prefer couple 2 couple, went as far as having 3 couples

Part of the appeal is being able to see whats going on What my wife is doing and she has made no bones about being able to watch what I am doing is a large plus too

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by NWAtlSwing

We like both for what they offer.

Same here. Depends on the night and the mood.
Sometimes you order the entrée. Other times it's the buffet.

[Tia Vampire]

...What they said.

[ALilOEverything]

I like to just go with what the night brings and it's often fun to mix it up. Generally it's just one other couple but if other's join then it's a real treat!

[sweet_tna]

Mr. Sweet and like both, and there are pros and cons to each. If we're in a mood for a la carte, a party is definitely the way to go. If you want to keep it together, then couples are the ticket.

=)

[divenaked]

in a word.............YES

[LFM2]

We like both. It just depends on the situation, we believe. Like Two4you said, sometimes you want the buffet and sometimes you just want an entree. We all like dessert.

[ratimadan]

Originally Posted by NWAtlSwing

We like both for what they offer. A big party can be a lot of wild fun.

Ditto. We enjoy both. With one couple you can enjoy intimacy during foreplay and intercourse and watch your mate having fun and cum to orgasm. In a private couples' sex party group sex is a great turn on. Both have their place in our swinging world.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by divenaked

in a word.............YES

Like you, I am an incurable literalist. If a waitress asks me, "would you like hot tea or iced tea?", I answer, "yes."

[dr_pepper]

Originally Posted by Newpants

It is often very hard to get 2 couples that have a mutual attraction to the degree required to have a sexual encounter. More often than not one of the 4 isn't feeling the love and either things stop right there or you have 2 people going at it with the other 2 just sitting there looking uncomfortable.

This I can really relate to. A few years back I was married to a lady who was very open to finding another couple to have some fun with, but we ran into just this. The chemistry just never seemed right for all parties.

We did have individual encounters and this was fine with both of us, but we had some friends that we would have loved to share with.

In earlier days (before me) she had been in some group scenes and enjoyed them but really wanted a more intimate encounter, with another couple or a 3rd person.

Sadly, I have not found anyone else who is open to this lifestyle.