Housekeeping 1st, sex 2nd. Is it just us?

[TwoLittleBirds]

We have a threesome partner coming up this week and my first thought is, "I gotta' mow the lawn!"

And Mrs. Little Bird just said to me 10 minutes ago, "I'm so tired, but I really should start straightening up."

We're bringing a guy over to "tag team" my wifey; We'd better make sure the house is neat.

It just kind of hit me how odd that thought pattern is.

[Lascivious L&L]

That's exactly how my wife would react. My reaction would be "Got to clean the workshop." After all being a man he might want to see the shop!

Of course neatness and cleanliness is pure sexual arousal.

[Alura]

Hey! The shop is critical!

The motorcycles must be perfectly lined up and the new engine suspended over the engine compartment of the project car.

All tools must be on their pegs and the workbench and welding table clean.

Ah, to Hell with it. Better to invite a lady.


Alura

[LFM2]

I would think the same way. Who wants to see dirty dishes and a messy house? I'd walk out if I was the third and wonder why they are so dirty. There's nothing wrong with wanting to make sure the lawn is mowed and the house straightened up. However, I'd clean quite giddy knowing that some other guy was coming over to the house.

[cocpl2007]

Reminds me of a "trap door" scenario, last year. Thought we'd met a compatible couple, seemed to be fine when we met, then they invited us over... how about that cat litter tray, uncovered and almost filled, right smack in the middle of the Guest bath, and to top it off feeding the kitties on the kitchen counter!

We didn't make it to the workshop!

[JustNTerested]

It's not just "us".

We are the same way. We just started this and before the first time a few weeks ago, we were hustling around straightening up, putting items away and making the house smell really, REALLY good. Kids room doors were close , carpet cleaned and pretty little designs made by the vaccum cleaner (my idea). Do what you need to do so that YOU are comfortable and not worrying about what he may be thinking while trying to enjoy yourselves. That would definately ruin the mood. I'm with you on this. OH, I guess I need to start cleaning up...NOW

[realcplub2]

Folks, Simple solution...

Play all AWAY GAMES.. We prefer spending the evening, in a discreet Hotel or Motel room..

Why?

1. No worries about the neighbors being nosey
2. No worries about the kids coming home early or when the werent supposed to
"Mom, WHAT ARE YOU>> WHO THE HELL IS THAT??"
3. No worries about washing the sheets in the morning (which leads to #4)
4. We can tear the place up, ruin both beds.. use every towel in the place.. And walk without worrying, WHOS CLEANING THIS MESS UP

Plus, it always gives us a chuckle to wonder what the maid will think..

[lustylearning]

No, it's not just you, though I have the mental standard when having people in my own home, not so much the homes of others, unless it's really bad. Funny thing is, my husband would look at me and say, it's just you; no one is perfect; no one expects perfection. And I just don't care. I will not be comfortable unless things are at a certain hosting/cleanliness/neatness level. We seldom work this one out to my satisfaction, even for vanilla friends, so... yeah, we go out.

[JustAskJulie]

Nope. Not just you. It's one of the reasons I prefer hotels... all I gotta clean is ME!

It doesn't matter who's coming to my house, my first concern is "is it clean!?"

I think that if you are going to invite someone over to your house, YES it should be clean. If I walk in a person's house and it's dirty or smell bad, I will excuse myself. We do prefer a hotel, but things don't always work out that way, so if we invite someone to our home or they home...........YES we want the place to be clean. So, NO you are not wrong for wanting things to be neat and in order.