Women Who Initiate the Idea of Swinging

[DarkVoyuer]

Although more men initiate the idea of swinging to their wives than visa versa, I am curious on how women initiate the idea of swinging. I find it hard to believe that it would be significantly easier for wives to initiate the idea of swinging. Even if the guy is interested in FFM threesome, I could see at least over 70% of these guys declining.

From the vanilla guys who I have talked to, even when the idea of FFM is introduced first in the conversation, many guys looked puzzled and suspicious. I asked several guys in a serious relationship, "If your girlfriend/wife said that she wanted a threesome with you and another woman, would you be okay with it?" A lot of the guys simply said no because they suspected that they would be forced to permit their wives/girlfriends to have sex with other men. Some of the vanilla guys insinuated that her desire for such things would indicate she has low morals.

In saying this, I am curious on how women introduce the idea of swinging? Do you introduce the FFM fantasy first? Did your husband question your motivations behind introducing the idea? Did it threaten your marriage? Again, I am very curious to read the responses.