MMF Threesomes

[DarkVoyuer]

Although I find FFM threesomes sexy, I do not have any interest in discussing it from an analytical perspective. However, I am very curious on why men find MMF threesomes sexy. Why would they find the idea of their wife having sex with another man sexy? When did you start having this type of fantasy? Have you ever shared this type of fantasy with vanilla men during conversation? Do you enjoy MMF threesomes more than FFM threesomes?


Please share your thoughts.

[bbarnsworth]

Originally Posted by DarkVoyuer

Although I find FFM threesomes sexy, I do not have any interest in discussing it from an analytical perspective. However, I am very curious on why men find MMF threesomes sexy. Why would they find the idea of their wife having sex with another man sexy? When did you start having this type of fantasy? Have you ever shared this type of fantasy with vanilla men during conversation? Do you enjoy MMF threesomes more than FFM threesomes?


Please share your thoughts.

There was a somewhat recent poll here that showed the male readers here favor MFM threesomes over FMF threesomes two to one. My wife found that result surprising, though she understands it.

I'm very oriented towards pleasing my wife. I strive every day to make her life easier, better, happier, more fun, more pleasurable. How much pleasure I get from MFMs is directly proportional to how much my wife is enjoying it. She very much enjoys MFMs, and is always up for them. I love helping her fulfill her fantasies, and seeing her have so much fun, so much pleasure. I get very turned on seeing how much my wife enjoys having sex with another man. I don't have an explanation for it, and frankly stopped trying to figure it out a long time ago. It just is.

We've never had an FMF threesome, and don't expect we will. It's not that we're avoiding them, but finding a willing single female is difficult at best, and we're having so much fun with couples and single males it seems almost pointless trying to find a single female, given all the work it takes. We wouldn't turn down an FMF if presented with a woman we both liked. But, I doubt it'll ever happen. Though, I do have a specific fantasy involving lots of women in bed with me. That'll never happen

I didn't start having fantasies of MFM threesomes until I saw how much my wife enjoyed them.

We've never talked with vanilla males about MFM threesomes, and I doubt we ever will.

[Oleg&Lena]

I could just say something like... I prefer MFM because I like watching my wife enjoy sex with other men because I love her... But I believe there is no one reason in the men's background to prefere MFM.
Every man is many-sided personality and when he is doing something the reasons of that are not so simple as he sometimes says of them, they are many-sided too. A bit of this, a bit of that and something else...
At first I want to be with my wife as close as possible during swinging. I just want to be close to watch her emotions, to hear her moans...Because of that I prefer MFM more than MFMF.
Secondly I am be curious and last time we have been looking for males who is be curious too. My wife likes to watch this. So I prefer MFM more than FMF.
We like double prenetration and MFM give us the possibility to realise that.
And so on.
As a rule I never share my fantasies like MFM or swinging with vanilla friends of mine but once I told my friend. Although that fact was an exception. He was very interesting in swinging and every time we met began the talk to this subject.

[sexyannie]

Hi, this is Nick, AKA Mr. sexyannie, Annie thought this was a good question for me to contribute to since most of our swinging involves her being with other men while I watch.

I think the previous explanations are pretty good, and definately agree there is no single reason, not only for different people, but for one person.

It was my suggestion that Annie should do threesomes, foursomes or moresomes. I didn't always feel this way though. In fact, some early cheating on her behalf when we were dating (we dated for 7 years) sent me into a jealous fit. What was interesting though was that shortly after her confession, which was also quickly after the cheating (early the next morning), I wanted to have sex with her. At the time I kind of chalked this up to a basic human (historic) instinct in me to reclaim what was mine. I completely discounted the fact that I may be turned on.

We were still in college, and it turned out that she cheated on me again (and I was not perfect either), but as I would eventually discover, she had been with more than one man at once. After again being outraged by this discovery I slowly started to fantasies about watching her with other men. This fantasy became very strong almost to the point of being an obsession. We patched everything up and eventually got married, but I still thought about it a lot. She eventually agreed to give it a try, and once I witnessed her with them, I was sold. She was so hot and sexy, and absolutely satisfied. We have been doing them ever since.

I don't think that is a perfect and clean answer, but I doubt you will get one. I could have also answered in one sentence. The mind wants what it wants, and finds attractive what it is attracted to. Believe me, I have wondered if there is something wrong with me, because "society" will tell you the ultimate male fantasy is a fmf. I have to disagree.

We have only shared details about our activities with one of the Annie's friends, and she eventually joined us in a fmf. We do not discuss these things with our vanilla friends.

Hope this helped, sorry for the long answer.

Nick

[DarkVoyuer]

Originally Posted by sexyannie

Believe me, I have wondered if there is something wrong with me, because "society" will tell you the ultimate male fantasy is a fmf. I have to disagree.

I agree. FMF is the most overstated fantasy in American history. Many guys would find FMF revolting. Reality TV star Greg Brady(well he starred in the Brady bunch) was offended when he thought his girlfriend was suggesting a MFF threesome. I just find gender stereotypes regarding sex annoying. Some of the men I know would freak out about a FFM threesome.

[WesternSwing]

For me, MFM threesomes are just more erotic. I much prefer seeing a woman being ravished and pleased by two adoring men than being the center of attention of two women. Although both are physically satisfying, MFM is "giving" where FMF feels like "taking" for me, and thus I get more emotional satisfaction out of MFM situations.

Why do I find the idea of my wife having sex with another man sexy? Because she is my favorite pornstar and I get to see her doing her thing from the third person perspective, which I don't get when we are having sex together. Also, there is something very primitive and carnal for me about having sex with a woman who's just had sex with someone else.

I realized that MFM was my preferred threesome scenario after the first time my wife and I did one. It was a much greater rush than I had expected and produced a greater rush than the FMF threesomes we've had.

LScribbens

[Oleg&Lena]

Originally Posted by sexyannie

What was interesting though was that shortly after her confession, which was also quickly after the cheating (early the next morning), I wanted to have sex with her. At the time I kind of chalked this up to a basic human (historic) instinct in me to reclaim what was mine. I completely discounted the fact that I may be turned on.

'...to reclaim what is mine...' - I believe that is main line of everything - as Nick have said - a basic human (historic) instinct.

[mike4amy]

It's sort of odd... When we first got involved with this the thought of my wife with another fellow scared me. I didn't know how I'd feel.

Ironically I've found it to be one of the biggest turn-ons to see her with someone else. Like someone said above - I get to see my favorite porn-star in action live! Like stated above I love having sex with her after she's just been with someone too.

I never had this fantasy before our first experience - though I did, of course, have the fantasy of being with two women alone. Happily I've had that experience too!

Which was better? Hard to tell - but setting up a MFM is much easier than a FMF especially since my wife is straight.

[Stevef8]

I find my wife involved in a MFM situation as one of the hotest scenes ever. I have never really been interested in FMF. Doesn't appeal to me. However, I get so extremely horney when I see her with other men and know she's actually enjoying herself. I have always preferred giving oral to insertion. We are introducing a man this weekend to our lives as a "friend with benefits" for her. Soon, once everyone is completely comfortable with each other, I am going to bring in another man (only on an occasional basis) to join the two of them while I watch and soft play with her. (Any volunteers? LOL). Who knows, one of these days, we may have her cuffed to the bed, blindfolded, and see if she can guess how many men are playing with her and I'll invite more men to the fun.

[ViSexual]

OK, let's be honest, how many men can really satisfy two women at once?

The only real draw for a couple having a FFM is if the wife is bi and the third is there to satisfy that need as well as letting the hubby have extra-maital fun too.

I think the MFM is something us married men enjoy because it takes the perfomance pressure off both men. And, if the men are bi, well self-explanitory! LOL!

But, the truth is sometimes that the husband use this as an introduction to swinging for the wife. And, after the wife sees the rewards of group sex, well on to foursomes!

[JDApopka]

For me I guess I'll put it like this the mrs and I married young (18) I was her 1st and only and after our 2nd was born I felt she missed out on seeing what else was out there. So with my encourgement she suduced a friend. I found it quite arrousing and we've been doing it ever since. I know she loves me and it seems to make our relationship stronger.
We have a nice gentleman that we are playing with now and they get along so well that she is going on a date with him soon. My dick twitches at just the thought of it.

J

[starryeyes]

I can tell you that just the mere mention that I would like to have one of my boy toys over with us causes my hubby to walk funny. I know that I am madly in love with my hubby and vise versa. He likes that I am the center of attention as do I and we all enjoy ourselves. He has told me that he totally enjoys seeing me having a great time... and what a time it is.

I have tried several times to get him a FMF, but he says that he would rather have a MFM. He says it's more erotic.

[mandlori]

I am not sure I know for sure why, but I am really turned on by seeing my wife with another guy. Maybe it is an ego thing for me - that other guys find her attractive and a great person to play with. Maybe it is because she could only cum about once a month before we started swinging, but my prediction that she would cum a lot with "new and different" proved to be an understatement. It is so hot to hear her cumming, and cumming, and cumming. I remember one time having a couple over to our house. The other lady and I weren't really that interested in having sex, but we were both okay with her husband and my wife doing it. We were sitting in the next room talking and every few minutes there would be moaning from our bedroom. The lady asked what was going on. I told her it was my wife cumming. She said she had to see this. I don't know what was better - watching my wife having one good cum after another or watching the look on the other lady's face. Next time we all met that lady and I did it but I still think it was more enjoyable watching my wife and the other guy doing it, and my wife having those multiple orgasms.

[DMPJ]

I agree with what the others have said in this thread. I've been in a FMF and a MFM and I found the MFM more memorable and erotic.

The first time we engaged in a MFM threesome, me nor my girlfriend knew what to expect. I was nervous that I was not going to like it or be jealous the next day. But after all was said and done, it was probably the hottest sex I've ever had. Seeing my girlfriend seducing another guy while I was there watching and encouraging him was the highlight of our evening. After all was said and done, we were both smiling for days afterward.

So far, the two guys we've invited into our bedroom have been respectful and made the experience enjoyable. I can see where I would hate it if the other guy was obnoxious or crosses a boundary. But so far - knock on wood - no complaints.

[Brian and Jo]

We have enjoyed both MFM and FMF threesomes and we have to agree that MFM is better. First, I (Brian) get a real charge out of watching and listening to Jo having sex with another man. I love to watch her licking and sucking on his hard cock but the best part is watching her being fucked. Seeing another man penetrate my wife prior to sliding in and out of her is probably the most erotic sight I have ever seen - I never tire of it. Second, for Jo, having two men to please her is a real bonus. She is multi-orgasmic and likes to cum as often as possible when she is having sex. With me and another man taking turns to fuck her or one licking her while the other fucks her is pure heaven for her. She also likes to suck a cock while she is being fucked. Third, I am bi and if the other guy is bi too it is a real bonus for both of us. I love to suck a hard cock and to fuck and be fucked by a man. For her part watching me playing with another man gets Jo really turned on and she will often masturbate to an orgasm while she is watching us. That is unless she decides to join in! So MFM it is.