Contribution of Vicarious Pleasure in Overall Swinging Experience and Pleasure

[sahajacpl]

To what extent does vicarious pleasure contribute to the overall pleasurable experience of swinging/swapping mates with another couple or couples for social intercourse, and, more importantly, for sexual (vaginal) intercourse with someone other than your own mate/wife/husband/bf/gf?

Since most or many couples seem to prefer same room full-swap of mates, and, men seem to prefer m/f/m in a threesome, where the man can watch another guy play with and then fuck his wife or gf, it appears that vicarious pleasure must play a significant role in its contribution to the overall pleasurable swinging experience. By the same token, separate room swap where one cannot watch the other male/female interact, and, watch as she sucks his cock for a blow job or the guy eats your wife's pussy and then sinks his dick in her pussy and the two fuck to orgasm may inhibit the sexaul pleasure as each fucks their own swap partner. This preference seems to say a lot for same room swap for intercourse with another couple's husband, wife, mate or S.O.

We thought we should like to get some opinions on the issue and role of vicarious pleasure in a swinging situation where play followed by sexual vaginal intercourse takes place. Even in a purely social situation, another person's or peoples' pleasure seems to enhance our own pleasure, whether it be a birthday or anniversary party. Is there any reason to believe that swinging experience is different and one's sexual satisfaction is not enhanced by watching your mate or life partner getting pleasured by another female or male as the two play and then fuck to orgasm?

Your choice of opinions:

1. Vicarious pleasure greatly enhances my own sexual pleasure during swinging and contributes 75% or more to the overall swinging pleasure.

2. Vicarious pleasure contributes in equal measure to the sexual pleasure or counts for 50:50.

3. Vicarious pleasure is a minor element in the total sexual pleasure, contributes to less than or upto 25% of the overall pleasure.

[TwoAreLooking]

See, for ME it's only 25% or so.

If D had answered, it would've been 50% or higher. Any way to account for the disparity in the poll?

M.

[divenaked]

Watching her get pleasured is a big part of the thrill for me. We usually are in the same bed.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by sahajacpl

. . . situation where play followed by sexual vaginal intercourse . . .

Hey, you've got me stumped. I have always perceived vaginal intercourse, as you call it, to be play.

[BiloxiCouple]

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

Hey, you've got me stumped. I have always perceived vaginal intercourse, as you call it, to be play.

I wonder if English isn't their primary. Hence, the perceived need for excessive clarification. I makes for a different read once in a while.

I wonder how an explanation of vaginal to mouth would come out? Or self-fellatio?

p.s.

I am currently feeling no pain. So I can't take this personally and neither should anyone else.

[Trace Ekies]

Mrs. Ekies and I are exhibitionists in equal measure but I am the voyeur...so watching her is alot of fun...

Watching the act itself is like porn and I love porn and watching her enjoy herself so much is a true pleasure for me...I enjoy seeing her let go and be the slut she is.

Trace

[Brian and Jo]

We voted 50-50. But for both of us watching each other play especially when we are engaged in vaginal intercourse with another partner is a huge turn-on. Vicarious pleasure is definitely a big part of the swinging experience for us.