a little pet peeve

[Miss Sunshine]

I have noticed lately a lot of persons asking or posting about male bisexuality and putting much emphasis on female bisexuality, I view the lifestyle as a way to enhance your sex period. Whatever happens happens. Our best get togethers have been the times that we just hooked up with a couple or group , no plan of action or big discussion, we just jumped right in , naked bodies everywhere, know one knows who is touching who or what, sweaty happy people having sex. I love being in a big pile of naked people. No rules, anything goes, with everyone wanting the same goal, cum and cum and cum and cum. When we get together with others it is just hours upon hours of all kinds of sex fun, we leave at the end of the night with big smiles and anticipation of the next time. If women lick each other great, if men play with each other great, sex happens, it is a blast. Just enjoy, throw away the rule book, jump in the pile, fulfill your goal, go home and be yourselves until the next time!

[ncmd_couple]

Miss Sunshine,

It is just something that happens here periodically. Something that I have seen over and over again. Sometimes it is someone trying to get a rise out of the users here, sometimes a distraction, and sometimes people who are genuinely curious.

Just do like I do, skim past topics that don't interest me and read something that does.

Have a great weekend!

S

[lustylearning]

Exactly! Well put NCMD! You can usually tell by the title of the post what will hold no interest for you. Just skip it.

[Miss Sunshine]

I guess I wasn't too clear in my post, what I meant was instead of worrying about if he is Bi or she is bi etc etc, just jump in the pile and see what happens, just let things happen

[sexycouple1]

Originally Posted by Miss Sunshine

I guess I wasn't too clear in my post, what I meant was instead of worrying about if he is Bi or she is bi etc etc, just jump in the pile and see what happens, just let things happen

I agree to the point you shouldn't get hung up on labels. Regarding Bi, straight, etc, and just go with the moment.

But to some your advice might cause trouble down the road. I am personally by no means a "homophobe" but I would feel very uncomfortable being intentionally grabbed by guy in a "pile" of people. That would probably lead me to leave said pile and put my clothes on. All I'm saying is everyone is built differently and I think its fine for you to do what your comfortable doing with who you wanna do it with and not feel bad about it. But please DONT jump into a pile if your not ready for the consequences. I know I'm not that's why I'm not a pile jumper.

[JustAskJulie]

I think I missed something... what was your pet peeve? That people worry about it and try to label bisexuality too much?

[xxxboxy]

My pet peeve is that some bi-sexual people seem to believe that everyone is bi-sexual but some just haven't been shown the way yet.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by Miss Sunshine

I guess I wasn't too clear in my post, what I meant was instead of worrying about if he is Bi or she is bi etc etc, just jump in the pile and see what happens, just let things happen

I do agree. I really hate labels. I think people are trying to get a feeling for what would happen (maybe) if they were to touch someone of the same sex who wasn't bi? To us, we could care less.... We love sex. One big dog pile of naked people who also love sex.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by Miss Sunshine

I guess I wasn't too clear in my post, what I meant was instead of worrying about if he is Bi or she is bi etc etc, just jump in the pile and see what happens, just let things happen

That is how you like sex.

That is not how I like sex.

I won't tell you how to fuck, you don't need to tell me how to fuck

I think people maybe, subconsciously, linking desire with judgement. Just because I don't want to take part in any male bisexual activity, its not a judgment of that activity on a moral level.

[AskMeOk]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

I think I missed something... what was your pet peeve? That people worry about it and try to label bisexuality too much?

The pet peeve is that everybody is not bi.... as in, just jump in a sweaty pile and happily take what comes your way....

[Miss Sunshine]

as usual everyone misses the point. I guess I am just tired of all the who is BI posts

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by Miss Sunshine

as usual everyone misses the point. I guess I am just tired of all the who is BI posts

Ok I think I get what you were trying to say now.

The problem is you often NEED to know. Its not normally a puppy pile. I think if a guy is bi he should know ahead of time his the other guy is, otherwise 'letting things happen' can lead to an uncomfortable moment. The same applies to bi females. If the woman isn't into women, and the other wife starts to go down on her, she might become very uncomfortable ending play. Had they known ahead of time and stuck to what everyone wanted all would have been fine.

[xxxboxy]

Yup, communication...and all of the labels used to establish a common baseline understanding...is key.

[wild stud]

I do have to agree.Not sure why people make such a big deal out of a couple of men enjoying each other or women it just good old fun sex.You know if you thing about it we or all raised to be bi.It fine for two or three males to pee infront of each other or females but wrong to do it in mixed company.Same way naked ok as long as again not in mixed company.When your young you can sleep with your brother if male but not your sister.you can see your dad naked but not your mother.So just think about it are you raised to be bi? I think so.

Originally Posted by Miss Sunshine

I have noticed lately a lot of persons asking or posting about male bisexuality and putting much emphasis on female bisexuality, I view the lifestyle as a way to enhance your sex period. Whatever happens happens. Our best get togethers have been the times that we just hooked up with a couple or group , no plan of action or big discussion, we just jumped right in , naked bodies everywhere, know one knows who is touching who or what, sweaty happy people having sex. I love being in a big pile of naked people. No rules, anything goes, with everyone wanting the same goal, cum and cum and cum and cum. When we get together with others it is just hours upon hours of all kinds of sex fun, we leave at the end of the night with big smiles and anticipation of the next time. If women lick each other great, if men play with each other great, sex happens, it is a blast. Just enjoy, throw away the rule book, jump in the pile, fulfill your goal, go home and be yourselves until the next time!

[DigginIt]

Originally Posted by xxxboxy

My pet peeve is that some bi-sexual people seem to believe that everyone is bi-sexual but some just haven't been shown the way yet.

I also think Chicup nailed a good point:

Originally Posted by chicup

I think people maybe, subconsciously, linking desire with judgement. Just because I don't want to take part in any male bisexual activity, its not a judgment of that activity on a moral level.

While I'm certainly not homophobic, I'm certainly situationally aware and it would be a huge mood killer.

I'm sure (not to be insulting to anyone one) if a Sasquatch looking guy jumped in the pile and put a majority of his concentration on you, no matter how much fun you were having, you WOULD notice and you would most likely be turned off. It's kind of like that. I'm sure he could make you feel just as good and sexy as any other guy there but you would most likely STILL be turned off. Same principal.

But I do respect your opinion.