Our Club Full Of Towel Sharkys ( Jerking Off)

[carrysmith]

At the club we attend, just about every friday nite is the so called ( LADIES NITE).. that basically means very little couples & single women and lots & lots of very {strange/creppy/bizzar/disgusting single men} with a towel aruond there waist, strokeing there cocks & cuming all over the place, a few fridays ago we counted 4 couples & 25 towel jerkoffs, the bar was full of them ( YUCK )...They fallow any couple that goes to the back to have sex to see if the couple will let them in on it..its gotten really out of hand at our club,,,how do u guys feel about a club full of towel sharkys jerking off anywere & aggressively approaching everybody??

[lardub]

This is apart of the reason we are begining to shy away from clubs, its starting to be all about the money and it seems letting in single and married men who pretend to be single, is filling the registar rather well.
Last saturday we attended a club that states only select singles who are screened are permitted in, well it must be an awful large screen as they seemed to be running around in herds. If this continues we will just say screw the clubs and let them turn into a gay bath house.
We are finding that even so called house parties are getting to be that way, seeing as they charge for expences. Most clubs state that certain nights they allow singles which is nice cause it gives the couples who would rather have dicks hanging over them the whole time a venue for their fetishe but the couple nights are also getting to be the same, and the passive so called accidental groping that goes on is a real turn off for us. the Mrs has actually been stalked while in the club, and the constant staring at her while pulling on themsekves is getting old real fast..

[VegasLee]

Another negative experience thread by the same OP. Every thread you post is that way.

Simple question. If you counted 25 single guys and only four couples why did you bother to stay?

Every encounter you have posted at a club is negative so why go there?

I have NEVER understood why people that don't want to party with single guys go to a club full of single guys then complain about them. Makes no sense at all.

[padoc]

The Miami Club is our favorite place in the swinger world. Friday nights are what they are, single guys are welcome and you can't deny that they produce a solid revenue stream. Guys will pay a LOT of money for the opportunity to get laid without much effort or any commitment. We have been at the club on several Fridays, its no secret that single males are allowed in. We were neither surprised nor were we impressed by their behavior so we made the adult decision not to return on Friday nights. Instead, we go on either Saturday or Sunday evenings when couples only are permitted in the door. How hard is this? You have options beyond complaining. While we have no use for single males in our play time, we recognize that some couples do. In that regard, the club caters to those couples and single males on one of three weekend nights leaving the other two nights for people who chose to play in a couples only atmosphere. Meatloaf said it best when he sang, "two out of three ain't bad". Get over yourself

[exploringRM]

Being interested only in couples (well mostly) we would not go to an event that has a large amount of single guys..no point in it for us. I recall a recent advert from a local club that they are allowing in a larger number of select single males. Enough for me to say..not going there!

I guess I can't related to your experience. While the single guys are the clubs tend to troll the halls hoping that a couple will invite them along, I've never seen them naked/towel sharkys. Perhaps just a differernt club atmosphere/set of rules.

[YZF]

Originally Posted by exploringRM

Being interested only in couples (well mostly) we would not go to an event that has a large amount of single guys..no point in it for us. I recall a recent advert from a local club that they are allowing in a larger number of select single males. Enough for me to say..not going there!

I guess I can't related to your experience. While the single guys are the clubs tend to troll the halls hoping that a couple will invite them along, I've never seen them naked/towel sharkys. Perhaps just a differernt club atmosphere/set of rules.

As a former business owner, I wonder how clubs can do this and not lose money. I had a gas station and I also did oil changes. There was a quick lube up the street from me that charged about $5 less than I did for an oil change. I had quite a few customers that I could count on to come in every month for an oil change and the rest were people who came in when it was convenient, passing through or what not.

My dad kept insisting that I cut my prices to match the quick lube's rate. I would tell him that I woud lose money even if I picked up new customers. He did not understand that I would lose $5 on every oil I did for my regular customers. The ones that would have me service their vehicles no matter what. Let's say that my margin for lowering the price was going to be $5 instead of $10 and I had 100 regular customers, I would have to bring in 100 more customers just to make what I was making before. Chances are, I would not bring that many new customers even with the lower price. I would wind up with more customers but less money in my bank account.

[lardub]

An oil change costing five bucks more and a single guy paying double and at times triple to get in for the cost of a couple, is hardly comparable. For one the revenue stream is much higher. They also drink more than the standard couple, and the cost for access to the rear play areas is also higher for single men..
Secondly many of the clubs are allowing single men in everynite of the weekend, not just fridays anymore. Hence the term select single males, loosly translated it means those willing to fork out the money and roll the dice and see if they get laid. Most of these guys may have money and it rather clear that is the only reason they get through the door.
Personally for us we are starting to just say screw the clubs that are going in this direction, but as thier are limited clubs in the area and everyone of them is doing this to a certain extent, it really narrows down the playing field and if you want to go out and meet other couples have a fun night out dancing and playing where are the options. Without playing internet games and spending hours chatting online the clubs were the best avenue for this lifestyle..
The times they are a changing...

[YZF]

It seems to me to be a risk because sooner or later, you will have a bunch of single men in the club who's only option for action will be gay sex. Not bi because bi (to me anyway) means that there are women around.

I have never really seen what the big deal is for single guys to want to meet up with a swinger couple. I have always found it easier to get laid on my own and even hooked up for occassional MFM without going the swinger route. I like the swinger experience but only with Mrs. YZF when we first started and now we include Quita, our permanent third.

Not that I see anything wrong with a single guy being involved with a swinger couple, but when they cause good couples to go elsewhere through their actions, it is a whole different story.

[JustAskJulie]

So if you know it's like that on Friday Nights, why do you go?

In fact, it seems that you only ever have bad experiences so I wonder why you go to this club (or any club) at all?

[TheMiddleDoor]

Originally Posted by carrysmith

lots & lots of very {strange/creppy/bizzar/disgusting single men}

so....I'm guessing this place has no standards for single guys to attend? perhaps you should speak to the hosts about changing that...unless the standards are set so high no one can reach them, the club won't be out any money, and you'll have a better class of single guys. which will bring in more couples.

running a club is hard work..and anyone that thinks they will get rich at it is delusional. sometimes the only way we break even is the single guys..but it's a delicate balance. too many, and people don't come back..and then it becomes a death spiral. it sounds like this club is going that way. they lose the couples, so they bring in more singles to keep the doors open...

[SecretAsianMan]

I've always had issues with being "stalked" by single-guys when I go to clubs and start getting some play-time in.

I've often gone to clubs as a single-guy and while some couples will only play with other couples - there are usually enough gals there who are playing separately from their mates or a few single gals who'll appreciate the company of a fella like myself. I absolutely refuse to "stalk" ... (although I've wandered around from time to time and politely watched)

It sounds like you're familiar with this club's schedule... and Friday nights are nights when you KNOW there are going to be packs of single-guys stalking the club. I'd just recommend you stick to other nights of the week or find a different club where there will be friendlier "couple-to-couple" ratios for you.

[mikeandjenn2001]

At the clubs we've been to, there's never been a problem with the single males. There have been times where we've seen the male to couple/female ratio is a little skewed, but that's just how things are sometimes.

Hate to say it, but be glad they at least have towels as I'm sure you can imagine the mess

[curiousagain]

I have a question. If a club found they need to increase the revenue, does anyone think they could do that by not letting single men but increasing the prices for the couples?

I am thinking the revenue is down because fewer couples are attending the clubs. Since the unemployment rate nationwide for 24 to 54 year old males is at 20% now I'm thinking maybe that isn't the best revenue stream.

[TheMiddleDoor]

Originally Posted by curiousagain

I have a question. If a club found they need to increase the revenue, does anyone think they could do that by not letting single men but increasing the prices for the couples?

the problem with raising prices for couples is that they will go elsewhere. and you're back to where you started. it's the same with every company out there. the economy is hitting everyone, parties included.

lowering prices works to bring people in....but it will come to a point where you will not be able to cover operating costs. so you'll have to cut back somewhere to continue operating..

where do you cut? most places are already only giving basic services beyond their "embedded costs" of what they already own. it's a tough call.

[BiloxiCouple]

So many clubs/parties aren't operated for generating lots of profit. They are operated for the love of the lifestyle. I wish more people understood this.

I used to volunteer at my local club and learned a little about the inner workings of this club and probably what it is like at other clubs.

It really is a passion for the lifestyle. As soon as you start running a club, the swinging seems to stop for the owners.