Family swinging Thoughts

[Verne]

I guess im looking for some (its ok kind of thing). This summer three of my cousins and thier spouses, went with my wife on vacation, we took off on our harleys and had a blast. now let me tell you that none of us have ever done anything sexually with each other, just some flirting and playing around with comments.

Anyways, one of the Hotels we stopped at was an out of the way place that was very private, well that night we all went skinny dipping, well one thing les to another and there was some touching and feeling with the others while playing around. No actual sex, but that night the wife and i talked about it and she felt weird about my female cousin touching me, but she said she had fun playing other than that..

Well the next day the subject came up at breakfast and apparently all of them talked night about what happened, and we agreed that we were all adults and other than playing touchy feely, nobody did anything, and nobdy got hurt so we left it at that.

Well that night at our next stop, we went to the local bar and had drinks and danced the night away, and finally one of my cousins just came out and said , that him and his wife were talking and they enjoyed what we did the night before and that they wanted to try swinging and they couldnt think of a better group then us to be closer too. since nobody else would think we were doing it. well that conversation went on and finally everyone else opened up that we all had fantanys about wife swapping before.

well to cut this off, later that week after some intense conversations, we all did it one night, we all played together in the same room and we enjoyed it. We taked about it the next few days on the way home and we came to the conclusion that we all had fun, nobody got hurt, and it helped us with our fantasy's. So once every other month we have all been getting together to have our fun. everyone is there and we enjoy our night together.

So what i would like to know is how do you all feel about the cousins getting together for some fun every now and then?

[socolais]

If it's all consentual and everyone enjoys it, who has the right to say it's wrong? I think the thing about cousins having sex is about the hazard of inbreeding - as long as precautions are taken, no harm.

So, how long has this been going on?

[ncmd_couple]

I think that what works for all of you, works for you. There will be some that will not respond positively to this. But, I'm not going to condemn you.

S

[friskyous]

I don't see anything at all wrong with what goes on amongst consenting adults. Sounds like you all have found the ideal situation to me.. lucky you!..er y'all!

[charms123]

Personally I do not like many of my cousins but that is another issue! lol

I would not let that get out tho. Lifestyle is seen as the devils work by most anyway, adding "relatives" in the mix and you are just under child molesters and rapists. Just be careful.

And as socolais said, use precautions if there is penetrating sex to completion (Cumming inside her to those in Rio Linda) LOLOLOLOL

My two cents.

[Edison Carter]

Just an observation: You never describe the sex as 'thrilling', just 'enjoyable'. What did you experience the first time you had sex with your cousin ? How about the third time ? What has been the spectrum of thoughts been from your wife ? Has she 'cum like a freight train' or is it simply an enjoyable indulgence ? Just thinking out loud.

[Elena]

First cousins, third cousins, cousins by marriage? I don't see any real problem with it as long as you are using protection. As mentioned above, the main concern with issues like this is reproductive abnormalities by having sex with a close relative. As long as you are having fun, and not hurting anyone, then go for it. That makes me think of a cousin of mine. He is a hottie and so is his wife. AND, we are only cousins by marriage, not blood. Hmmm...LOL But they aren't in the lifestyle that I know of...... Oh well.....

[ratimadan]

We do not see anything wrong about swinging with cousins and their wives so long as you enjoy swapping partners, playing and having sexual intercourse between the men and women who is not the wife. The one precaution, as has already been pointed out, is to make sure the women are on pills, and men use condoms during intercourse, unless they (men) are safe (vascetomized) to prevent pregenancy. But, this is the general rule when you swap mates with any couple (cousins or not) and intend to fuck each other's mate.

[Alura]

I think we all feel a need to keep swinging and pregnancy separate. Few folks would want to have a child with someone to whom they were not married, related or not.

The idea that interbreeding causes problems in the offspring originated in Europe when royalty often married cousins in order to consolidate power within the family. In my opinion, if you take a bunch of sick and insane people and breed them with sick and insane people, you're quite likely to get sick and insane people as a result.

I know horses aren't people, but there was a fabulous Thoroughbred stallion named Three Bars who sired fabulous quarterhorses. They bred him back to his own daughters and got, not surprisingly to me, fabulous horses.

Anyway, it'd be a real drag to have kids with each other for reasons other than inbreeding, so y'all have fun but be sensible.

Mr. Alura

[Powerglide]

I think you have something very beautiful. Don't worry about being cousins. It sounds like there's a lot of closeness and trust in the relationship. Sounds all good to me.

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by Verne

So what i would like to know is how do you all feel about the cousins getting together for some fun every now and then?

I'm curious, why do you care how any of us feel?

LM

[xxxboxy]

My 5 second amateur psycho analysis says that he wants to know because deep down he still feels unease at the social stigma and taboo of having sex with blood relatives and is seeking validation from a group of people that will understand the swinging aspects if not the incest. The opinions offered in this thread are highly unlikely to change anything in his activities...but they may make him feel better about them.

[BiloxiCouple]

It's only a problem when cousin Betsy starts looking good.

[fun4Ds]

I know one thing......

If I would of thought about kissing my cousins , there would a been an ass whooping from my aunts and uncles

We just didn't go there !

With 5 sisters and several female cousins, do the math at how many non related friends of theirs I had exposer to.

OK, get your mind outa the gutter. I'm talking about the odds of being told on......Aunts and uncles are still alive

Freaking tattle tales

[BiloxiCouple]

It's even funnier when you find out a girl that you had something for is actually a cousin. I did that once and she was a county over. Not a first cousin. An uncle did that once and brought the girl home, another cousin. That's what happens when your family doesn't move much.