Family swinging Thoughts

[Miss Sunshine]

sounded like a great time! I know people that have married their first cousins, and have beautiful children. But it is something you should explore more!

[DigginIt]

Okay, is it strange that I could see having sex with a few of my cousins and not get grossed out but the thought of my wife having sex with one of her cousins freaks me out?

How weird is that?

[Mr.Essex]

I couldn't do it, and (given that I'm pretty good looking) you can assume that my family is filled with gorgeous people.

[goodlil666]

playin with your cousins is like drinkin near beer, tastes the same but it just aint right. LOL just kiddin, have fun and enjoy.

[bendmeovernow]

well.. i think as long as you are safe about it... all will be well. i've been asked before how close a relative i'd sleep with... the guy was sleeping with his mom.. YES.. HIS MOM WAS DOING THIS..... i was like ahhhh no... not for me... and haven't talk to him in a long time. but that's his mom... i guess it's what ever your comfortable with though. i have found a few that would go for like inlaws.... or step sisters or step brothers... but personally i don't think i'd go for under like REALLY distant cousins.. heheheh that would be hard to handle for me. hehehe

[maggoo]

Well it depends on whether you believe in Darwin's theory of evolution or creation theory as decreed by some religions
But until the last century when travel gave choice it was common for close marriages
Line breeding when it works
Inbreeding when it doesn't
If you weren't told you were related how would you know?
In modern times with the ability to amass so much information and potential risks as described by Darwin due to his own position and beliefs and religious beliefs it is frowned up on to the point of criminality in some locations.
If you are prepared to accept the risks and it is consensual enjoy it. But probably not something to broadcast.

[SecretAsianMan]

Originally Posted by bendmeovernow

well.. i think as long as you are safe about it... all will be well. i've been asked before how close a relative i'd sleep with... the guy was sleeping with his mom.. YES.. HIS MOM WAS DOING THIS..... i was like ahhhh no... not for me... and haven't talk to him in a long time. but that's his mom... i guess it's what ever your comfortable with though. i have found a few that would go for like inlaws.... or step sisters or step brothers... but personally i don't think i'd go for under like REALLY distant cousins.. heheheh that would be hard to handle for me. hehehe

Wow... seriously? He was doing his mom? While that whole incest thing is *interesting* as a fantasy ... I think it might be best to stay as a fantasy

[magnum]

Originally Posted by Verne

I guess im looking for some (its ok kind of thing). This summer three of my cousins and thier spouses, went with my wife on vacation, we took off on our harleys and had a blast. now let me tell you that none of us have ever done anything sexually with each other, just some flirting and playing around with comments.

Anyways, one of the Hotels we stopped at was an out of the way place that was very private, well that night we all went skinny dipping, well one thing les to another and there was some touching and feeling with the others while playing around. No actual sex, but that night the wife and i talked about it and she felt weird about my female cousin touching me, but she said she had fun playing other than that..

Well the next day the subject came up at breakfast and apparently all of them talked night about what happened, and we agreed that we were all adults and other than playing touchy feely, nobody did anything, and nobdy got hurt so we left it at that.

Well that night at our next stop, we went to the local bar and had drinks and danced the night away, and finally one of my cousins just came out and said , that him and his wife were talking and they enjoyed what we did the night before and that they wanted to try swinging and they couldnt think of a better group then us to be closer too. since nobody else would think we were doing it. well that conversation went on and finally everyone else opened up that we all had fantanys about wife swapping before.

well to cut this off, later that week after some intense conversations, we all did it one night, we all played together in the same room and we enjoyed it. We taked about it the next few days on the way home and we came to the conclusion that we all had fun, nobody got hurt, and it helped us with our fantasy's. So once every other month we have all been getting together to have our fun. everyone is there and we enjoy our night together.

So what i would like to know is how do you all feel about the cousins getting together for some fun every now and then?

Wow!!! I don't know if I could do my cousin and I think she is very attractive. She is my favorite cousin too. I can't get the image out of my head of my aunt and uncle brow beating me...

Lucky you...

[bendmeovernow]

Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

Wow... seriously? He was doing his mom? While that whole incest thing is *interesting* as a fantasy ... I think it might be best to stay as a fantasy

yeah... the mom got online too and was saying how he was doing this and that to her as she was typeing... i was rather disturbed with it. heheh i'm glad they haven't tried to message me again after that.. the mom acually wanted to have me join the both of them.. ahhhh no.. heheh

[CXXC]

Originally Posted by bendmeovernow

yeah... the mom got online too and was saying how he was doing this and that to her as she was typeing... i was rather disturbed with it. heheh i'm glad they haven't tried to message me again after that.. the mom acually wanted to have me join the both of them.. ahhhh no.. heheh

I just threw up in my mouth a little. :x

[sweet_tna]

Originally Posted by Verne

I guess im looking for some (its ok kind of thing). . .

So what i would like to know is how do you all feel about the cousins getting together for some fun every now and then?

I have such a screwed up family life that I couldn't imagine finding anyone I'm remotely related to attractive, much less having sex with them. That said, my first concern would be the fact that unlike friends, fuck buddies, or one night stands, you can't just walk away from a family member if any problems arise. You're pretty well stuck with them in your life, and that can make for more drama than a soap opera. But if it works for you, then who am I to say anything?

So here's the thing. If you were totally cool with it, you'd be writing to tell us what an amazing experience it was and how happy you are with the arrangement. You wouldn't be seeking our opinions. If you're the least bit uncomfortable with this, for ANY reason, then it's not the right thing to do. Period. Follow your gut, and best of luck to y'all.

=)

[SecretAsianMan]

Originally Posted by bendmeovernow

yeah... the mom got online too and was saying how he was doing this and that to her as she was typeing... i was rather disturbed with it. heheh i'm glad they haven't tried to message me again after that.. the mom acually wanted to have me join the both of them.. ahhhh no.. heheh

Ummm... well, okay! (Different strokes for different folk, I say ... but still - that's a bit past my comfort zone)

[DigginIt]

That conversation when on MUCH longer than I would have been able to tolerate, because after the sentence "I'm sleeping with my mom" the next thing heard would have been the IM ban button being clicked.

[DigginIt]

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

So here's the thing. If you were totally cool with it, you'd be writing to tell us what an amazing experience it was and how happy you are with the arrangement. You wouldn't be seeking our opinions. If you're the least bit uncomfortable with this, for ANY reason, then it's not the right thing to do. Period. Follow your gut, and best of luck to y'all.

=)

Very good point. This was a definitely "I'm seeking validation" post but it was fun to read...mostly.

[billanderin]

Originally Posted by Verne

I guess im looking for some (its ok kind of thing). This summer three of my cousins and thier spouses, went with my wife on vacation, we took off on our harleys and had a blast. now let me tell you that none of us have ever done anything sexually with each other, just some flirting and playing around with comments.

Anyways, one of the Hotels we stopped at was an out of the way place that was very private, well that night we all went skinny dipping, well one thing les to another and there was some touching and feeling with the others while playing around. No actual sex, but that night the wife and i talked about it and she felt weird about my female cousin touching me, but she said she had fun playing other than that..

Well the next day the subject came up at breakfast and apparently all of them talked night about what happened, and we agreed that we were all adults and other than playing touchy feely, nobody did anything, and nobdy got hurt so we left it at that.

Well that night at our next stop, we went to the local bar and had drinks and danced the night away, and finally one of my cousins just came out and said , that him and his wife were talking and they enjoyed what we did the night before and that they wanted to try swinging and they couldnt think of a better group then us to be closer too. since nobody else would think we were doing it. well that conversation went on and finally everyone else opened up that we all had fantanys about wife swapping before.

well to cut this off, later that week after some intense conversations, we all did it one night, we all played together in the same room and we enjoyed it. We taked about it the next few days on the way home and we came to the conclusion that we all had fun, nobody got hurt, and it helped us with our fantasy's. So once every other month we have all been getting together to have our fun. everyone is there and we enjoy our night together.

So what i would like to know is how do you all feel about the cousins getting together for some fun every now and then?

Erin and I have played with varioous relatives on occasion (both mine and hers) and we get off on it. Just talking about it with her gets us pretty warm and leads to great sex. If everyone is willing - definitely go fot it!
Bill