Family swinging Thoughts

[The Fuse]

I'm playing devils' advocate here.

When thought about logically, the OP's situation seems harmless.

But...then there's the real world, where the incest taboo is very much a factor. This kind of thing, if anyone finds out, is a brush that will paint all swingers. It would be like if one swinger were caught abusing a child. Then all swingers would be cast as child abusers (as if we weren't already!).

I admit, it makes me squeamish. Okay, you're not going to have babies. But let's say you wanted to fuck your sister -- would that be okay too? Logically, it would be just as okay as being with your cousins.

I wish you the best of luck. When looked at unemotionally, you're not doing anything wrong. But c'mon, we all know that's not what matters in many cases. I just hope no one finds out because it would be bad in so many more ways than just being outed as a swinger. And the "ick" would get all over those of us who keep it out of the family, out of the workplace, away from vanilla friends, etc.

[realcplub2]

Y'see what the Fuse did there...

She said what we all thought originally too..

Ok, the original poster listed what three other couples.. that he was related to

its possible to PLAY in a group of 8, without screwing someone with the same DNA..

In any case.. Different strokes and all that, so long as you play SAFE, and no one gets hurt..

Wonder what the converation around thier holiday table will be about

[slevin]

Originally Posted by realcplub2

Ok, the original poster listed what three other couples.. that he was related to

its possible to PLAY in a group of 8, without screwing someone with the same DNA..

I wouldn't be comfortable even playing in the same room as one of my relatives. I agree completely with TheFuse and couldn't have said it better myself

[ClosetSwinger]

Originally Posted by slevin

I wouldn't be comfortable even playing in the same room as one of my relatives. I agree completely with TheFuse and couldn't have said it better myself

ME TOO! I AGREE.

This post reminds me of a quote my cousin used to JOKINGLY say to me.

"incest is the best put your sister to the test".



Anyway for me it's a bit too weird. That being said swinging is REALLY weird for the majority of the population so who am I to judge?

My fear is that someone may develop feelings for someone else in this group and well it's hard to cut off someone when YOUR RELATED to them. EAsier when it's just Joe Blow (hehehe no pun intended ).

[LikeMinds321]

University researchers claim first cousins are at no more risk of creating a child with birth defects than is a woman over the age of 40.

Some years ago I read about the myth of cousin sex being a sure way to produce offspring with defects and deformities. I Googled to see if there is still information out there regarding the myth and found this article.

"...My cousins are having sex!"

LM

[Powerglide]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

It's even funnier when you find out a girl that you had something for is actually a cousin. I did that once and she was a county over. Not a first cousin. An uncle did that once and brought the girl home, another cousin. That's what happens when your family doesn't move much.

Here's a worse one. Some years ago I hadn't seen my family in a year or so, they were visiting my city, and we arranged to meet in a very nice restaurant. I got there early, and was checking out the talent and didn't see much of interest. Then I spotted one elegant young lady. I could only see her back, but she definitely turned me on. Then she turned, and I saw it was my sister. Ooops.

[SecretAsianMan]

Yeah - in my book, as long as everyone is a consenting adult... it's your business and nobody else's.

Enjoy and be safe

[realcplub2]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

University researchers claim first cousins are at no more risk of creating a child with birth defects than is a woman over the age of 40.

Some years ago I read about the myth of cousin sex being a sure way to produce offspring with defects and deformities. I Googled to see if there is still information out there regarding the myth and found this article.

"...My cousins are having sex!"

LM

Look, what we are dealin with here is a different situation

Or as Dr Malcom stated plainly in Jurrasic Park..

" you were so worried about if you could, you forgot to ask if you should"

We all know swinging ISNT about procreation, rather recreation.. Unless you are within a completely closed community or on a desert island with no one else to join in , Yes the options are limited..

But that inst the case here.. When I stated that if there were 8 people together DOING this, there isnt a requirement to play with people you share DNA with...

Choosing to do so, as Secret Asian man so skill fully said, is no one elses business, so long as all are adults..

But lets be clear, that wasnt the purpose of the OP.. He was seeking input and a little vaildation..

If you are gonna air your dirty laundry in public, everyone sees the skid marks

[Verne]

Originally Posted by xxxboxy

My 5 second amateur psycho analysis says that he wants to know because deep down he still feels unease at the social stigma and taboo of having sex with blood relatives and is seeking validation from a group of people that will understand the swinging aspects if not the incest. The opinions offered in this thread are highly unlikely to change anything in his activities...but they may make him feel better about them.

You hit it on the head, I'm still having the ,, its not right thing going on becuase are all related. Thank you

[ViSexual]

Verne,
I remember making out with a first cousin when we were teens. It was no different, or worse, than making out with other girls I knew.

And, I have two cousins now that if I met at a lifestyle event I'd certainly prefer them over any other lady there!

I like them both. I've always found them attractive. And, we've always got along so well and enjoy each other's company. Why not!

[fun4Ds]

How I so wish this thread wasn't going on through the holidays

I have to see my cousins today


;

[spvcouple]

I would not have a problem with this happening in my life, though it would freak Mrs spvcouple out. She would staed-fastly refuse to even consider anything of the sort.

Odd how she will do so much but there are certain places she refuses to go. I suppose we all have our own individual limits. Knowing those and respecting them is what makes for sucessful swinging in a marriage.

[ViSexual]

Hey fun4D's,

It's interesting how you look at people differently once you've thought of them sexually, isn't it?

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by ViSexual

Hey fun4D's,

It's interesting how you look at people differently once you've thought of them sexually, isn't it?

Well I can say the "projections" from this thread were certainly there yesterday morning .

However, after visiting with family and spending the entire day, eating, playing Canasta and Shanghai. I can say it's just not in me, to look at them in a sexual way. FWIW, two of them became fashion models and one of those married a man who works for perhaps one of the biggest rock stars known. I was more interested in their lives, travels and carriers than their bodies.

Family friends, if not "best friends" was the outcome for me.

Mrsfun will admit, I have a male first cousin who is half American Indian (he looks completely Indian) she has thought about, sexually. He is the same age as me and never married. But she thinks this statement comes to mind

"you were so worried about if you could, you forgot to ask if you should"

Does this mean we hold anything against the OP or those who agree ? NO, not at all....

We can agree to disagree, right ?

There are lots of swingers whom we don't play "their way." But, who's to say now, we haven't met a playmate or two who might have kissing cousins ?

[SW_PA_Couple]

OK, so all of the cousins and their spouses are nodding their heads up and down in agreement, "we are enjoying this." But what patch are you going to take after the first blow-up? If your sexually-intimate group were composed of people whom you had encountered casually and in whom you had made no big emotional investment, you could simply walk away. Walking away from cousins would be much more difficult.