Do you have a body part that is a deal breaker

[Ed & Bunny]

Is there a certain body part of potential partners that can be a the make or break on whether you are attracted or not? I ask this because the wife Bunny has a big one. Smiles and teeth. If you dont have good teeth and a smile she just cant find attraction. It is one of the first things she looks for when we look at profiles. We pass so many by if she cant see a good smile. It is so important to her that once we had a couple that things went great online and we set up a meet. Once she saw his teeth in person all sexual intrest left her. So we are curious if there are others who have similar quirks, as Bunny calls it.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Good question and you just happened to hit upon a sensitive subject with us. Absence of teeth is a tripping point for us too. We have decided, however, that it is unproductive to make a list of "game-killers" or "we wont's" at our on-line profile. Negativity, even if it does not apply to a particular couple we are trying to attract, generally puts people off. So as you observed, seeing a picture that conveys sufficient information makes a decision much easier.

I think that I, myself, could get past almost any body-part issue. But I don't like unpleasant surprises. Sometimes even a full-frontal, full-smile picture can deceive. We sat in a restaurant waiting for a couple to arrive. Had seen their pictures on-line and they looked good. In comes this man and woman, the woman's hair is sopping wet as if she had just stepped out of the shower (it was sunny outside). The first thought that came into my mind was, "How can a person have so little regard for her appearance?" It would have been OK if she has started with a hair-salon perm and I was the guy who had messed it up. But, really? What do you think? Does this count as a body-part thing?

~Michael

[exploringRM]

For both of us HWP is important, though that's really a wide range. So not a specific body part, just the whole thing!

And for both of us bad teeth would be a turn off.


For Mrs. Exploring its the eyes, and the smile, especially in profile pictures. So if there's no smile that's typically a deal breaker. She also does not like very hairy men. Height is important to her as well. Probably < 5' 8" would be a deal breaker.

[livinitup77]

I'm big on teeth as well. they have to be clean and yellow/ fuzzy teeth totally turn me off!!! as for the mr. He wants them to take care of themselves and be confident.

[sexylady1970]

Teeth for sure for both of us. Shaved and or closely trimmed for both as well. Mrs will only play with men who are cut.

[The Fuse]

I'm piling on re: teeth. Although I don't insist on seeing a good smile in profile pictures. I would prefer to see one, but it's not a good enough reason to pass someone by if they look good otherwise and seem to have a good attitude.

Once this spring we met a couple whose guy had a couple of profile pictures that were kind of hip-hop: he looked a bit grim in them. I was a little concerned. In person, he was just all smiles and as cute as can be.

[Ed & Bunny]

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

Good question and you just happened to hit upon a sensitive subject with us. Absence of teeth is a tripping point for us too. We have decided, however, that it is unproductive to make a list of "game-killers" or "we wont's" at our on-line profile. Negativity, even if it does not apply to a particular couple we are trying to attract, generally puts people off. So as you observed, seeing a picture that conveys sufficient information makes a decision much easier.

~Michael

We try to avoid being too negative (in fact we probobly need to cut back on our profile) also. We just ask for people to try to send us a pic with a smile.

Originally Posted by The Fuse

I'm piling on re: teeth. Although I don't insist on seeing a good smile in profile pictures. I would prefer to see one, but it's not a good enough reason to pass someone by if they look good otherwise and seem to have a good attitude.

Once this spring we met a couple whose guy had a couple of profile pictures that were kind of hip-hop: he looked a bit grim in them. I was a little concerned. In person, he was just all smiles and as cute as can be.

True, its not good enough to pass someone by, but it does raise concerns for us. I am not sure what it is about the area we are in, but bad teeth seem to be very common. Along with the meet mentioned above, our last couple we met, the guy had no top teeth. The worst thing about this guy is he is in the reserves. We dont understand why he hasnt had the military do something when he is on active status.

[JoeCentralNY]

I just LOVE women with long nails. Natural long nails.

[JandCMI]

Bad teeth are a total deal breaker for both of us, too, though she's a little more forgiving than I am about it. And by "bad" I mean brown, broken, massively crooked, or missing.

[sweet_tna]

I like a nice smile, too. It doesn't have to be toothpaste-commercial perfect or anything (Lord knows mine isn't), but obviously rotten/missing teeth tend to creep me out.

=)

[xxoticangel]

Shaved heads and facial hair are total turn off for me. I just don't understand the current trend. Not always a deal breaker but a male with a shaven head and/or facial hair has to bring a lot more to the table than someone that isn't.
MrXxotic can always find something attractive about a woman. Someone otherwise unattractive will have nice hair or cute toes or something that he will be aroused by.

[NCfuncouple98]

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

I like a nice smile, too. It doesn't have to be toothpaste-commercial perfect or anything (Lord knows mine isn't), but obviously rotten/missing teeth tend to creep me out.

=)

Thank you for stating that! I was starting to get a complex, I certainly don't have perfect pearly whites!

But I agree on the rotten/missing. We were talking to a cute young couple at the club the other night, when he did finally start talking and smiling he was missing 3 or 4 front teeth. That's just not a turn-on!

Mrs NC

[junkyard38]

This is not necessarily a body part. A woman who uses excessive perfume to try and hide the presence of body orders. The other one is a woman whom does not know about a douche, for total cleanliness. Sorry a bar of soap and water is the biggest turn on for me, the fragrance of being clean the biggest turn on

[wild stud]

Again Looks should not have a thing to do with swinging.If they or honest D/D free,and enjoy life then give them a try.Age is another thing that should never be looked at .Just because a person has some age on him or her don't mean they can't have a little adult fun.In fact they may fuck your eyes out., just like a heavy set person.I have learned never through a rock at a glass window.More people should try this.

[truckerbuddy]

Originally Posted by wild stud

Again Looks should not have a thing to do with swinging..

So a 3'6" tall troll with 1 eye is ok?? hmmm ..I'm 6'3" and that would just look bad. I need a lady that's around 5' or taller and as long as I find a her to be sexy with a good attitude, I'm good