Would You Share Your Condoms?

[good times]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

What would you have done?

Depends on the situation I guess, sometimes if someone didn't adequately plan ahead we would give them a condom, but recently we have been less inclined to do so than in the past.

We have a couple of guys at the club that somehow found out that I often have a condom with me suitable for their size equipment. Once in a while they would get something going with someone (with someone else, both are single guys, and we don't play with singles) and they would come and ask me for a condom. Now I know that the condoms the club keeps in their bucket won't even fit my pinky finger, so because I could relate, I would give them one. Then Mrs. GT brought it to my attention that I was giving out more condoms than I was using myself (depending on how you look at it, that could be kind of depressing). About the same time I noticed that these two guys didn't even bother bringing their own as they expected they could get one from me for free. So, now days I am pretty tight when it comes to giving out condoms as I have taken the view that we all know what we are coming to the club for. So it is our responsibility to come prepared.....or make a quick trip to Wallmart.

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

And do you know what condom size works for you? How long did it take you to figure that out?

Yep, finally found one that works better than most. It took one Viagra, and the better part of one Sunday trying a bunch of different condoms with Mrs. GT to figure out which one would work best.

I wonder what the checkout clerk at the store thought when Mrs. GT came up to the counter and purchased one box of every brand and style condom they had.

[knb2004]

Reminds me of a house party we went to a few months back. Both myself and Mrs knb routinely carry far more condoms than we could possibly use, but the problem was I found myself in the basement play room, while my pants (with the condoms in the pocket) were out by the pool.

Having a fairly timely need, I simply hollered to the gathered denziens "Condom, condom, I need a condom here!"

I got belted by about 8 of them lol.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by good times

I wonder what the checkout clerk at the store thought when Mrs. GT came up to the counter and purchased one box of every brand and style condom they had.

Shame they didn't have a better return policy...



Spoomonkey

[sweet_tna]

Originally Posted by knb2004

Reminds me of a house party we went to a few months back. Both myself and Mrs knb routinely carry far more condoms than we could possibly use, but the problem was I found myself in the basement play room, while my pants (with the condoms in the pocket) were out by the pool.

Having a fairly timely need, I simply hollered to the gathered denziens "Condom, condom, I need a condom here!"

I got belted by about 8 of them lol.

Sorry, but the mental image there just makes me giggle.

=)

[knb2004]

Ha, no apology necessary, it makes me giggle too.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Glad this is not the question I thought it was when I read the title.

My evening was saved once but a guy who generously provided me with one from his own private supply. We all sometimes make mistakes and forget things.

Don't know why but any size condom fits on me.

~M

[charms123]

We ALWAYS provide the condoms. They are always name brand and this way we know they have not been tampered with. "Oh my god, how did that thing break?" is unacceptable.

So to answer your question, its really never a factor. you dont wear, you dont fuck me! Sorry, move on. Next, serving number 6, number 6?

N

[Mr. Sweet]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Like a ninja hiding weapons...

I'm the same way. In fact, any time I am going to be in a social situation, I carry some in my pocket. The reason for me is more mental - condoms make me feel like I am getting up to no good. It makes me more social and flirty - even if I have no intention of using them.

Spoomonkey

Really??? Anytime you're in a social situation?????

Sunday at Church....Condoms in my pocket.......dinner with the boss.......Condoms in my pocket.......Trip to the Smithsonian......Condoms in my pocket.........at the library for reading hour.......Condoms in my pocket......at the in-laws for Christmas.....Well yeah know of course I've got Condoms in my pocket!!!!!!

[charms123]

Originally Posted by Mr. Sweet

Really??? Anytime you're in a social situation?????

Sunday at Church....Condoms in my pocket.......dinner with the boss.......Condoms in my pocket.......Trip to the Smithsonian......Condoms in my pocket.........at the library for reading hour.......Condoms in my pocket......at the in-laws for Christmas.....Well yeah know of course I've got Condoms in my pocket!!!!!!

LMAO... getting my teeth cleaning at the dentist.... in my purse! Now that is funny as $hit!

N

[Additude]

Personally,

I think it's no big deal.

It's your rule and the guy, for whatever reason did have a condom, it just didn't fit him. Maybe that's all he could get at the time, maybe he thought it would fit, maybe it's really as simple as inexperience...who knows? He did bring one however, it's not like he showed up without one in ignorant defiance of your rule to have one.

Sure, it could have also been a ploy....offer the dude a condom if you have one. Why not? It's your rule.

It was, I am sure an uncomfortable situation to begin with. Don't be so demanding of the situation.

But that's just my opinion.

You should always do what works best for you, what your most comfortable with, which is exactly what you did and which isn't necessarily anything bad.

[sexylady1970]

We always use them for penetration, no exceptions. Just in case we carry various sizes and shapes too just in case.

An interesting situation arose a few months ago.....One of our regular couples mentioned that she had a reaction to the condoms another partner used, but not with ours. We shared the information on what type we used that particular evening. They went out and bought them as well to carry with them for playdates.

[Trace Ekies]

Pardon my frustration Spoo, but that guy is a booger-eater.

If we met with a single that didn't know his size I'd be a bit befuddled as well...as a 44 yo married man all I want to do is screw and I make damn sure that I'm prepared to do battle if the situation arises. (Although I only need one-third of a Magnum) But an uprepared single? I can't imagine it...

Your Booger-eater meter was spot on. It would be no different if he'd showed up sans cock. How can a single man, who wants to screw every woman he sees, show up to a place where a married woman is waiting to fuck him in ways he can't imagine, no strings attached, not be prepared? This is more proof that civility is dead where most are concerned.

There have been times where we, experienced swingers, have forgotten that little bag that vibrates her, lubricates holes and protects all. But never on a first playdate. We tend to be a little less concerned with those we know well and don't pay attention to this detail sometimes.

I would have done the same thing that you did, without question.

Trace

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Trace Ekies

Pardon my frustration Spoo, but that guy is a booger-eater.

Greatest. Line. Ever.

Originally Posted by Trace Ekies

How can a single man, who wants to screw every woman he sees, show up to a place where a married woman is waiting to fuck him in ways he can't imagine, no strings attached, not be prepared?

I agree with the entire post you've written here. You've painted my frustration perfectly in sharing yours.

I do want to say, though, that this happened to be a single male. That part of the story is really incidental. I'd have done the same with a married male - and to be honest we've had situations somewhat like this with a couple of married men - not quite the same, but certainly ones who were trying to "scam" away their rubber.

Spoomonkey

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by J&JSwinginPA

It sounds like there was some kind of inflection or little nuance about this situation that immediately sent up your defenses. Something made you uneasy, you made the right call, the wife supports the decision. Well played in my book.

I think J&JSwinginPA sums it up.

We all get signals - gut feelings - that guide our decisions. There isn't a set answer for all situations, each is unique, as this thread has shown.

Everyone's posts are very interesting!

LM

[Trace Ekies]

Spoo,

My frustration comes from the fact that you were probably as clear with him about the rules as you are with us in your posts. He has no excuse for his lack of preparation and highlights, once again, the problem we sometimes face.

You are correct that I made the assumption that the booger-eater was a single male. My apologies to all single males who understand and then respect the basic rules we set for ourselves and our trysts.

This situation could very easily have involved a couple who find it difficult to understand that condoms or whatever else you decide are a must.

"Manners are a way of showing respect for others". Disregarding a basic request is a complete lack of manners and thus shows a lack of respect.

Had you requested that he or they show up in skin tight wet suits that are purple with pink boa feathers he or they then have a choice. Say "no thanks" and don't show or start looking for a place to buy purple wet suits and a pink boa or two.

Had you told the offending suitor that you would provide the condoms then he and Mrs. Spoo may have gotten their brains fucked out and all would be happy.

Trace