Using a Brothel as a first experience?

[Curiousgeorge87]

First the background, we are a couple that has been to a few resorts/clubs and although we enjoyed each other alot and did the watching and be watched deal, never went past that.

After a few years ( 1 1/2) of this type of fun we are still kind looking to get to the next step. ( a mwm for his turn on, and a wmw for her turn on). We just haven't been able find another couple or singles that we seem to jive with (both personality and visual). we are also not really into the whole "friends with benifits" or "friends outside of the bedroom" deal. In addition, most of the places we have been to were pretty much dives and didn't really get us to motivated to go back.

Our question is, would a brothel be a better route for us to take? We are in Nevada several times a year and it could be set up pretty easliy. It would offer us the "get to it" arrangement and also cut to the chase a little. We know the wmw wouldn't be an issue there, but are there places that mwm could be set up at? Anyone have any experiences with this? Thoughts?

Thanks for thoughts...

[ncmd_couple]

Curiousgeorge,

Well, Ihaven't looked for it, but there is a thread around here that addresses that issue. Yes, it can be done, both ways, but there are risks, both ways. Your new here, I suggest that you poke around and read the threads with your SO and you will probably find ideas that will help you out. There is a good Swinger's Club in Vegas, the Red Rooster, that might be the solution to your desires.

S

[jjtrindc]

Interesting situation. I think normally, most here - including us - would advise against going using prostitutes because of a host of legal and health issue. Nevada, however, is different. Indeed, HBO has an occasional feature on a Nevada brothel where all kinds of people, including couples come in. Of course, our objection would simply be the cost...lol. If you are both on the same page, just looking for the sexual encounter, etc, than we see no reason why you shouldn't give it a shot to see if it works for you.

As you note, that takes care of the wmw situation. For the mwm fantasy, you'll still have to go the traditional route of clubs or ads. We saw in the news that Heidi Fleiss was trying to get a male brothel started in Nevada but not sure how that turned out.

I think most on this board would be curious where you have been looking. To have played for a year 1/2 and not found a couple or single to play with (and yes, the single woman is hard to find!), seems curious. Perhaps those on the board can offer advice on better clubs, better online sites, etc.

Either way, good luck and hope you find what you are looking for.

[JustAskJulie]

I would think a MWM (or MFM) would be fairly easy to set up, however FMF's tend to be a little more difficult. If you are comfortable with the brothel approach and in a position to take advantage of it, I don't see any reason not to.

The only thing that comes to my mind with it is that once you've done it and you want to do it again, are you going to have to continue to go that route?

Have you considered looking into finding other couples who also share your fantasies, and perhaps you can trade-off fulfilling them?

[MrkLin]

I live within 15 miles of 4 cathouses, to include the Moonlight Bunny Ranch featured in HBO's series Cat House, but I've never been into them. I have to admit that I didn't know that couples were welcome, or that an FMF threesome could be arranged. I know a couple of people that work in them, two of the girls and a bartender, so I would tend to agree with jjtrindc, in that the cost would make me run for the hills. I guess it's possible for you to have an FMF threesome at one of the houses, Curiousgeorge87, but be prepared to pay for it bigtime - we may be talking over $1000 here.

Man - I'm just in the wrong business...

[good times]

Also keep in mind that "professional sex" and fun sex are two different things and, I have been told, anyone who has had both can tell the difference. In other words, if having sex with someone who is "acting" like they enjoy it works for you, then the brothel may be fine. On the other hand if, like me, it matters that the person you are having sex with really enjoys having sex with you, you better pass on the brothel. And by the way, for those that have seen those shows like Cathouse, when they say they are doing it because "they just love sex", they are lying, or giving the proper sales pitch if you prefer. In reality, the prostitutes that I know all agree on one thing, they have a firm distinction between the job of sex and fun sex, the later is never engaged in at work, even though, as good actors, they will surely tell you that you are the best they ever had.

[MrkLin]

Originally Posted by good times

And by the way, for those that have seen those shows like Cathouse, when they say they are doing it because "they just love sex", they are lying, or giving the proper sales pitch if you prefer. In reality, the prostitutes that I know all agree on one thing, they have a firm distinction between the job of sex and fun sex, the later is never engaged in at work, even though, as good actors, they will surely tell you that you are the best they ever had.

I wasn't going to get into that, but yeah - what he said ^^^...

[iapr]

For some people a safe, legal and regulated brothel may be a viable option. Some brothels do cater to couples and couples are warmly welcomed (as in they will be glad to take your money)

For people that are really wanting to experience a FMF but are having a hard time finding someone that will work for them I think a legal brothel is worth some consideration.

What raises more questions in mind though is why are you having so much trouble finding playmates within the lifestyle? Finding a female for a threesome that is attractive and not flakey can be a chore but there should be guys lined up down the street and around the corner that would be glad to join you.

While I don't see anything wrong with taking a trip to a brothel I would be a little more concerned on why you are having such a hard time finding playmates through normal channels.

[K&JIntimates]

The timing of this thread couldn't be more appropriate. Keep us posted on if you choose to visit a brothel for your FMF. I'd be interested in hearing how that went.