Dr Dumb or How I learned to open mouth and insert foot to the knee...

[The Fuse]

Originally Posted by warrencouple

I don't even know what I said to start this, but I made probably the dumbest, stupidest statement I could have made.

"I'd want to put my foot down and say we still go to the open house."

Mr.

Thank goodness Mrs. warrencouple didn't react very strongly to that.

One of the possible effects of this is that she might be wondering whether you'd say something similar once you are both inside the club, or when you are in a room with another couple. Surely she wouldn't do anything she didn't want to, at least I hope not. But in a social setting or with another couple, it could set you two up for a conflict in front of other people. In my opinion, you should do whatever you can to put her mind at ease that you won't pressure her any more.

Good luck and enjoy whatever you do!

[warrencouple]

Originally Posted by Willing29

I can tell you one thing, if I said something like that I could forget about going to a club and them the sex would dry up. Not worth the risk, it's better to simply ask nicely.

Mrs. here. While the first is likely, the second would never happen. I enjoy sex WAY too much to ever withhold it for any reason.

Mr has finally gotten over apologizing so much for this incident. In my mind, it's over and done. Of course, it's still in my head whenever we go to that bookstore and probably will be for a long time but that's all. I'm not going to hold it against him or 'punish' him for it.