Do you prefer to play with lights on or off?

jdavisauto · 09-04-2008, 05:26 PM

As a swinger do you like to play with lights slightly dim, in bright light or off?
We like slightly dim lights but not too dark. We both are some what of voyeurs and like to watch each other. I love watching her getting sexual pleasure from some guy or girl as she is sucking my cock at the same time.

**BiloxiCouple** · 09-04-2008, 05:40 PM

Dimmer lighting. We have a multi-colored light bulb beside the bed for those moments.

SecretAsianMan · 09-04-2008, 07:58 PM

I would always prefer to at least have SOME lights on during sex -- not big ol' spotlights or anything like that (although, under the right circumstances that can be fun!).

Only a few times have I experienced sex in total darkness (via a well secured blindfold) and it was interesting, to say the least.

cpl36996 · 09-04-2008, 08:15 PM

my hubby and i like to play with dim lights on, we like to see each other face

quivers4me · 09-04-2008, 08:40 PM

I'm going to agree with dim lights. It's been a long time since I've had sex in the dark

jjtrindc · 09-04-2008, 09:22 PM

Lots of candles! Makes for a perfect setting and great lighting. You also never know when a bit of candle wax might come in handy

**cplnuswing** · 09-05-2008, 04:17 PM

Dim lights, even better with some low music

Too bright or too dark are equally bad - just doesn't set the mood.

sweet_tna · 09-05-2008, 06:22 PM

Candles are great, but only if they give off a decent amount of light. Basically, we like it bright enough to see but not enough to signal Batman.

=)

SecretAsianMan · 09-05-2008, 07:26 PM

Wha-?! ...aww, no sex by the light of the Bat-Signal???!!

C'mon... ya never know when a Dark Knight might come in handy!

sweet_tna · 09-05-2008, 08:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

Wha-?! ...aww, no sex by the light of the Bat-Signal???!!

C'mon... ya never know when a Dark Knight might come in handy!

Good point. And I've always wondered what's in that tool belt . . .

=)

cpl15701 · 09-05-2008, 09:30 PM

Dim lights and some music is always nice!

mixtupcpl · 09-06-2008, 06:59 AM

Completely dark with night vision goggles - like a tactical strike mission!

Actually, dim is good. Mood lighting is termed such for a reason. Mrs. Mix agrees.

3sumff · 09-06-2008, 11:02 AM

We have always done the candle light thing! Its the perfect lighting!

gatorvol64 · 09-06-2008, 12:10 PM

I like to be able to see at least a little bit. Truth is though...I can manage, and even enjoy myself, in any type of lighting. The amount of light going on is often determined by the time of day it is and who I am with.

Vol

red96 · 09-06-2008, 12:13 PM

I prefer some lights on, the visual aspect of the moment is a turn on for me.

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09-04-2008, 05:26 PM	#1 (permalink)
jdavisauto Together we are one Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 346 Location: Las Vegas Status: couple SLS Name:jdavisauto	Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? As a swinger do you like to play with lights slightly dim, in bright light or off? We like slightly dim lights but not too dark. We both are some what of voyeurs and like to watch each other. I love watching her getting sexual pleasure from some guy or girl as she is sucking my cock at the same time. __________________ Stop laughing or I WILL put my clothes back on.

09-04-2008, 05:40 PM	#2 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple YOUR PLACE OR OURS?? Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 2,763 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits SLS Name:graceful	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? Dimmer lighting. We have a multi-colored light bulb beside the bed for those moments. __________________ Billy & Elaine You can't fix stupid...

09-04-2008, 07:58 PM	#3 (permalink)
SecretAsianMan Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 476 Location: Los Angeles Status: Single Male SLS Name:Secret_Asian_Man	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? I would always prefer to at least have SOME lights on during sex -- not big ol' spotlights or anything like that (although, under the right circumstances that can be fun!). Only a few times have I experienced sex in total darkness (via a well secured blindfold) and it was interesting, to say the least. __________________ I used to be indecisive... now I'm not so sure.

09-04-2008, 08:15 PM	#4 (permalink)
cpl36996 Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 27 Location: miami/venezuela Status: couple	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? my hubby and i like to play with dim lights on, we like to see each other face

09-04-2008, 08:40 PM	#5 (permalink)
quivers4me Active Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 31 Location: Idaho Status: Single/F	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? I'm going to agree with dim lights. It's been a long time since I've had sex in the dark

09-04-2008, 09:22 PM	#6 (permalink)
jjtrindc Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 190 Location: Washington DC/NoVA Status: Couple SLS Name:jjtrindc	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? Lots of candles! Makes for a perfect setting and great lighting. You also never know when a bit of candle wax might come in handy __________________ Get nekkid with us at Desire Cancun May 9-16! In DC? We’re JJTRINDC on SLS and LL Last edited by jjtrindc : 09-04-2008 at 09:23 PM. Reason: Grammer

09-05-2008, 04:17 PM	#7 (permalink)
cplnuswing Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 599 Location: Georgia Status: couple SLS Name:gawildstreak	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? Dim lights, even better with some low music Too bright or too dark are equally bad - just doesn't set the mood.

09-05-2008, 06:22 PM	#8 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,930 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet SLS Name:Sweet_tna	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? Candles are great, but only if they give off a decent amount of light. Basically, we like it bright enough to see but not enough to signal Batman. =) __________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than die wondering what it's like.

09-05-2008, 07:26 PM	#9 (permalink)
SecretAsianMan Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 476 Location: Los Angeles Status: Single Male SLS Name:Secret_Asian_Man	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? Wha-?! ...aww, no sex by the light of the Bat-Signal???!! C'mon... ya never know when a Dark Knight might come in handy! __________________ I used to be indecisive... now I'm not so sure.

09-05-2008, 09:30 PM	#11 (permalink)
cpl15701 Registered Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 3 Location: Indiana, Pennsylvania Status: couple	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? Dim lights and some music is always nice!

09-06-2008, 06:59 AM	#12 (permalink)
mixtupcpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 175 Location: Pennsylvania Status: Couple SLS Name:mixtupcpl	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? Completely dark with night vision goggles - like a tactical strike mission! Actually, dim is good. Mood lighting is termed such for a reason. Mrs. Mix agrees.

09-06-2008, 11:02 AM	#13 (permalink)
3sumff Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 69 Location: California Status: couple SLS Name:pleezers Blog Entries: 2	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? We have always done the candle light thing! Its the perfect lighting!

09-06-2008, 12:10 PM	#14 (permalink)
gatorvol64 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,342 Location: Florida Status: Married Couple & half of a quad Blog Entries: 11	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? I like to be able to see at least a little bit. Truth is though...I can manage, and even enjoy myself, in any type of lighting. The amount of light going on is often determined by the time of day it is and who I am with. Vol __________________ He is the Gator and she is the Vol.

09-06-2008, 12:13 PM	#15 (permalink)
red96 Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 61 Location: Ohio Status: couple SLS Name:debchevy	Re: Do you prefer to play with lights on or off? I prefer some lights on, the visual aspect of the moment is a turn on for me. __________________ I have abandoned my search for truth, and am now looking for a good fantasy.

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