Anklet Right Or Left

[JustMrJ]

My wife has worn anklets for years... always puts them on her right ankle... no reason, just because she doesn't want to wear two at once...

Cheers!

[ownerspet]

I didn't think it mattered what side. I'm a guy and if asked this to say which side a woman should wear an anklet, I would probably say "let me see it on the left", "now let me see it on the right". Then I would pick the one that looked better. And say "It looks better on the ________side."

As far as any custom or tradition or some hidden meaning, by which side it's on, hell if I know what side to put it on.

[Mr.Essex]

Yay, I'm useful!

Thumb rings, anklets on the left leg and spade tattoos are all emblems of (usually race-based) cuckoldry.

Thumb rings worn on the left hand, with wedding ring on the ring finger, is a designator for a hotwife who allows her husband to participate. The thumb is the thickest finger on the hand , so it's usually a size-queen or BBC lover's hint of choice.

Left leg anklets are an advertisement of availability if worn in certain circumstances (swingers' club on Single Men nights, rap/"black" nightclubs, adult nudist beaches, etc). Often, the anklet will possess a set of charms (eg. intertwined or composite MFM symbol sharing one base/circle). If the woman is looking for black men, her anklet will have a spade. Subtle, huh?

Spade tattoos, OTOH, are all about race. A woman possessing a visible spade tattoo is (theoretically) declaring that she's a BBC lover. BBC, for those of us who haven't bothered to decipher it, stands for "Big Black Cock". IOW, if you see it approaching you, and you aren't black (and preferably hung like a stallion), you aren't going to get anywhere near her for the night. Unless, of course, you're also adorned with the symbol.

Are these symbols used in daily life? Probably not. Are they serviceable indicators of a woman's availability? Definitely. For every eprson who learns about the lifestyle through news specials and "underground" newspapers, there are more than a few people who see a few websites and decide to copy what the cock-filled hausfrau is doing on that page of Yuvutu. My first few swingclub experiences were replete with German women using the first two indicators. After I settled down at my club of choice, I saw a few women who had taken the time to use an eyebrow pencil to stencil a temporary spade onto their wrists. YM, as always, MV.

[realcplub2]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Another Swinger Myth... there is no special ankle that signafies that you are a swinger... Thumb rings do not signify that you are a swinger.

If you want to wear an anklet, wear and anklet where you want to wear it.

No Julie, THUMB RINGS on a woman are supposed to signify you are Bisexual according to my 18 yr old daughter, and my 23 yr old daughter in law..

The crack up is, they commented on it after noticing My Wife wearing them on BOTH THUMBS

[Greg & Sheryl]

Originally Posted by awesomecplmn

I would say that if you normally sit with your legs crossed, the anklet should be on the ankle which is "on top" when you sit with your legs crossed.

This seems to make the most sense to us. After all, if you're going to wear an anklet, you want it to be seen, right?

Originally Posted by Mr.Essex

Thumb rings, anklets on the left leg and spade tattoos are all emblems of (usually race-based) cuckoldry.

We've heard a few of these things before, but we're not quite sure how universal they are. The thumb ring thing is completely foreign to us. Regarding anklets, we think the design of the anklet has more significance that the anklet itself, or what leg it is on. An anklet with a spade charm, even on the right leg, would signify an interest in black men, but a plain anklet on the left leg would signify nothing. Of course, a spade tattoo would be obvious under any circumstances.

[Mr.Essex]

Originally Posted by Greg & Sheryl

This seems to make the most sense to us. After all, if you're going to wear an anklet, you want it to be seen, right?
We've heard a few of these things before, but we're not quite sure how universal they are. The thumb ring thing is completely foreign to us. Regarding anklets, we think the design of the anklet has more significance that the anklet itself, or what leg it is on. An anklet with a spade charm, even on the right leg, would signify an interest in black men, but a plain anklet on the left leg would signify nothing. Of course, a spade tattoo would be obvious under any circumstances.

Warning: This post is based on European standards. The information contained herein may not be applicable to American standards.

As I mentioned in my first post, one person's guidelines (malleable) can be another person's standards (adamantine). Europeans, in America, have been given the "libertine" title. IMO, every American that I met overseas has told me a tale which started like this "So,I was just hanging around in a little bar outside of Amsterdam/Rome/Brugge/Krakow...", and ended with this, "She sucked me off in the middle of a crowd!", "I didn't know that Italian men
liked to eat pussy! Giacomo ate me out for more than 2+ hours!", "He just dragged me into an alleyway and fucked me until I was dripping. God, It was so hot!", "She was blowing her husband and putting my dick in her ass at the same time!"

Seems great, right? And if you're a sheltered, young American, the idea of engaging in taboo sex is mentally fixating. One or two bouts of un-American fucking in a foreign land becomes the universal standard. Unfortunately, it's just a bit off. For all of the stories, Europeans are just like us. IOW, it's much easier to let go with an exotic stranger (for example, the dark skinned man with the delightful name of Shaquan), than it is to let go with Torvald/Petra/Sabine/Aloysius/insert un-American name here. And, in places with little to no foreign interraction (read: a much larger percent of the European landmass than we think), it's a daunting task for the average European couple to find like-minded playmates. Even in a country that's as sexually open as Germany, which has a much higher amount of out and proud lifestyle clubs/groups/participants per capita than the U.S.

So, when Ulrike decides that it's time to "let her hair down", (barring her citizenship to a major city or industrial area) she's as likely to spend an hour or two searching the Internet for tips and tricks as she would be to visit the club that's mentioned on the flier that she found on her windshield wiper.
(Yes, some clubs are that bold)
And in her research, she'll probably bump into a bunch of (translated from English) websites mentioning the rituals that are attached to our way of life. So, she may ask her husband to purchase a large ring for her thumb (because Hubby is good, but she's never been "stretched"). Her gag gift anklet is likely to find itself wound around her curious calf, so that it won't show when they're travelling. And, if the night's venue is advertising a "Black and White" theme, she'll draw a spade on her shoulder or breast. Because, after all, she's just following the website's protocols.

Now, what does this have to do with America, you may ask? Europe and America are alike in one way: landmass. There are sections of America that are essentially empty. I should know, I live in North Dakota.
The Swing Lifestyle profiles for my area are relatively tasteful and sedate. After all, most of them are experienced (if not veteran) swingers. However, you can see more than a few of the aforementioned hallmarks of the hotwife/shared wife lifestylers in some of the less savory websites (Average Amateur, AFF, any random NING board). And, with a few minutes of researching some of the other less populated areas of our lovely country, you can see that there are quite a few people who emulate those standards. So, even though you may not see those markers on a daily (or even weekly) basis, they're out there, and possibly closer than you may think.

P.S.- I doubt that she'll ever see this, but here goes. "Annika" (or whatever your real name is) you wanted something to remember me by, and I used a pen to give it to you. You didn't have to find a tattoo artist to fill in the spade, but I was honored.

[gatorvol64]

I'm right handed so I suppose that is why it goes on my right ankle. I've worn one for years. Before I noticed many others wearing them. The only comment I've ever gotten (other than it is pretty) was from one of Gator's cousins. Years ago she called me a slut for wearing it. I just brushed that off (seems it may have been true anyway). Guess who I've seen wear one now?

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[JDApopka]

An anklet with a spade charm, even on the right leg, would signify an interest in black men

First time I heard of that.. sounds interesting though.

[mixtupcpl]

Going to bump this thread just because its so supremely ridiculous.

Do you have any idea how many women wear thumb rings and anklets just as *gasp* jewelry? LOL!

Mr Essex, that run down is serious? Or were you kidding around? In any large city you will find literally thousands of people being a little off beat by wearing thumb rings, toe rings, and anklets.

Its kind of scary that there may be guys out there seeing that and thinking "yeah, she's cucking her husband with "BBC" b/c she has a thumb ring on her left hand"

I'd just advise anyone to be REALLY REALLY careful before making an assumption and ACTING on any of this silliness. LOL. Where I grew up, approaching a couple assuming something like that and hitting on the woman b/c of her ring configuration WOULD get you shot.

And as for the spade charm... MILLIONS of those are sold. Yeah, the small (infinitesimal?) percentage of population in the interracial cuck lifestyle use them, but I have known women who are NOT in that category that wear them because "its a good luck charm"

Its amazing how much shit people want to read into "symbols" that isnt there just because it may apply in some extreme niche. Its like the whole "which earring means gay" crap.

[Mr.Essex]

Originally Posted by mixtupcpl

Going to bump this thread just because its so supremely ridiculous.

Do you have any idea how many women wear thumb rings and anklets just as *gasp* jewelry? LOL!

Mr Essex, that run down is serious? Or were you kidding around? In any large city you will find literally thousands of people being a little off beat by wearing thumb rings, toe rings, and anklets.

Its kind of scary that there may be guys out there seeing that and thinking "yeah, she's cucking her husband with "BBC" b/c she has a thumb ring on her left hand"

I'd just advise anyone to be REALLY REALLY careful before making an assumption and ACTING on any of this silliness. LOL. Where I grew up, approaching a couple assuming something like that and hitting on the woman b/c of her ring configuration WOULD get you shot.

And as for the spade charm... MILLIONS of those are sold. Yeah, the small (infinitesimal?) percentage of population in the interracial cuck lifestyle use them, but I have known women who are NOT in that category that wear them because "its a good luck charm"

Its amazing how much shit people want to read into "symbols" that isnt there just because it may apply in some extreme niche. Its like the whole "which earring means gay" crap.

I, personally speaking, know that it's a bit extreme. That being said, there's a sucker born every minute. And there's a fleecer born within minutes of that sucker, so it's best to be wary. I'm not going to tell anyone to avoid wearing any of those artifacts for fear of "BBC rape", but forewarned is forearmed. Or, IOW, gang members are known to choose a specific color to signify allegiance. I wouldn't tell people to avoid blue or red at all times, but I'd warn them about wearing those colors (possible reactions, etc.) when involved in specific circumstances.