What is your greatest difference in age for a sex partner?

[SW_PA_Couple]

What is the greatest difference is age that has ever separated you and a sex partner -- an encounter or relationship either within or outside of The Lifestyle. Just curious.

~Michael

[NT69]

Before Mrs.N was my missus, she used to date a guy roughly 15 years older then her...


On another note - I must say that last year we were shocked when a couple we were going to play with declined due to the fact we were too old....


We are both in our thirties and the other couple around 20-22.

Love to hear from them again once THEY are in their thirties!


So I was actually also wondering if age difference is a problem within the lifestyle.

[BiloxiCouple]

22+ years

[Opportunists]

I have to say we don't play with many couples older than us either... Mrs. Opp is 31 to my 39... so a couple, say 45 would be well within my age range, but probably too old for her liking...

That said, we have a couple of playmates [we're meeting tonight btw] where he is 42 and she is 39.... so that would be 11 years difference for her on the older side.

on my end, we have another couple we play with regularly where she is 23 and another we've played with a couple of times and i think she may be 22 but i'm not sure... so 16 or 17 years younger for me.

[two4youinswva]

I guess about 12 years younger for me, and 16 years younger for her.

There's one couple that's about a dozen years older than us that we've wanted to hook up with (the feeling is mutual), but it just hasn't worked out... yet.

[cocpl2007]

many a play partner in the 24~35 age range. Never any over 60...for no particular reason, other than never met one who wanted to play.

[good times]

Youngest was 22, the oldest was 65. We are in our mid to late 40's. Widest age spread for me so far is 26 years, but I am still working on it, their is this cute 20 year old that I understand is interested.

[gatorvol64]

13 years older for me.

Vol

[ktimephoenix]

Mrs P is 18, i'm 25, and we've played with a couple that were 46. so that's 28 years between them/her, and 21 between me and her. needless to say, we learnt a little about the meaning of the term "naughty 40's"

youngest we've played with was 36... so still 18 years different from Mrs P.

not planned that way, they're just the people we clicked with. just had an awesome weekend with a couple in their early 40's.

[dodgechevy]

Lets see, I was 21 and she was 22. They were in their early 50's so it was at least a 30 year difference. I think they said we were actually younger then their kids.
We didn't actually get to completely full swap but we did do oral.

By the way I am 23 now, she's about to turn 24 in a week.

[red96]

We usually look for guys in our age group thinking they would/should be more mature and understand what we are about, that is not always true though. Recently we were contacted by a guy 20 years younger that actually gets it. We are in our late 40's, he in his late 20's. Normally we do not even consider anyone that young, but the initial message he sent made us re-think our age requirements. He was very polite and respectful and amazingly mature for his age in our opinion. We found out through chatting and e-mails that he was "coached" by a couple similar to us as to how to act in an MFM encounter and he took it to heart. He prefers to be with couples our age because in his opinion there is less chance for jealousy and drama to develop. He feels that couples our age are secure in their relationships and he is there for her enjoyment only. We set up a meeting , had a few drinks and talked for a couple of hours and were both very impressed. We decided that he would be a good playmate and set up a date to get together, it turned out to be our most erotic and enjoyable experience so far. I guess what it all boils down too is the attitude of the individual involved. We realize now that sometimes age is just a number and not to discount someone based solely on their age.

[tribbles]

30 years....

[two42lovers]

Good timing on this question. We're in our mid-fourties. Last night we played with a couple 24 years younger than us - we all had awesome fun. Until these two hotties, the biggest difference was 18 years younger. We also play with couples 15 to 18 years older. Feels like we are the perfect age for swinging - we have many friends in their young 30's to late 50's.

[2insandiego4u]

We tend to partner up with younger couples and singles. This is not really intentional - just how the chips have fallen so far! The biggest age difference so far has been 12 years younger, but that gap may be increasing very soon.

[Chicup]

The older I get the more upward my strikezone is.

When we started swinging and I was just barely 30, 36 seemed too old and was a turn off.

Now that I'm pushing 40, I don't pay attention to age but how they look. In my line of work I get to see peoples real ages and I'm always shocked how someone 10 years younger than me can look so much older. Likewise I know one woman at 58 who I wish was in the lifestyle (hell who knows maybe she is).

I think the oldest would have been about 10-15 years older than me. I didn't ask and I know they try to hide their true ages out of fear of being rejected based on age.