Kinkier than thou

socolais · 07-25-2008, 12:58 PM

We each have our own unique definition of "kinky". Some activities are so kinky, we see them as "completely undesirable" while others, we regard as "normal for us". There's a third set, the activities we enjoy only in our fantasies.

We can define ourselves by "what we do" or by "what we wont do". Or we can describe ourselves by the activities we'd like to try when the opportunity looks right - things fantasies are made of.

I guess the common fantasy of most "swinger wannabes" here would be recreational sex with others. Some folks have shared that they are looking for some level of a poly relationship.

So, what are your kinks that sound exciting to try when the time is right? Be descriptive.

For me:
Dark-room orgies - I think this fantasy started for me back in my "old school" photo days (silver halide and a small chemistry set). Total darkness "awakens" the other senses and would make some playtime a sensuous treat. I think many people fear it for the opportunity others would have to "get away with something" in the dark. Disrespect is unforgivable as always, and delt with promptly. When the opportunity presents itself, I'll jump on this in a heart beat.

Trading off threesomes - Long weekend at the cabin by the lake with another couple and the rule is "threesomes only". Only one person takes a break or we all take a break. If any two start kissing, that's an automattic invitation for either one of the others to join. Finish the weekend with a foursome before we head back home.

Swap for a weekend - Not just separate rooms, but separate houses. Maybe have the web-cams running.

***JustAskJulie*** · 07-25-2008, 04:16 PM

I don't think there's much of anything I wouldn't try if the time/place were right...except a few things that definately fall on the extreme side of kink (scat, beastiality, kids).

Like you I've long had the fantasy to try the dark room orgy if the situation were right. It really depends so much on the overall feel of the group involved and the knowledge that everyone will still be respected.

**lustylearning** · 07-25-2008, 07:20 PM

Be descriptive... gosh.

My fantasies would involve a DP, showering with a play partner or partners, swing sex, going on a swing cruise, and maybe sex outdoors. Not too kinky and not terribly descriptive. I suppose I can be kind of humdrum in my freakishness.

I know hubby would love to have sex in zero G. I suspect he'd just settle for plain ol' me in zero G though

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07-25-2008, 12:58 PM	#1 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 870 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple SLS Name:Bruce_Melissa Blog Entries: 11	Kinkier than thou We each have our own unique definition of "kinky". Some activities are so kinky, we see them as "completely undesirable" while others, we regard as "normal for us". There's a third set, the activities we enjoy only in our fantasies. We can define ourselves by "what we do" or by "what we wont do". Or we can describe ourselves by the activities we'd like to try when the opportunity looks right - things fantasies are made of. I guess the common fantasy of most "swinger wannabes" here would be recreational sex with others. Some folks have shared that they are looking for some level of a poly relationship. So, what are your kinks that sound exciting to try when the time is right? Be descriptive. For me: Dark-room orgies - I think this fantasy started for me back in my "old school" photo days (silver halide and a small chemistry set). Total darkness "awakens" the other senses and would make some playtime a sensuous treat. I think many people fear it for the opportunity others would have to "get away with something" in the dark. Disrespect is unforgivable as always, and delt with promptly. When the opportunity presents itself, I'll jump on this in a heart beat. Trading off threesomes - Long weekend at the cabin by the lake with another couple and the rule is "threesomes only". Only one person takes a break or we all take a break. If any two start kissing, that's an automattic invitation for either one of the others to join. Finish the weekend with a foursome before we head back home. Swap for a weekend - Not just separate rooms, but separate houses. Maybe have the web-cams running. __________________ Drama sold separately,,,,, some assembly required.....

07-25-2008, 04:16 PM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: Kinkier than thou I don't think there's much of anything I wouldn't try if the time/place were right...except a few things that definately fall on the extreme side of kink (scat, beastiality, kids). Like you I've long had the fantasy to try the dark room orgy if the situation were right. It really depends so much on the overall feel of the group involved and the knowledge that everyone will still be respected.

07-25-2008, 07:20 PM	#3 (permalink)
lustylearning Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 266 Location: Virginia Status: female half	Re: Kinkier than thou Be descriptive... gosh. My fantasies would involve a DP, showering with a play partner or partners, swing sex, going on a swing cruise, and maybe sex outdoors. Not too kinky and not terribly descriptive. I suppose I can be kind of humdrum in my freakishness. I know hubby would love to have sex in zero G. I suspect he'd just settle for plain ol' me in zero G though

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