are there many Christian swingers out there?

[ready_to_learn]

but I was wondering if there are many christian swingers out there. Since it basically goes against everything that the religion tells you but it's not like we all listen to all the rules all the time...

[sexcupid]

Check out the subforum on the religion topic:

Religion - The Swingers Board

[ready_to_learn]

thanks much!

[interested-05]

having been raised in a conservative church, then going thru a divorce after 19 years, I had to a lot of reevaluating of myself,my religious beliefs, and life as a whole, Icame to the following view of religion and my faith. First I am still a believer in what Christ did, and his sacrifice for all of mankind.
After reconsidering the scriptures and the lives of the old testament patriarchs, they had no probelm with having sex with a number of people. David and Soloman had a number of wives,and concubines. Abraham was married to his sister Sarah, and he also gave her to the pharoah. Pharoah wasn't exactly happy with Abraham when he found out either. God didn't cut them out of the relationship for it either.
So yes I am a christian, I dont go to church, because I think it would be viewed as hypocritical by some to go to church and violate the rules, as the average person understands biblical teaching. That being saidscriptures teaches us to love God and love our neighbor, even as we love ourself. I try to treat others with respect, not lie to them to get laid, respect their relationship, and if they say no, then no it is. If there is a mutual desire to enjoy sex, I dont have a problem with it. primarily there is no predatory sex goin on, and take responsibility for you shared actions , and enjoy the shared pleasures..

[ownerspet]

As odd as it may sound, yes there are swingers who practice christianity. I don't really know much about it though.

[VegasLee]

You may also want to check out the LIBERATED CHRISTIANS Web site You may find it is not as against things as much as you think it is.

[Fun4UinBham]

My girlfriend and I are both Christians in every sense of the word, and altho we have not had a swinging experience together YET, we are playing with it, fantasizing about it, coming close and we both want it, and there's no doubt it's going to happen. Do we feel guilty? Yes. We are in church every Sunday that we are in town. Do I think it's wrong....in a way, yes. I think that just absolute random fornication, screwing anything and everything that moves, is not very right or healthy. I think that sharing intimacy with a close friend or friends is questionable but not as objectionable or just flat out wrong. The bigger question is this: Do I have to be perfect to please God? Does what I do in this area make me not acceptable to Him? Am I "working" my way out of Heaven? NO, NO and NO! I am acceptable only thru Jesus. I am Holy only thru what he did. I am NEVER going to make it on MY merit. That's what Christianity is: Putting my trust in what HE did, not in my imperfect record! I can't add anything to what Jesus did on that cross. If what He did there isn't good enough, then I've got no hope, and if it IS good enough, as I believe it is(what a WONDERFUL, FREE GIFT!!!), then there's nothing I can add to it or subtract from it. As for this lifestyle, I hope we meet another Christian couple that we can do EVERYTHING with, including going to church and worshipping God together, and thanking HIM for His Love and the Free Gift of eternal life! (see John 3:16-17 and Romans 6:23!!! I tell ya, it's exciting stuff!!!) Thanks for lettin' me share!

[Edison Carter]

Ed here-- Gee another person citing John 3:16 and I'm not even at a sporting event.

Ya know, I have yet to meet an Evangelical, Catholic, etc who has actually read the entire bible at least once. If you did, you'd realize what a mess it is and hardly the text to follow as an absolute. If it were, I'd get to praise Jesus as I sold my niece into slavery (Exodus 21-7).

The truth is, if you'd like to have sex, go have it. The concerns of a god certainly never held Solomon or David back. Why you ? Of course wanting to sugar coat that it's okay as long as the other couple is a Christian is a self serving conceit. But hey, we all want to play it safer when we are uncertain about what we're doing.

I'm an atheist and have had sex group sex with christian women. It never came up, but after having sex with the other wife, should I let her know that I don't believe in a god and should they stone me in a small ceremony ?

Yep, today I'm cranky.

YouTube - President Bartlet takes on Dr. Jacobs

[realcplub2]

Y'know Ed.. I am so glad that you put the link up there, from the West Wing

I was thinking the very same type of arguement when I scolled down to your post..

Now then, Ready to Learn..

I wont burden you with the many tales I can tell about born again christians, who spend all week engaged in all manner of UN CHRISTIAN activities, only to look down thier noses at others.. and because they get up Sunday ( albeit, hung over ) and get to church they are so much better

Seems to me, that the Son of God, put forth an IDEA.. let them without sin cast the first stone.. So the concept of looking down the noses at anyone really isnt following those teaching now is it..

The Bible has been twisted and changed so many times thru out history, that, in its current form, many of the original books, are all but gone..

Warren Moon, yes the football player, was also a religious man, and a ordained minister.. He, with his wealth, took the time to go to Israel and learn Ancient Hebrew, and then read the actual texts.. In one of his last interviews, he said point blank exactly that, the Bible he grew up knowing has little to do with the original texts.

Y'see, the KING JAMES bible, was written by KING JAMES.. in the middle ages.. as was usually the case, the KING decided what was in and what was OUT.. So between that and the Roman Catholic Church, And the Bible conventions... twisting it, for thier own benefit.

Now, I will tell you this, I am not an atheist, rather, my belief is, so long as no one gets hurt, and everyone involved WANTS to be involved.. Its fine.. Want to invoke the name of god.. Fine.. so long as its..

Oh God Im Cumming.. or something like that..

[readytoplay104]

hi we are main stream christians and we are swingers

[danjan]

We are Catholics and swingers. We believe strongly in our religion but don't feel that our sex life is a sin. As long as both partners remain honest with each other, commited to each other and true to themselves(hard to do I know) and all participating people are willing no sin is commited.