What do you do after

oncewere · 07-12-2008, 08:49 AM

I've gotten some inklings that you all do this differently than we did.

What do you normally do with your playmate just after orgasm? How do you react to the after feelings? Do you just get up and say thank you, cuddle, smoke a cigarette?

When we were swinging Barb and I liked to squeeze every bit we could out of each encounter. I'd stay in my play partner as long as I could then we'd generally snuggle like spoons, fondling and kissing a bit, enjoying the hell out of our after feelings. While snuggling I would always compliment her and tell her how wonderful it was to be with her. After the snuggle we always shared a naked hug and kiss.

I'd be interested in what people do nowadays... and why.

Oncewere

realcplub2 · 07-12-2008, 12:25 PM

Umm.. Basking in the afterglow... Ok.. We do that sure..

Then what did you do?

Depending on the time, get a quick drink, have a smoke, then get ready for round 2..3.. or maybe 4 depending on the time..

Overthetop · 07-12-2008, 12:53 PM

Seems like these things lead to making an attachment. If that's what you want fine, but what if your SO doesn't like that idea?

cvcple · 07-12-2008, 01:00 PM

It depends on the couple and the situation. We like to do a little cuddling and laying around and just looking at each other and seeing the big smiles. Then of course come the hugs and kisses and then it might be breakfast depending on the time.

socolais · 07-12-2008, 01:22 PM

I'll usually cuddle a little bit while the ceilingfan dries our sweat if she's interested in a little cuddle too. I'll slug down a good healthy swig of water or beer and realize my bladder is full. We'll probably take a little bathroom break together and continue the fondling. At some point, I'll excuse myself and go looking for my wife.

tittietwister · 07-12-2008, 08:42 PM

Cuddle, pet, talk, rest and then on to round two.

willyoats · 07-12-2008, 11:01 PM

It all depends on how much I like the playmate and how much she likes me. It may be a long, tender period of coming down from the high with woman I am really fond of. That is especially true if we have been together several times and know each other well.

At the other extreme, we may part rather quickly if it was a mediocre encounter. It is really disappointing when she pops out of bed and it's obvious that she just wants to get to the next victim.

Malachista · 07-13-2008, 12:15 AM

With the right person: Cuddle, talk, continue
With the most other people: catch breath, clean up, maybe go to the bar and see is another round could come up with them
With the really bad ones: run, clean up, search someone else or leave the party (if already late or nobody nice and/or interresting around)

ktimephoenix · 07-13-2008, 06:13 AM

Our first plays with single Fem's we basically rejoined the party and chatted.

our first couple swap, we had to stop playing so i could go to work...

Miss Sunshine · 07-13-2008, 02:58 PM

when we are with another couple, especially ones we like, there is no after. We go for hours and hours, then kiss and say goodnight and go home , then fuck our brains out

**fun4Ds** · 07-13-2008, 03:07 PM

We usually exchange gifts after we are done......

What ! No gifts

O.k. then, lets just play some more

gatorvol64 · 07-13-2008, 04:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

We usually exchange gifts after we are done......

What ! No gifts

O.k. then, lets just play some more

You are just too funny.

Vol

widowerman · 07-13-2008, 06:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by oncewere

I've gotten some inklings that you all do this differently than we did.

What do you normally do with your playmate just after orgasm? How do you react to the after feelings? Do you just get up and say thank you, cuddle, smoke a cigarette?

When we were swinging Barb and I liked to squeeze every bit we could out of each encounter. I'd stay in my play partner as long as I could then we'd generally snuggle like spoons, fondling and kissing a bit, enjoying the hell out of our after feelings. While snuggling I would always compliment her and tell her how wonderful it was to be with her. After the snuggle we always shared a naked hug and kiss.

I'd be interested in what people do nowadays... and why.

Oncewere

Yeah, I love to cuddle after my swing partner orgasms. It is fun! That is of course she does orgasm. Hey, I try my best! In fact, on real special evenings, her orgasm becomes my calling card. I have had that happen. My swing partner told me it would happen, and it does. Beats doing that nervous 7th grader foot-in-my-disease of stuttering like a nerd to talk to a naked woman! Hell, I was like that with my wife after almost 22 years of marriage!

So, to cuddle with a woman who I help have an orgasm. YOU BET! Nothing could be finer! I hold her, she holds me. We hug, we kiss. We make small talk and our bodies are warm together. Just like Burt Lancaster and Deborah Kerr in From Here to Eternity!
Now to get that seaweed out of our hair. We made love, we are not in love. There is no shame to in that. Nevertheless, it is exciting. I just always try to say something different to each woman. That is only fair. Sometimes we say nothing; we let our bodies have their own dialog.

I am very appreciative of woman, and there is nothing greater than that all too familiar ego boost, the thank you from her. Reminds me of my wife.

realcplub2 · 07-14-2008, 01:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Overthetop

Seems like these things lead to making an attachment. If that's what you want fine, but what if your SO doesn't like that idea?

Thats a completely different question and deserves to be a thread of its own... Feel free to do so

Thrax · 07-14-2008, 09:06 AM

It used to be a high-five, but recently we changed to a fist-bump.

Thrax

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07-12-2008, 08:49 AM	#1 (permalink)
oncewere Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 118 Location: Eastern Washington Status: couple	What do you do after I've gotten some inklings that you all do this differently than we did. What do you normally do with your playmate just after orgasm? How do you react to the after feelings? Do you just get up and say thank you, cuddle, smoke a cigarette? When we were swinging Barb and I liked to squeeze every bit we could out of each encounter. I'd stay in my play partner as long as I could then we'd generally snuggle like spoons, fondling and kissing a bit, enjoying the hell out of our after feelings. While snuggling I would always compliment her and tell her how wonderful it was to be with her. After the snuggle we always shared a naked hug and kiss. I'd be interested in what people do nowadays... and why. Oncewere __________________ once were nostalgic for the good old days E Wash

07-12-2008, 12:25 PM	#2 (permalink)
realcplub2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 352 Location: North Central Florida Status: Couple SLS Name:putnamcocpl Blog Entries: 17	Re: What do you do after Umm.. Basking in the afterglow... Ok.. We do that sure.. Then what did you do? Depending on the time, get a quick drink, have a smoke, then get ready for round 2..3.. or maybe 4 depending on the time..

07-12-2008, 12:53 PM	#3 (permalink)
Overthetop Registered Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 8 Location: CALIFORNIA Status: M.MALE	Re: What do you do after Seems like these things lead to making an attachment. If that's what you want fine, but what if your SO doesn't like that idea?

07-12-2008, 01:00 PM	#4 (permalink)
cvcple Active Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 30 Location: minden, nv Status: couple SLS Name:cvcple	Re: What do you do after It depends on the couple and the situation. We like to do a little cuddling and laying around and just looking at each other and seeing the big smiles. Then of course come the hugs and kisses and then it might be breakfast depending on the time.

07-12-2008, 01:22 PM	#5 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 870 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple SLS Name:Bruce_Melissa Blog Entries: 11	Re: What do you do after I'll usually cuddle a little bit while the ceilingfan dries our sweat if she's interested in a little cuddle too. I'll slug down a good healthy swig of water or beer and realize my bladder is full. We'll probably take a little bathroom break together and continue the fondling. At some point, I'll excuse myself and go looking for my wife. __________________ Drama sold separately,,,,, some assembly required.....

07-12-2008, 08:42 PM	#6 (permalink)
tittietwister Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 143 Location: Not at Swingers Board Status: Couple	Re: What do you do after Cuddle, pet, talk, rest and then on to round two.

07-12-2008, 11:01 PM	#7 (permalink)
willyoats Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 217 Location: lady lake, fl	Re: What do you do after It all depends on how much I like the playmate and how much she likes me. It may be a long, tender period of coming down from the high with woman I am really fond of. That is especially true if we have been together several times and know each other well. At the other extreme, we may part rather quickly if it was a mediocre encounter. It is really disappointing when she pops out of bed and it's obvious that she just wants to get to the next victim.

07-13-2008, 12:15 AM	#8 (permalink)
Malachista Pussy on the Prowl Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 278 Location: Central Europe Status: Single Female Blog Entries: 27	Re: What do you do after With the right person: Cuddle, talk, continue With the most other people: catch breath, clean up, maybe go to the bar and see is another round could come up with them With the really bad ones: run, clean up, search someone else or leave the party (if already late or nobody nice and/or interresting around)

07-13-2008, 06:13 AM	#9 (permalink)
ktimephoenix Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 209 Location: Adelaide Australia Status: Couple	Re: What do you do after Our first plays with single Fem's we basically rejoined the party and chatted. our first couple swap, we had to stop playing so i could go to work...

07-13-2008, 02:58 PM	#10 (permalink)
Miss Sunshine Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 59 Location: massachusetts Status: couple	Re: What do you do after when we are with another couple, especially ones we like, there is no after. We go for hours and hours, then kiss and say goodnight and go home , then fuck our brains out

07-13-2008, 03:07 PM	#11 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,961 Location: Indiana. Status: couple SLS Name:mrmrsfun Blog Entries: 15	Re: What do you do after We usually exchange gifts after we are done...... What ! No gifts O.k. then, lets just play some more __________________ well... at least we are normal pervs

07-14-2008, 09:06 AM	#15 (permalink)
Thrax Celebrate perversity Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,396 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male SLS Name:Thrax	Re: What do you do after It used to be a high-five, but recently we changed to a fist-bump. Thrax __________________ You get what you play for.

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