How much play do you give foreplay?

[JustAskJulie]

The discussion on ED in another thread and this comment made there:

She talked about how she won't touch a cock that isn't hard and that if a guy isn't hard and ready to fuck just from seeing her naked or from the sexually charged situation that shes not going to waste time with him.

as well as some other posts that roll through my memory, make me wonder, how much time do you spend on foreplay when it comes to swinging? Do you just grab another couple and go fuck? or is the girl/girl play the only foreplay that goes on?

Personally, I like a bit of foreplay. Yes by the time we head back to a private room to play I'm pretty well ready to go but that doesn't mean I'm going to just rip your pants off and jump on your cock, nor do I expect to unzip your pants and find you ready and waiting to screw.

[des1re06]

Foreplay, hmmm

Girl/girl is lots of foreplay for everyone involved. At least in our situation.
While the girls are playing, we're also stroking the men and licking/sucking the men.

Once we separate into pairs, there's more oral and/or massage, then on to 69, then actual penetration.

So, lots!

Mrs. D

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by des1re06

So, lots!

We are all about the foreplay

[realcplub2]

Now lets be honest.. Sure there are times when its rip eveyrthing off, and get right to it, but for the most part, arent MOST encounters with other like minded adults.. all a nice long build up to the main event,i mean with out foreplay.. why bother.. Besides its always best to give the a taste taste before getting to it.. And then on to the main event.. and upon cumpletion..

only to rinse and repeat! At least for the most part our are, lol.. with rounds two, three and possibly four taking the rest of the night.. with plenty of taste testing too, lol

[sweet_tna]

I looooove foreplay, and lots of it! But it really depends on the mood of the evening . . .

=)

[slevin]

I guess I should give a bit more context to that quote (although it doesn't really change the question asked I don't think). The woman in question was up for giving a blow job and was absolutely up for a man giving her oral. She just wanted nothing to do with a flaccid penis; not in her hand or her mouth.

For Katrina and I we love foreplay. As others have mentioned there are always times when we're in the mood to 'just fuck', but most of the time we love the build up and the tease of a lot of foreplay, and varied foreplay. We also love to take a break, then get back to building things up again with more foreplay. It's (at least) half the fun

[JustMrJ]

Foreplay? What's that... I just like SEX!

I mean really, Foreplay, Midplay, Afterplay... Just PLAY!

It's all good and I like it all... *HUGS*

[good times]

She talked about how she won't touch a cock that isn't hard and that if a guy isn't hard and ready to fuck just from seeing her naked or from the sexually charged situation that shes not going to waste time with him.

Well, were this woman saying that to me, their would be zero chance we would ever play.

As far as I am concerned, foreplay is essential, and no, I almost never get hard just by seeing a woman naked.

Sometimes the foreplay starts long before we get to the bedroom. In that case it may be we throw off the clothes and go for it. But usually, their is a minimum of 10-20 minutes of foreplay in the play room before we get to the actual penetration part. Hell, time wise, that is at least half the fun.

[Mr. Sweet]

Originally Posted by good times

Well, were this woman saying that to me, their would be zero chance we would ever play.

As far as I am concerned, foreplay is essential, and no, I almost never get hard just by seeing a woman naked.

Sometimes the foreplay starts long before we get to the bedroom. In that case it may be we throw off the clothes and go for it. But usually, their is a minimum of 10-20 minutes of foreplay in the play room before we get to the actual penetration part. Hell, time wise, that is at least half the fun.

I have to agree with you.....maybe when I was in High School a naked woman would get me hard every time (well, maybe isn't the best word...definitely). Now that I'm a few years older (waiting on the 20 year reunion soon) and been around the "pie" a few times, that just isn't the case.

So....I've gotten a lot a practice at foreplay with Mrs. Sweet and have to say, I love to torture her for prolonged periods of it so that she fighting to get at it!!!

Heck foreplay was practically the name of my intramural football team in college!!!

[gatorvol64]

I can't imagine no foreplay (well, occasionally I don't have to try to imagine it ). But do I get all hot and bothered all the time by just nakedness? No. Why should a man?

I don't think I'd want either of my men to play with a woman who felt like that.

Vol

[VanHlebar]

Damn...there is no way in hell that we would have played with a woman like this. Like GoodTimes, I just don't get hard just looking at a naked woman, with the exception of MrsVan

We both love foreplay, it a major part of the evening for us. It starts long before we actually hit the play room. Then once we are back get back to the room, we do get back to the room, we still have plenty of fore play (if you want to call it that, to me it is all part of the experience), but there is still plenty of licking, sucking and kissing going around.

That's just us though.

-Van

[willyoats]

A couple of women I have been with just wanted a stiff cock right from the beginning. Foreplay be damned!

It was a waste of time to go with them.

Of probably a hundred guys I know, more than half will not get hard without some direct stimulation. That's very normal, so a woman who doesn't want to touch a limp cock and doesn't want to help get it up is selfish and not worth the time.

On the other hand, a few guys had a hard on from the moment they saw my wife naked, and all they wanted to do was stick it in and get their rocks off. Foreplay be damned! They were a waste of time, too.

[K&JIntimates]

It seems a little unrealistic to expect a man to be hard just at the site of your naked body. There are times when that is enough but giving a little 'encouragement' just seems natural. A little kissing, nibbling, caressing, a few whispered naughty nothings sure do go a long way to make sure that cock isn't flaccid in your hand or mouth. If she didn't want to put any effort into getting what she wanted (a hard cock) then I agree with willyoats, waste of time!

[funcpl4life]

There is just so much fun stuff on a woman that it takes a bit of foreplay to get to ride all the rides. I want to find all the sensitive bits before we get to the slammin' and the screamin'. (and that's just me, it's great when she's into it too)

Mr FC4L