Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap?

***JustAskJulie*** · 06-28-2008, 04:20 PM

I was reading in an old thread where someone made the comment that any exchange of partners for sex (including just girl/girl sex) is not soft-swap but full swap. I guess I just never really thought of it that way... since in the end the guys aren't getting any sort of swap.

So what's your opinion? If the only cross-couple sex taking place is girl/girl, is that a full swap or a soft swap?

**fun4Ds** · 06-28-2008, 04:29 PM

Its not a full swap

Maybe, its a half swap

**good times** · 06-28-2008, 05:02 PM

I wouldn't consider it full swap, but then, it doesn't really matter to us as girl/girl play isn't going to happen anyway.

iapr · 06-28-2008, 05:34 PM

Absolutely not. I usually don't get into the label debates but I don't even consider people that only do fem/fem-only as real swingers let alone full swap.

Menage_a_Trois · 06-28-2008, 07:40 PM

I would have to agree with everyone else..........Nope, it's not what I would consider FULL swap..........to me that's "if one plays, ALL play......." and it would also mean men with women with more than just oral play happening.....but that's my opinion.

Pam

SweetandSalty1 · 06-28-2008, 07:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

Its not a full swap

Maybe, its a half swap

I agree!

**two4youinswva** · 06-28-2008, 07:56 PM

It's not full-swap.

It's an ice-breaker.

starryeyes · 06-28-2008, 08:08 PM

It could be the start of a nice evening... but definitely not full swap!

**fun4Ds** · 06-28-2008, 08:31 PM

Hum, I was just killing time over on Swing Lifestyle, untill Mrs.fun is ready to leave.

I just noticed a couples profile where only the female of the couple will play with the male and female of the other couple.

Her husband will only play with his own wife.

If I see this straight,

that has now become a 3/4 swap.

I mean, we are talking 2 couples here. I can see a half swap, a three quarters swap and a full swap....But, I dont think you could do a 1/4 swap without is being a soft swap.

Malachista · 06-28-2008, 08:45 PM

No - that would be an easy out

SexyNSingle · 06-28-2008, 09:17 PM

i would see it as a half swap also.

Playful1 · 07-01-2008, 03:46 PM

I dont consider it full swap.

two42lovers · 07-01-2008, 06:52 PM

Just exactly how/what are they swapping? Certainly it's not "full swap" - which basically means having intercourse with each other's partners.

We've played with couples where the male half only watches - we think of it as a threesome with an audience.

lustylearning · 07-01-2008, 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by two42lovers

Just exactly how/what are they swapping? Certainly it's not "full swap" - which basically means having intercourse with each other's partners.

We've played with couples where the male half only watches - we think of it as a threesome with an audience.

yup!

sweet_tna · 07-01-2008, 07:10 PM

I see it more as an appetizer vs. the main course.

=)

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06-28-2008, 04:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? I was reading in an old thread where someone made the comment that any exchange of partners for sex (including just girl/girl sex) is not soft-swap but full swap. I guess I just never really thought of it that way... since in the end the guys aren't getting any sort of swap. So what's your opinion? If the only cross-couple sex taking place is girl/girl, is that a full swap or a soft swap?
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06-28-2008, 04:29 PM	#2 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,489 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? Its not a full swap Maybe, its a half swap

06-28-2008, 05:02 PM	#3 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,919 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp	Re: Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? I wouldn't consider it full swap, but then, it doesn't really matter to us as girl/girl play isn't going to happen anyway.
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06-28-2008, 05:34 PM	#4 (permalink)
iapr Has Left the Building Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 832 Location: State of bliss Status: couple	Re: Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? Absolutely not. I usually don't get into the label debates but I don't even consider people that only do fem/fem-only as real swingers let alone full swap.

06-28-2008, 07:40 PM	#5 (permalink)
Menage_a_Trois Sex is emotion in motion! Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 576 Location: Reno, NV Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Menage_a_Trois	Re: Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? I would have to agree with everyone else..........Nope, it's not what I would consider FULL swap..........to me that's "if one plays, ALL play......." and it would also mean men with women with more than just oral play happening.....but that's my opinion. Pam
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06-28-2008, 07:56 PM	#7 (permalink)
two4youinswva Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 6,660 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads	Re: Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? It's not full-swap. It's an ice-breaker.
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06-28-2008, 08:08 PM	#8 (permalink)
starryeyes Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 99 Location: El Paso, TX Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:starryeyes	Re: Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? It could be the start of a nice evening... but definitely not full swap!

06-28-2008, 08:31 PM	#9 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,489 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? Hum, I was just killing time over on Swing Lifestyle, untill Mrs.fun is ready to leave. I just noticed a couples profile where only the female of the couple will play with the male and female of the other couple. Her husband will only play with his own wife. If I see this straight, that has now become a 3/4 swap. I mean, we are talking 2 couples here. I can see a half swap, a three quarters swap and a full swap....But, I dont think you could do a 1/4 swap without is being a soft swap.

06-28-2008, 08:45 PM	#10 (permalink)
Malachista Pussy on the Prowl Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 305 Location: Central Europe Status: Single Female	Re: Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? No - that would be an easy out

06-28-2008, 09:17 PM	#11 (permalink)
SexyNSingle Here to Stay Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 59 Location: British Columbia, Canada Status: Single Swing Lifestyle Name:TastyTreats4U	Re: Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? i would see it as a half swap also.

07-01-2008, 03:46 PM	#12 (permalink)
Playful1 A slut who likes to read Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 229 Location: Maryland, US. Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:Sebastiane	Re: Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? I dont consider it full swap.

07-01-2008, 06:52 PM	#13 (permalink)
two42lovers Luv seeing friends quiver Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 298 Location: California central coast Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:two42lovers	Re: Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? Just exactly how/what are they swapping? Certainly it's not "full swap" - which basically means having intercourse with each other's partners. We've played with couples where the male half only watches - we think of it as a threesome with an audience.
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07-01-2008, 07:10 PM	#15 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 4,221 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet Swing Lifestyle Name:Sweet_tna	Re: Is girl on girl sex actually a full swap? I see it more as an appetizer vs. the main course. =)
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