First FMF is set up but with many questions...

[herpob]

Okay background time with questions to follow.

My husband and I have been married for ten years and having 3somes with a few of our male friends. He has always loved watching me suck other men's cocks and get fucked every way imaginable. I’ve been banged by up to 8 of our male friends at one time for hours and hours, talk about A M A Z I N G !

I am a very sexy blonde with 36C tits, nice ass, and trimmed bush. I always act the role of the prim and proper lady when in public. Get me behind closed doors...and look out. I always have a wild, glassy-eyed look when I am having too much fun and sex with cocks is F U N!!!

My favorites time are always good ole threesomes, more intimacy, more close up and personally in your face more making love than pure raw sex. I can concentrate on the two guys better and what they are both doing. I love it when two cocks are side by side in my hands, mouth, pussy, and anus; it still always sends thrills throughout my entire body.

My husband had been pushing for our first bisexual encounter but I so love the guys that I never really flowed with it. Finally he pressed the issue and set it up. It was with one of my favorite guy friend’s wife. She was a cute perky little thing with a very HOT body and VERY limber. She had tried to get me to join her and her husband for a threesome several times but as I keep stating, I so loooove my men and their cocks. Her husband was totally agreeable as long as we all sit around and discuss all the juicy details one evening that week.

I went along with the plans since last month I had asked for and got an eight guy train ran on me for three days straight not only doing me double many times pussy and ass but also repeatedly dual pussy, dual anal, and dual oral. I sucked so much cock and drank so much cum over the course of those three days; did I mention I am a cock addict? I am soooo addicted to the male cock it is borderline serious! All the men are happily married to women we know well and they all know what goes on, everyone is clean and only stay within our group so it stay clean. Most of the other women are not frequent sexual partners for their husbands and do not have a problem with them getting extra sex from other married women in our group as long as everyone always knows what is going on. It is a great community and great friendships, sort of our own small private swinging community.

I'm not selfish and will go with the flow for my man so I am okay with him pressing me about the fmf. I truly get it. Honestly he is due this. I am just not certain how to go about it all keeping it fun light hearted and not cheating anyone of their "good times." I am not certain I can play a convincing enough part in it all not to blow it for everyone. Any input, ideas, suggestions?

So far I plan on telling Teri where I am coming from, that I am agreeable to this for my husband. I figure the rules are simple don’t ask “me” to do anything lesbian like but so as to not dampen their fun she can do pretty much whatever she wants to me or with my body, no mouth to mouth contact between for us and no pussy eating for me. Teri and my husband can do whatever they want, no holes barred.

So what do you guys think? Anyone been in a similar situation where you had sex with someone for your mate? How did you keep it from ruining the mood? Etc?

Thx everyone for your insights…

[des1re06]

To me it's rather simple - you're doing this for his pleasure. You really don't have to have any contact with her at all. If she's bi or not, you can talk to her beforehand and let her know what you're comfortable with. As a bi female, I always respect the comfort level of the other female, and focus on pleasing the man in a FMF.

You can:

Hold his hand, while you pleasure yourself with a nice dildo. Giggle and say, "this is my Bob for tonight"

Touch him, kiss him, lick him while she's getting fucked

Have explosive sex with your hubby later, when he's recuperated

Enjoy!

Mrs. D

[arvcpl]

Originally Posted by herpob

Okay background time with questions to follow.

My husband and I have been married for ten years and having 3somes with a few of our male friends. He has always loved watching me suck other men's cocks and get fucked every way imaginable. I’ve been banged by up to 8 of our male friends at one time for hours and hours, talk about A M A Z I N G !

I am a very sexy blonde with 36C tits, nice ass, and trimmed bush. I always act the role of the prim and proper lady when in public. Get me behind closed doors...and look out. I always have a wild, glassy-eyed look when I am having too much fun and sex with cocks is F U N!!!

My favorites time are always good ole threesomes, more intimacy, more close up and personally in your face more making love than pure raw sex. I can concentrate on the two guys better and what they are both doing. I love it when two cocks are side by side in my hands, mouth, pussy, and anus; it still always sends thrills throughout my entire body.

My husband had been pushing for our first bisexual encounter but I so love the guys that I never really flowed with it. Finally he pressed the issue and set it up. It was with one of my favorite guy friend’s wife. She was a cute perky little thing with a very HOT body and VERY limber. She had tried to get me to join her and her husband for a threesome several times but as I keep stating, I so loooove my men and their cocks. Her husband was totally agreeable as long as we all sit around and discuss all the juicy details one evening that week.

I went along with the plans since last month I had asked for and got an eight guy train ran on me for three days straight not only doing me double many times pussy and ass but also repeatedly dual pussy, dual anal, and dual oral. I sucked so much cock and drank so much cum over the course of those three days; did I mention I am a cock addict? I am soooo addicted to the male cock it is borderline serious! All the men are happily married to women we know well and they all know what goes on, everyone is clean and only stay within our group so it stay clean. Most of the other women are not frequent sexual partners for their husbands and do not have a problem with them getting extra sex from other married women in our group as long as everyone always knows what is going on. It is a great community and great friendships, sort of our own small private swinging community.

I'm not selfish and will go with the flow for my man so I am okay with him pressing me about the fmf. I truly get it. Honestly he is due this. I am just not certain how to go about it all keeping it fun light hearted and not cheating anyone of their "good times." I am not certain I can play a convincing enough part in it all not to blow it for everyone. Any input, ideas, suggestions?

So far I plan on telling Teri where I am coming from, that I am agreeable to this for my husband. I figure the rules are simple don’t ask “me” to do anything lesbian like but so as to not dampen their fun she can do pretty much whatever she wants to me or with my body, no mouth to mouth contact between for us and no pussy eating for me. Teri and my husband can do whatever they want, no holes barred.

So what do you guys think? Anyone been in a similar situation where you had sex with someone for your mate? How did you keep it from ruining the mood? Etc?

Thx everyone for your insights…

Am I just getting crusty and suspicious in my old age or does anyone else think this sounds like it was actually written by a guy?

[2aussies]

Arvcpl, I really agree with you. In fact, it's pretty boring.

[herpob]

Originally Posted by des1re06

As a bi female, I always respect the comfort level of the other female, and focus on pleasing the man in a FMF.

Thank you so very much for your input Mrs D.

I spoke with Teri today and it appears she is hoping for more. I spoke with my husband more in depth about it all as well and so is he. As you mentioned, it is really about pleasing the male in a FMF and since he is hoping for some girl on girl action. I think I need to think about this some more to find a way that we will all be comfortable and still have loads of fun.

ty,

L


As far as arvcpl & 2aussies and as for my writing skills, perhaps I am not as articulate as the two of you apparently are, I am not a writer and this is not a story or it would have been in that area of the forum. Who really cares if you think it is boring that is beside the point, either help or hush. Frankly, if you are not going to be of assistance then don't waste the space on the forums. I tried to write this to best clearly explain the situation since it is new to me. I need serious input such as from Mrs. D, not people who wish to be impolite. I thought the forum rules disapprove of this sort of behavior??? Hmmmmmm...

[JustAskJulie]

There's really no reason that having a FMF means you have to do anything with the other woman. Your husband has spent much time making sure you were pleased, so now this threesome should be about pleasing him; both you and this other lady doing whatever you can to make him feel as wonderful as all those guys have made you feel.

Just talk to the other lady and let her know that that is the plan and I'm sure she will work with you on this. Most of us really enjoy the idea of seeing someone else be completely pleased and satisfied.

[JustAskJulie]

Just read the reply you made while I was reading and typing.

While I feel like a standard FMF is basically equivalent (or as close to as he might actually get) to what you have been enjoying with so many men at once. I think that if you really have no interest in being with other women sexually that you need to make that clear. Your doing so when you have no interest is no different than you expecting him to having bi-male sex when you do your gangbangs, MFM's, etc. I'm guessing he's not into that so your expecting him to do something he had absolutely no interest in would probably not go over well.

[herpob]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Just read the reply you made while I was reading and typing.

While I feel like a standard FMF is basically equivalent (or as close to as he might actually get) to what you have been enjoying with so many men at once. I think that if you really have no interest in being with other women sexually that you need to make that clear. Your doing so when you have no interest is no different than you expecting him to having bi-male sex when you do your gangbangs, MFM's, etc. I'm guessing he's not into that so your expecting him to do something he had absolutely no interest in would probably not go over well.

Wow that is an excellent point. If I were to ask him to do stuff with the guy or let a guy do stuff to him he'd probably freak. Ty Ty Ty Ty Ty I have no idea why I didn't think of that my self. That helps a ton!

Thx!


BTW - is it okay to private message you? I have a question about my profile.

[herpob]

"Set up clear guidelines though with flexibilty since once you all get going hot and bothered people will loosen many contraints... hmmmmm I think I just answered a dilema I was having."

Julie and Mrs. D with your insights and the advice I gave in another post to someone I think I have it covered. Thanks a ton ladies!

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by herpob

BTW - is it okay to private message you? I have a question about my profile.

feel free. I'll be happy to answer any questions you have.